Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Through a mutual friend, had a girlfriend at the time so I didn't holla. She was in med school at my alma mater, I had a gig so we were busy adults w busy schedules. We were acquaintances for like 2 months before she suggested we go to dinner.
First date, I paid for dinner.
Second date, we met for coffee.
Third date, she declined cuz she was out of town. I was about toss her in the bushes if she didn't reschedule. The day she came back, she said she was too busy to hang out but she would cook lunch while I watched Sunday football in her apartment while she studied.
She easily could've used being "busy" as an excuse, but she made time for me, even at her busiest. She wasn't into playing those "think like a man" games, and always kept it 100.
Through a mutual friend, had a girlfriend at the time so I didn't holla. She was in med school at my alma mater, I had a gig so we were busy adults w busy schedules. We were acquaintances for like 2 months before she suggested we go to dinner.
First date, I paid for dinner.
Second date, we met for coffee.
Third date, she declined cuz she was out of town. I was about toss her in the bushes if she didn't reschedule. The day she came back, she said she was too busy to hang out but she would cook lunch while I watched Sunday football in her apartment while she studied.
She easily could've used being "busy" as an excuse, but she made time for me, even at her busiest. She wasn't into playing those "think like a man" games, and always kept it 100.
wait you didnt try to smash
good job
wait you didnt try to smash
good job
Of course I tried
Didn't happen for a while tho
If me and my girl breakup, I'm done with long term relationships, no way in hell will I find another woman like this in America and no way in hell I'm going to put in the time to get to know another chick. I feel for you single dudes that actually want a quality chick, even in NYC where women outnumber men it's hard for these dudes cause all these bytches want to pretend they're living a Sex in the City lifestyle of brunch, lunch, dinner and broadway show everynight. All these bytches want to do is go out every night in some way shape or form, it's like can't you sit home one night and just chill? Does every night have to be some get together.
I hear these stories from my girls' friends and these bytches are truly clueless as to why they're single. They will tell me they wish they had someone like me, and I quickly tell them we wouldn't last two weeks, I'm not about to take you out to dinner every fukking night or go to the club so you can pose for the same picture you took last week at the very same club. These are the type of women that want to be seen by other men, even when they're out with you, just in case Victor Cruz happens to be at the club that night
I TOLD y'all these women really get caught up in these movie/TV characters and they see themselves as that person. TV shows/movies nowadays are just close enough to reality to where women feel they can act out what they see.
And you know what's funny, these go out all the time chicks ar the ones that by age 29-30 begin to show signs of cracking. Alcohol, late nights, living it up, even being dishonest takes a toll on you physically.
Tip for you fellas. Look beyond the makeup.
we need a thread about GROWN men in relationships.. not jus trying to fukk.. im WAAAAAAAAAAAAY past that..
Right now im fighting with this "good man" shyt.. im hearing about what the next man would do.. or how shyt should go/ b in the relationship.. and its like.. where does she get her P.O.V.? like is there some good man manual she reading from that i am not following..
Breh, I've mentioned this before, but alot of these women are listening to these facebook/twitter authors about relationships. These are male authors who may have a book out, or a blog, and they are giving away "male secrets" to women about how we men think and what women should watch out for.
It'll be something like, "Ladies, a good man will SHOW you how much he cares for you. Watch his actions, not his words" #talkischeap
It's all this whole "think like a man" wave that is popular right now.
It's all a bunch of crap because you can't paint every man with just one brush. But women eat it up and retweet it and share it with their single friends, etc. all the while their minds are being poisoned by the very thing they think is teaching them.
Through a mutual friend, had a girlfriend at the time so I didn't holla. She was in med school at my alma mater, I had a gig so we were busy adults w busy schedules. We were acquaintances for like 2 months before she suggested we go to dinner.
First date, I paid for dinner.
Second date, we met for coffee.
Third date, she declined cuz she was out of town. I was about toss her in the bushes if she didn't reschedule. The day she came back, she said she was too busy to hang out but she would cook lunch while I watched Sunday football in her apartment while she studied.
She easily could've used being "busy" as an excuse, but she made time for me, even at her busiest. She wasn't into playing those "think like a man" games, and always kept it 100.
Just like I said if a chick really really likes you no matter how busy she is she will make time
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thelonious21
I like my women tall
fam.. like its crazy.. cuz i fukked up and gave her the power of knowing how much i need/ care for her cuz i fukked up by cheating.. so now its like.. shyt the next man/ does this and why arent we / she getting the same..
jus
son.. most of the time.. its liek i want to be like ok.. go find this GOOD man.. and give him the same bullshyt you give me.. see how much of a fairytail that shyt turns out to be
fam.. like its crazy.. cuz i fukked up and gave her the power of knowing how much i need/ care for her cuz i fukked up by cheating.. so now its like.. shyt the next man/ does this and why arent we / she getting the same..
jus
That was gonna be my next piece of advice
But yeah, its never gonna get better since you cheated and begged her to stay. Sometimes you gotta take your lumps and let her leave you.
fam.. like its crazy.. cuz i fukked up and gave her the power of knowing how much i need/ care for her cuz i fukked up by cheating.. so now its like.. shyt the next man/ does this and why arent we / she getting the same..
jus
Time to throw that relationship in the
thelonious21
I like my women tall
That was gonna be my next piece of advice
But yeah, its never gonna get better since you cheated and begged her to stay. Sometimes you gotta take your lumps and let her leave you.
thelonious21
I like my women tall
Well, its time for you to start speaking out about what expectations she's not living up to. Squeaky wheels get oiled, so speak up. Tell her straight up the relationship isn't all about her, and that you'd like her to cook and what not. Do yall live together?
Ask yourself this: For all that she is expecting you to do for her, what is she bringing to the table? If the only answer is p*ssy and companionship, tell her she can keep that
nah but we damn near do.. always at my crib and we got a kid fam.. so this aint no new shyt
fam.. like its crazy.. cuz i fukked up and gave her the power of knowing how much i need/ care for her cuz i fukked up by cheating.. so now its like.. shyt the next man/ does this and why arent we / she getting the same..
jus
Thing is when you cheat on a woman a stay she will always use that against you
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yup might as well just end the relationship
she has every reason to suckk some random d1ckk now
Also when you cheat on a woman and she gives you a second chance, she NEVER lets that shyt go. She'll bring it up in the most absurd situations and will be questioning every move you make and where you were every second. Might as well start from scratch with a new broad.