Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Spiritual Stratocaster]

Wife up Bisexual Women and get mad when they want to eat some p*ssy on the side Brehs

 

[InDePickWest]

Obviously I'm not gonna call any bytch I have little rapport with a hoe but we're friends and joke around like that

Also you must not frequent social media if you think bytches take heavy offense to hoe these days That term is pretty much exclusively used as a meme now and everybody drops it for jokes

Wow. You men really are clueless. What type of woman is NOT gonna care a dude she's feeling is calling her a ho? A dude I was feeling jokingly told me he'd punch me in my gut. Any sane woman would friend zone him so quick.

Why are you so quick to call women bytches and hoes? If she's as smart as you say, your fukkboyism is really the reason she ain't responding. Act like a man had a hand in raising you.

 

[360dagod]

Obviously I'm not gonna call any bytch I have little rapport with a hoe but we're friends and joke around like that

Also you must not frequent social media if you think bytches take heavy offense to hoe these days That term is pretty much exclusively used as a meme now and everybody drops it for jokes

..You might as well find another broad....The only type of cats who can get away with that are homosexual men or nikkas 6 feet deep in the friend zone

What type of emotion can you possibly swing in your favor using the word hoe?

I talk shyt a lot, but that gets the p*ssy wet if i can swing it in my favor

what good can come out when you say the word hoe in any manner?



even homegirl in here trying to put you on game, but you not getting the bigger picture

Social Media and actual 1 on 1 conversation/interaction is 2 different monsters..

The word hoe causes hesitancy...They start second guessing shyt...Thats why she stayed on the word hoe during the convo..SHE IS SECOND GUESSING shyt AND YOUR CAUSING HER TO BE HESITANT TOWARDS YOU...

when you had homegirl alone, you should have tested the waters with the touchy feely game to see where her head was...

 

[InDePickWest]

put everything on the line with this one shawty.

Told her I liked our recent encounters and that I could see something in the future and wanted to see where she stood.

She brought up how her ex is around and that we could be friends and how she was sure we would have something in the future


clown hoe just got bushed.

"Tbh nah I'm not cool with that I like a girl to myself, I'll let you figure things out with your ex"



I feel good baby






Edit: her response-
"Okay I respect that.I thought you were just chilling not looking for a relationship at the moment when we first talked about it. But I definitely understand"



I haven't replied

She was jus trynna fukk

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Wow. You men really are clueless. What type of woman is NOT gonna care a dude she's feeling is calling her a ho? A dude I was feeling jokingly told me he'd punch me in my gut. Any sane woman would friend zone him so quick.

Why are you so quick to call women bytches and hoes? If she's as smart as you say, your fukkboyism is really the reason she ain't responding. Act like a man had a hand in raising you.

Who allowed this hoe in this thread? This ain't for you, hoe. Go back to the salon.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Basically, and I refuse to lie to these women to boost their ego, shyt didn't turn me on, plain and simple, of course she text me a long ass paragraph after I hit her with the truth

Nah you did good. Females gotta learn the truth nowadays and they expect you to simp. Nah

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Small question my line been blowing up since my breakup, i went out few times. Thing is my ex been going out doing whatever with whoever ,posting stuff trying to hurt me i guess. I just don't see the point in her doing the petty stuff rather then meeting up and ending the shyt on good terms? I understand her reason for falling back. We both had good reason to end the relationship(Stupid fights, social media shyt, not enough time togther)What I'm asking is why won't women end shyt on good terms rather then being on some nikkas aint shyt trip? I just think thats fake after almost 2 years of dating.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Small question my line been blowing up since my breakup, i went out few times. Thing is my ex been going out doing whatever with whoever ,posting stuff trying to hurt me i guess. I just don't see the point in her doing the petty stuff rather then meeting up and ending the shyt on good terms? I understand her reason for falling back. We both had good reason to end the relationship(Stupid fights, social media shyt, not enough time togther)What I'm asking is why won't women end shyt on good terms rather then being on some nikkas aint shyt trip? I just think thats fake after almost 2 years of dating.

