Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Yeah i usually just tell a girl shes waaay to pretty to be on online dating


I just bullshyt my way but yeah women can smell a nikka who lacks confidence trust me. Just dont come off a creep. I talk to all women differently depending on there looks. That actually sounds really shallow but whatever

I give up.

I dont understand how I come off as a creep with 2 sentences or I lack confidence by making a joke. I've tried different approaches too,so it ain't like I haven't been trying.

I think the chicks take a second look at my pics and go and keep it moving. I've tried the bullshyt compliments,being myself that shyt don't work.

 

[Max B]

I give up.

I dont understand how I come off as a creep with 2 sentences or I lack confidence by making a joke. I've tried different approaches too,so it ain't like I haven't been trying.

I think the chicks take a second look at my pics and go and keep it moving. I've tried the bullshyt compliments,being myself that shyt don't work.

You see. You give up to easily ma nikka thats weak. Persistence key my friend.


If anything just go out to bar or club one time and see it goes then you will know if your game is on point. Online dating is whole different ball game

 

[Youseenmywork]

Yeah i usually just tell a girl shes waaay to pretty to be on online dating


I just bullshyt my way but yeah women can smell a nikka who lacks confidence trust me. Just dont come off a creep. I talk to all women differently depending on there looks. That actually sounds really shallow but whatever

Actually it's not...lol keep at grasshopper


r/Rateme

 

[Max B]

Actually it's not...lol keep at grasshopper


r/Rateme

That rating system can actually work

 

[Youseenmywork]

That rating system can actually work

...Yeah it just teaches you what type of confidence to approach with or how much to approach with should I say.

 

[MidniteJay]

That rating system can actually work

I don't know, I'm partial to the scale one guy in the comments posted. 1= No, 2= Would smash but not brag about it 3= Would smash and proudly brag

Reminds me of the Cuff, Smash, Pass.

 

[Warren Moon]

Man idk what's up with me now. Had a chick I thought was as close to perfect I could get and she turned out to be a sugar baby, fukking old Nikkas and yts for money.




She treated me well too and was classy intelligent. Now idk if it was all a front or not.


It seems I just like hoes all the ones I got close too are like beyond regular hoeness to whore.


And the good chicks I won't give a single moment of my time too.


I sound like a 16 yr old girl man

 

[Dominicansbelit]

ya nikkas over think this too much... treat women like a male friend and the ones who like you will show it and u just show it back and that's it :/

 

[jadillac]

Brehs, I just hate the fact you can't trust chicks these days.

What happened to meeting someone at the mall or school, y'all go out, both have a good time with each other. Keep chatting/texting with each other afterwards, talking about ur next date. You're not even THINKING about her going out searching for a new dude the next day. At least she's waiting a few days to see where things go.


Nowadays, you and a chick you met on Tinder/POF hit it off on a 1st date, ya'll still texting each other afterwards, talking on the phone, planning another date.....then you see her logged onto Tinder.


I'm not saying "we go together" after just a couple of dates.....but damn, you're already looking for other dudes while telling me how much fun you had and want to hang out again. And I'm supposed to be paying for these dates?

Am I just paying you to enjoy your company/time? I might as well just get a prostitute.


From here on, as long as you're actively searching on dating sites, we're SPLITTING costs of dates. Even the seemingly nicest woman could be using you for dinner/dates, while having another dude who comes thru late at night.

 

[Alfred0Santana]

Bruhs I'm really starting to think I won't ever get to a place where I would be willing to trust a woman who isn't family. I just got to Korea for work a couple weeks ago and man the stuff I'm seeing is mind blowing. I was always on some whatever shyt when it came to marriage, didn't particularly care either way. Now, I'm leaning towards hell no. These married shorties are out here with zero damns given about their husbands.

This isn't anything new or revolutionary by any means but it just solidifies my sentiments.

