man I'm just starting to understand the amount of truth in this post. God forbid I ever let her know I fukked another bytch during our short break (even though she caused the break).
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man I'm just starting to understand the amount of truth in this post. God forbid I ever let her know I fukked another bytch during our short break (even though she caused the break).
I'm legit disgusted by the thought of white women now brehs 
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
I'm legit disgusted by the thought of white women now brehs
What happened?
IDK I've been in MN for so long and theres a lot of librul ass white wimmenz here and after messing with them its just so boring for one. Then I have to remember that their family is probably full of racist bigots and they will never understand what it means to be black unless I god forbid have kids iwth them and they have to raise and learn about black people on a intimate level. Its just not worth it when I can get with a sister who can get where I'm coming from almost immediately.
Oh and they age like milk and are nasty
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IDK I've been in MN for so long and theres a lot of librul ass white wimmenz here and after messing with them its just so boring for one. Then I have to remember that their family is probably full of racist bigots and they will never understand what it means to be black unless I god forbid have kids iwth them and they have to raise and learn about black people on a intimate level. Its just not worth it when I can get with a sister who can get where I'm coming from almost immediately.
Oh and they age like milk and are nasty
Yea I'm tired of being around them (my town straight white and Hispanics) even though I never messed with one. They played out.
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A Pound & A Prayer
Some people's perception of "caring" is so warped. Yesterday, my ex said she wasn't sure if I cared about her back when we were dating because I never cussed her out when she was acting up. I used to just go cold and shut her out and according to her, that was a sign or not being committed 
while girls perceptions are fukked up...you can kind of see where she's coming from with thatSome people's perception of "caring" is so warped. Yesterday, my ex said she wasn't sure if I cared about her back when we were dating because I never cussed her out when she was acting up. I used to just go cold and shut her out and according to her, that was a sign or not being committed
i'm quick to let a chick know when she's being an idiot because in my head...if I'm gonna be dealing with shorty for a long time I gotta nip any kind of blatant stupidity and childishness in the bud. If I dont the relationship wont last because I'll eventually get tired or just lose respect for her.
I used to tell my homies while giving them advice that sometimes you gotta make a chick cry
. They were laughing but i's dead serious. You dont have to shyt on her or dig up personal shyt but when she's being an idiot talk down to her and let her know it. 1, She'll respect, trust and look up to you for it. And despite this feminist bullshyt almost every woman wants a man to look up to (literally and figuratively). 2. It'll increase her emotional investment in you.Girls always want shyt to be even in a relationship. If they feel you're not emotionally invested at all they'll slowly start pulling their investment out the fund as well until they mirror you. All of a sudden you'll notice she doesnt get mad at the petty shyt you do to rile her up anymore. And once that happens you're pretty much done lol. The texts/calls become less frequent or drier. The sex becomes less passionate. And slowly yall just drift. Now I wont say you shouldn't actually be emotionally invested to the degree they are, but just enough to pass their litmus tests and make them think you care.
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A Pound & A Prayer
while girls perceptions are fukked up...you can kind of see where she's coming from with that
i'm quick to let a chick know when she's being an idiot because in my head...if I'm gonna be dealing with shorty for a long time I gotta nip any kind of blatant stupidity and childishness in the bud. If I dont the relationship wont last because I'll eventually get tired or just lose respect for her.
I used to tell my homies while giving them advice that sometimes you gotta make a chick cry
Girls always want shyt to be even in a relationship. If they feel you're not emotionally invested at all they'll slowly start pulling their investment out the fund as well until they mirror you. You shouldnt actually be emotionally invested to the degree they are, but just enough to pass their litmus tests and make them think you care.
I totally see where you're coming from but saying "You're being stupid, I'm not talking about this anymore" should be enough.
A lot of girls have dealt with volatile men that will go out of their way to shout, cuss them out and sometimes even put hands on them and they get accustomed to that kind of drama. It shouldn't be on us more levelled off guys to give these girls their dosage of fukkery.
Blame her parents/upbringing.Some people's perception of "caring" is so warped. Yesterday, my ex said she wasn't sure if I cared about her back when we were dating because I never cussed her out when she was acting up. I used to just go cold and shut her out and according to her, that was a sign or not being committed
One reason i do not want to beat/whoop my (future) kids; they will have associate abuse w affection. How do U chastise a man for hitting my (future) daughter if hit her and say, well, i do it because i love you and she accepts it from him, too?
I know it's not that simple, but, that's my baseline reasoning.
sometimes u just goto give women the opportunity to scream and fight with u from time to time. had an ex once tell me that she hates it when i would apologize too quickly. because that meant she couldn't say all the pent up sh1t she'd planned to say in her head. when women find that ur not emotionally invested, they will pull away...like asantene said. ive had that happen with quite a few girls recently. im not one to build up a roster. just because if im not deeply into a chick, her presence irritates me and id rather just be alone. these girls pick up on that and usually bounce.
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A Pound & A Prayer
I totally agree with you. In my ex's house, shouting is a regular thing. Between her, her mum & her grandma, they love cussing and shouting at each other. Her dad's there but he's kinda just in the background like
when they're arguing. From what she says, he's too busy doing his own thing and flirting with women at his job to diffuse all the arguments 
I try to stay away from heated arguments because it usually ends up with me saying some foul shyt.
I'm the same way when it comes to building rosters 'cause the moment I find a girl annoying, I just stop talking to them altogether. I've never been one to stay in a girl's messages because I'd rather spend my time doing something I enjoy and I assume she's got guys around more interested in her than I am.
Damn so some ya'll level headed brehs hear the same thing from these women? I don't even consider myself the most patient, cool headed guy in the world, sometimes i can be a jerk but even still i've had a one girl straight up admit that there wasn't enough drama and i swear it felt like she wanted me to hit her at times 
so my main is upset because I'm not spoiling her like her ex used to do. She's used to getting gifts from him all the time, used to just taking his debit card and go buying what she want.Well bish, go be with that Nicca than
You don't see me out here telling you how you aren't doing things like my ex
. I'm going to be me, and I'm not going to let you leave me high and dry and broke when you decide you want to move on.
Well bish, go be with that Nicca than
You don't see me out here telling you how you aren't doing things like my ex
I had a gf like that 4 yrs ago she complained because I wouldnt buy her Louis Vuitton purses like her ex...this same ex beat her for 5 of the 10 yrs they were together, never put a ring on her finger , told her to abort their child only for her later to find out he got another woman pregnant while they were together