This is good, just keep doing MORE of this for an extended period of time. Your breakup was pretty recent but if you must be involved with other chicks then keep it casual. Meeting up for drinks or chilling at their house. Save your money for yourself.
Put yourself first at all times for he next few months, those chicks can either keep up or get lost. You don't even have to be mean about it, but make it clear that you're number one in your life (don't bend over backwards for them, don't cancel plans for them, etc).
Regarding your ex, you need to get her out of your system homie. She is messing your mind up, even in ways you don't realize yet. Try this. Don't talk to her at all for the next 3 months straight. Not even a text. You to from now until July 28 without talking to her and I guarantee you will view her behavior for what it really is: manipulation and a waste of time. By that point you won't even want to talk to her again. You will gain nothing from talking to her or trying to meet up with her.
It will be tough but I gotdamn guarantee that if you make it to July then your mind will be crystal clear. I put that on my life.
No shame in still learning. I'm far from an expert but a few months ago I started truly putting myself first and it changes things. Not even in an a$$hole type of way, just prioritizing my goals/wants/needs over other people's.nikka i meant itd be selfish to the other bytches im messing with to be dealing with them with my ex in my mind wtf
Also i never really claimed to be a game ubermensch, im still learning everyday
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i don't mess with her anymore. only reason we still talk is because she keeps call me.
...lets just say we havent communicated for like 10yrs since then