Women aren't held accountable for a code the same way that dudes are. I often say that they're socialized as freelancers, whereas dudes have a more agreed upon and understood modus operandi. Take this thread for instance. You got brothers in here sharpening each other up and if one of us is being a bytch, out of love, we'd correct him. I've noticed that especially when it comes to relationships, breakups, etc., women don't ever learn lessons, because their circle of influence gases them up to believe it's the dude's fault and only the dude's fault.

Any time I'm within earshot of those girl talk pow wows it's always "fukk him. He doesn't deserve you," which may be true in a sense, but there's no lesson learned. It's kind of how we communicate though. Men grow through challenge and women grow through praise. They both have their place, but in my opinion, women are rarely as raw with each other as they need to be in these types of moments, because their focus is to soothe the hurt and pump each other up, but in doing that and only that, the lesson will get lost.

But on the flip side, if me, you and some brehs had some beers and talked about the shyt, we'd have some time to say fukk her, we'd have some time to talk about the new p*ssy you're about to get, but we're also gonna go through the major points in the relationship where things went south so we can tell you how you fukked up too.

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Women aren't held accountable for a code the same way that dudes are. I often say that they're socialized as freelancers, whereas dudes have a more agreed upon and understood modus operandi. Take this thread for instance. You got brothers in here sharpening each other up and if one of us is being a bytch, out of love, we'd correct him. I've noticed that especially when it comes to relationships, breakups, etc., women don't ever learn lessons, because their circle of influence gases them up to believe it's the dude's fault and only the dude's fault.

Any time I'm within earshot of those girl talk pow wows it's always "fukk him. He doesn't deserve you," which may be true in a sense, but there's no lesson learned. It's kind of how we communicate though. Men grow through challenge and women grow through praise. They both have their place, but in my opinion, women are rarely as raw with each other as they need to be in these types of moments, because their focus is to soothe the hurt and pump each other up, but in doing that and only that, the lesson will get lost.

But on the flip side, if me, you and some brehs had some beers and talked about the shyt, we'd have some time to say fukk her, we'd have some time to talk about the new p*ssy you're about to get, but we're also gonna go through the major points in the relationship where things went south so we can tell you how you fukked up too.

Yeah I see ya point. I about done with the whole thing I just thought after 3 weeks she women up and bring this whole thing to real close. Her friends don't like me at all so no doubt they bigging her head up. Shows me that not matter how much female say she loves you , if she don't respect you then just let it die. It pisses me off that she wasted 2 years of my time for nothing.

 

[True Blue Moon]

Yeah I see ya point. I about done with the whole thing I just thought after 3 weeks she women up and bring this whole thing to real close. Her friends don't like me at all so no doubt they bigging her head up. Shows me that not matter how much female say she loves you , if she don't respect you then just let it die. It pisses me off that she wasted 2 years of my time for nothing.

Yeah that's why it's always best to move on with a clean break instead of trying to be friends. As cold as it sounds, if yall aren't gonna be together yall don't have anything to talk about cuz you're both in heal mode. The real closure and the only closure that matters is being real with yourself, so def don't wait for her to act right.

And this sounds like some corny shyt but don't think of it as wasted time. Every experience is a beautiful one cuz you got a chance to feel something and learn something. Getting my heart broken back in the day was the best thing that ever happened to me. Just think of your time with ol girl as a job. You got the experience that you needed from it, had some good times, had some bad times, and now that it no longer serves you, you'll be ready, wiser and better for the next one

 

[root_eruditorium_org]

Women aren't held accountable for a code the same way that dudes are. I often say that they're socialized as freelancers, whereas dudes have a more agreed upon and understood modus operandi. Take this thread for instance. You got brothers in here sharpening each other up and if one of us is being a bytch, out of love, we'd correct him. I've noticed that especially when it comes to relationships, breakups, etc., women don't ever learn lessons, because their circle of influence gases them up to believe it's the dude's fault and only the dude's fault.

