Bravo to you for realizing that you need to heal yourself first before you can truly have a healthy relationship with another person. When we internalize issues from the past such as from childhood, it can have a negative impact on our relationships. People tend to project their issues onto others instead of looking inward. It becomes a cycle until you deal with the real issue. I wish you much success on your journey to a healthier you.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Delete them, they're not worth your time and obviously not respecting yours. I hope I have a son one day because I'll be darn he gets taken for a ride.
Dominicansbelit
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hold dis L .. women want to fukk.. why would you need to manipulate for that
L's are learning experience brehi regret just doing so much naive stupid shyt when i was younger. the pedestalization, just i regret not knowing things. as stupid as it may sound. if i could go back and just tell younger self the things i knew id be way better off.
AVOID pedestalizing women
AVOID Smothering
Stop with the poetry.
Lose more weight.
Stop fretting over your last ex. Get yourself in order and don't sit around.
Smash your other ex who was clearly throwing it at you.
Build confidence.
Stop believing she's the only one when there's better women out there that will value you.
Get other hobbies.
Homework before hoes.
dont beat yourself up man. there's no substitute for experience. if u dont have experience, you'll always second guess yourself in whatever situation you find yourself in. but when u've seen women do the same sh1t to you, once or twice, you know how to behave when the third time comes around.
I feel like it only makes me stronger. All my mistakes were my own fault. Plus I never got practical advice from any adult in my youth. Everything they told me never worked. I took so many hits, but I didn't give up. I used to friendship my way into a relationship. I was never taken as seriously. I used to get the runt treatment. God damn
the ether id get. I was the black sheep among wolves.
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Getting over the breakup and finally realizing you able to go out and upgrade on your last chick 
We don't teach manipulation in here breh. Manipulating a chick for sex is weak and will come with uneccessary headaches. Why not mess with women who really have an interest in you?
I used to think women needed drama to be satsified in a relationship but I think its more nuanced than that. They need that dangerous game of knowing they dude can bounce at any time (even if they are madly in love) and that keeps them in check. I made the mistake of making empty promises all the time like I'll always love you and shyt like that and for a while its fine but eventually they'll get bored with the lack of challenge no amtter how good you treat or fukking them. cole worl lesson lernt
FLYINHAWAIIAN
Vegan For a Reason
So me and my so called future wife broke up last week
We work together (yes I know
)
I pretty much said fukk IT.. IM GETTING AT EVERYTHING to keep me from being bored and moping. And this woman and daughter (bad slimthick yellabone came through the store and the momma gave me the daughter's number) I showed my ex's friend at the job the number on receipt paper. Yesterday I got another woman's number I got also. This girl (the friend) gone tell me YOU MEAN.
I'm mean cuz I'm moving on and not moping while she went back to her baby daddy?
Hell naw!!
I'm tryna be a male thot now
Edit::: I just left the barbershop not too long ago and I can't wait to go back to work so I can get at damn near every female. I work on a register and I'm shoots my shot all day from now on .
We work together (yes I know
)I pretty much said fukk IT.. IM GETTING AT EVERYTHING to keep me from being bored and moping. And this woman and daughter (bad slimthick yellabone came through the store and the momma gave me the daughter's number) I showed my ex's friend at the job the number on receipt paper. Yesterday I got another woman's number I got also. This girl (the friend) gone tell me YOU MEAN.
I'm mean cuz I'm moving on and not moping while she went back to her baby daddy?
Hell naw!!
I'm tryna be a male thot now
Edit::: I just left the barbershop not too long ago and I can't wait to go back to work so I can get at damn near every female. I work on a register and I'm shoots my shot all day from now on .
You can't go all out for these women, it sucks that this is the time we are in but honestly you just cant do it.
They dont respect a man that puts them 1st, they want it. They enjoy the idea of it, but once its in place they get bored and complacent. I'm telling you this from both personal experience 2nd hand experiences and observations.
Even the women with the best of intentions do this.
So from me, to all the brothers here that are like me who actually enjoy putting there woman 1st and spoiling them.
Dont, keep it spontaneous and few and far inbetween.
And for goodness sake don't come out the gate with it. A surefire way to get your feelings hurt and join team #HOH.
I'm not saying don't treat your woman like a queen, you should. But treat her like family 1st and once some time has past then a lover.
They dont respect a man that puts them 1st, they want it. They enjoy the idea of it, but once its in place they get bored and complacent. I'm telling you this from both personal experience 2nd hand experiences and observations.
Even the women with the best of intentions do this.
So from me, to all the brothers here that are like me who actually enjoy putting there woman 1st and spoiling them.
Dont, keep it spontaneous and few and far inbetween.
And for goodness sake don't come out the gate with it. A surefire way to get your feelings hurt and join team #HOH.
I'm not saying don't treat your woman like a queen, you should. But treat her like family 1st and once some time has past then a lover.
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A satisfied woman doesn't have a pulse... they are problem centric
70 years ago and still applies today
70 years ago and still applies today
A satisfied woman doesn't have a pulse... they are problem centric
70 years ago and still applies today
Man this chick like straight up detests me now
I'm like how you go from getting orgasm on orgasm from me saying you love me to two weeks later telling me you don't care when i tell you I'm doing fine. Just pure cold, emotionless vibes. Hung up on me and I had to laugh. Like I don't deserve this shyt so you stay over there in your misery cuz its obviously something wrong up stairs. Was I too "nice"? Did I give too much stability? probably. But if I really got to be on my toes all the time to keep a bytch around I can do bad by myself tbh.