Damn them broads still on that out there? When I was in the Air Force, Korea was my first stop. I ate well. I knew a lot of chicks out there married and they was just wilding out for a whole year. Most of the nikkas I hung around was Maintenance and they was savages. Smashing hoes friday and saturday and then be on Skype with the wifey back home on Sunday. Females did the same. They would be basically out there in full fledge relationships with dudes..and it went on with all ranks. Just do you breh

 

[Youseenmywork]

Got this women's phone number on Saturday. I text her yesterday and we had a good exchange ...meaning I had laughing. When the conversations got a little serious as in me asking her full name and what she like to do for fun on the weekends when she not working so we can hangout ....she hit me with the i like to the movies and she has a boyfriend. () Now mind you I used to sell cars and this girl worked at the same lot but we never really talked like that (this was about 2 years ago). I just so happen to run into her at the mall and she gave me her number. She's say she was dating the same dude she was then and she expected me to know him cause he was cool with everybody that was selling cars at the time. I don't remember this guy at all but it's besides the point. Why do women give there phone number away when they know they have a boyfriend ()? Anyway that was the last text I received from her letting me know she has a boyfriend and that she like go8ng to the movies and stuff.I didn't even respond back and don't know if I should.

 

[Spades Of Aces]

Got this women's phone number on Saturday. I text her yesterday and we had a good exchange ...meaning I had laughing. When the conversations got a little serious as in me asking her full name and what she like to do for fun on the weekends when she not working so we can hangout ....she hit me with the i like to the movies and she has a boyfriend. () Now mind you I used to sell cars and this girl worked at the same lot but we never really talked like that (this was about 2 years ago). I just so happen to run into her at the mall and she gave me her number. She's say she was dating the same dude she was then and she expected me to know him cause he was cool with everybody that was selling cars at the time. I don't remember this guy at all but it's besides the point. Why do women give there phone number away when they know they have a boyfriend ()? Anyway that was the last text I received from her letting me know she has a boyfriend and that she like go8ng to the movies and stuff.I didn't even respond back and don't know if I should.

I assume that she gave you the number based on the primacy of you guys being good friends. Now that she mentioned she has a boyfriend, you have to ask yourself: is she worth the time investment, knowing that she has another man? Now if you aren't trying to smash and just want to be good friends, then no worries. On the other hand, if you trying to get some, then I wouldn't bother. Too much drama could come from it. You want to deal with women that are available to you without having to worry too much. At the very least, she told you up front so you're able to act rationally.

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Got this women's phone number on Saturday. I text her yesterday and we had a good exchange ...meaning I had laughing. When the conversations got a little serious as in me asking her full name and what she like to do for fun on the weekends when she not working so we can hangout ....she hit me with the i like to the movies and she has a boyfriend. () Now mind you I used to sell cars and this girl worked at the same lot but we never really talked like that (this was about 2 years ago). I just so happen to run into her at the mall and she gave me her number. She's say she was dating the same dude she was then and she expected me to know him cause he was cool with everybody that was selling cars at the time. I don't remember this guy at all but it's besides the point. Why do women give there phone number away when they know they have a boyfriend ()? Anyway that was the last text I received from her letting me know she has a boyfriend and that she like go8ng to the movies and stuff.I didn't even respond back and don't know if I should.

Leave it alone...if I were you.Even if you did hit it off persay she would do same thing to you.No woman respects a man who she does dirt with

 

[Rocket Scientist]

Brehs, I just hate the fact you can't trust chicks these days.

What happened to meeting someone at the mall or school, y'all go out, both have a good time with each other. Keep chatting/texting with each other afterwards, talking about ur next date. You're not even THINKING about her going out searching for a new dude the next day. At least she's waiting a few days to see where things go.


Nowadays, you and a chick you met on Tinder/POF hit it off on a 1st date, ya'll still texting each other afterwards, talking on the phone, planning another date.....then you see her logged onto Tinder.


I'm not saying "we go together" after just a couple of dates.....but damn, you're already looking for other dudes while telling me how much fun you had and want to hang out again. And I'm supposed to be paying for these dates?

Am I just paying you to enjoy your company/time? I might as well just get a prostitute.


From here on, as long as you're actively searching on dating sites, we're SPLITTING costs of dates. Even the seemingly nicest woman could be using you for dinner/dates, while having another dude who comes thru late at night.

Game has changed you and I both older cats but we remember when you went to mall with a pen and pad to get a #. I say this again technology destroyed relationships.

 

[Youseenmywork]

Leave it alone...if I were you.Even if you did hit it off persay she would do same thing to you.No woman respects a man who she does dirt with

Well she text me last with the she has a boyfriend and etc. I don't plan on returning her text at all even before I post my story . And from what I've gathered she seems like a solid chic. I just hope she don't text me back. For what it's worth I don't have a single female friend and I don't need one. I be thinking what do these women add to my life ...if I were to have some female friends? I just don't see the need for female friends at 31.