Any time I'm within earshot of those girl talk pow wows it's always "fukk him. He doesn't deserve you," which may be true in a sense, but there's no lesson learned. It's kind of how we communicate though. Men grow through challenge and women grow through praise. They both have their place, but in my opinion, women are rarely as raw with each other as they need to be in these types of moments, because their focus is to soothe the hurt and pump each other up, but in doing that and only that, the lesson will get lost.

But on the flip side, if me, you and some brehs had some beers and talked about the shyt, we'd have some time to say fukk her, we'd have some time to talk about the new p*ssy you're about to get, but we're also gonna go through the major points in the relationship where things went south so we can tell you how you fukked up too.

Don't even need to leave the locker room to view the asymmetrical nature of male and female viewpoints. There's a relationship thread in the salon and it has almost no activity whereas this thread (filled with mostly guys) is plat status.

The bolded is 100% truth. Most chicks do not feel compelled to do any soul searching or own up to their own mistakes as they rarely need to. There's always a guy in her orbit plotting or sweet talking her.

 

[Jesus]

About to job relocate soon and my girl wants to come with. She's close to her two young nephews that her mom's in charge of. She used to see them every weekend until I moved in. She's slowly pulling back from seeing them to spend time with me and for our relationship. She and her siblings used to be in the guardianship form and now she's off. The thing if we move cross country she would want to see them monthly if not more. No biggie but I know how cost will pile up and the kids seem ungrateful. I wouldn't mind on just holidays. Would I be wrong in telling her the homesick back and forth would annoy me? I don't like her playing the guilt mom role more than just auntie?

 

[Mr.Plan B]

Yeah that's why it's always best to move on with a clean break instead of trying to be friends. As cold as it sounds, if yall aren't gonna be together yall don't have anything to talk about cuz you're both in heal mode. The real closure and the only closure that matters is being real with yourself, so def don't wait for her to act right.

And this sounds like some corny shyt but don't think of it as wasted time. Every experience is a beautiful one cuz you got a chance to feel something and learn something. Getting my heart broken back in the day was the best thing that ever happened to me. Just think of your time with ol girl as a job. You got the experience that you needed from it, had some good times, had some bad times, and now that it no longer serves you, you'll be ready, wiser and better for the next one

Yeah you right bro I needed this talk, already took her off my social media few days ago. I will block her number and delete her pics off my phone before work tomorrow. She knows my coli username so she can still see me post but if she is really done she need to forget about me. And I need to forget about her for good. Wish her nothing but the best in life. Since i treated her so good during are time ,when the other cats can't compare to me she going to get the worse ether in her soul.

 

[Bless't]

Don't even need to leave the locker room to view the asymmetrical nature of male and female viewpoints. There's a relationship thread in the salon and it has almost no activity whereas this thread (filled with mostly guys) is plat status.

The bolded is 100% truth. Most chicks do not feel compelled to do any soul searching or own up to their own mistakes as they rarely need to. There's always a guy in her orbit plotting or sweet talking her.

Great observation and great post.

 

[Deafheaven]

My ex texted me last night. Mostly bullshyt about that Lemonade and my thoughts on it. Weird thing was that a few weeks ago she acted like she never wanted to speak with me again and how she doesn't care how well i'm doing etc. and now shes asking if I'm alright, how is my fitness going, how I'm doing type shyt. I told her I'm straight and lets go for a walk sometime. She told me that wouldn't be good idea, at least not yet. I just agreed with her and said yeah I've had a lot of positive changes since we broke up, glad youre doing well too. No reason to stop the progression for either of us and ended the convo. I'm kind of like wtf because 3 weeks ago it was utter contempt, now she wants to dwell in a grey area Probably realizing that fukk, a lot of nikkas really are fukking trash what have I done. whatever. I almost wish she didn't contact me cuz now I'm going to be thinking about it.
I got a couple dates this weekend already, one that is probably gonna lead to sex since I've chilled with her like 4 times already and have gotten hot n heavy but no ass . Its probably not the best idea to have her on my mind with other chicks. Would be selfish as fukk.