Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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NEVER compare yourself to another nikka.
it took me so long to stop doing this. i admit in the past i was competitive. i wanted to be better than any other dude a chick had. best at everything because my ego wouldn't let me admit that someone might be better than me at something. :snoop:
 

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It's absolutely true, I tell Niccas all the time, just based off numbers here, there is no reason why you can't pull something. It may not be quality, but quantity is definitely not the issue. And if you eliminate the gays, that number is even higher.
hmm. always wanted to go to atlanta. :lupe:
 

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hmm. always wanted to go to atlanta. :lupe:

Breh its a good look. Cant speak on finding a relationship but for just hooking up, :mjgrin:

There's soo many women it doesnt make any sense.

Im 22 and eat off the 24-32 crowd for some reason. On the real you can have about 4 diff women you smashing a week:ehh:
 

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Breh its a good look. Cant speak on finding a relationship but for just hooking up, :mjgrin:

There's soo many women it doesnt make any sense.

Im 22 and eat off the 24-32 crowd for some reason. On the real you can have about 4 diff women you smashing a week:ehh:
:patrice: i mean i seem to attract older women. :mjgrin:

i wanna go but i dont wanna be out there by myself. :patrice:

*adds atlanta to list of places to go*
 

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I know this is hard to believe but I haven't messed with any broads for about 3 years literally and i just turned 27 a couple days ago. No texts, convos, etc. :heh: which ironically was my last date. I'm a weird ass nikka so i used Tinder when it was first popping and got lucky with 3 thick/chubby girls which i wasn't really attracted to.

Went out with the first one for ice cream after work, she ghosted me after that then married some nikka in jail a year later :dead: the 2nd one just wanted someone to fukk while her nikka was in jail :mjlol: we smoked the first couple of days then when her roommates were gone I "attempted" to smash :laff: my dikk was soft af so she got mad and fell asleep :pachaha: she felt bad later, sucked me off then took me home. Tried again the next day to try to make it up but her roommates came back early so i dipped and got lost trying to find a way out her Apartment complex in the rain :dead: got ghosted after that. The 3rd and final chick didn't want to fukk but kept sexting me :what: then said she wanted a relationship, i told her i just want a fwb then she was like "Goodbye" :francis:

And like a year before all this i took my co-worker to the Spaghetti Factory for my very first date :ehh: turns out it was a pity date set up by another coworker :troll: which i pretty much figured after we got done eating when we were suppose to go to the movies, she hit me with "Sorry my brother just text me and he wants me to go to San Jose with him":manny:. bytch ghosted me and the job the next week with no notice :heh:

The funny thing is that i'm not really stressed about it. I mean at my age I should be more experienced than just those moments i've named above but i'm wired differently than most and really don't care for dating, love, relationships, getting married, kids etc. :yeshrug: and i use to get mad about that shyt too in school like "Why is _____ getting all the girls and i can't" :dwillhuh: but i ended up like :manny: it is what it is.

I mean I just spent 2 months losing 20+ lbs just by changing my diet and exercise everyday after getting lazy. I quit my job because they wouldn't give me a raise and it turns out they're closing in Jan 2017. Right now i'm learning Video Editing with the help of my sis who's studying film and plans to make an production company. Idk maybe i'll start traveling around the globe and end up meeting a crazy bytch who clicks with me :russ: just my luck

Guess my rambling is over lol but for all the nikkas struggling with these women...
Don't worry about it:hubie:
 

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I know this is hard to believe but I haven't messed with any broads for about 3 years literally and i just turned 27 a couple days ago. No texts, convos, etc. :heh: which ironically was my last date. I'm a weird ass nikka so i used Tinder when it was first popping and got lucky with 3 thick/chubby girls which i wasn't really attracted to.

Went out with the first one for ice cream after work, she ghosted me after that then married some nikka in jail a year later :dead: the 2nd one just wanted someone to fukk while her nikka was in jail :mjlol: we smoked the first couple of days then when her roommates were gone I "attempted" to smash :laff: my dikk was soft af so she got mad and fell asleep :pachaha: she felt bad later, sucked me off then took me home. Tried again the next day to try to make it up but her roommates came back early so i dipped and got lost trying to find a way out her Apartment complex in the rain :dead: got ghosted after that. The 3rd and final chick didn't want to fukk but kept sexting me :what: then said she wanted a relationship, i told her i just want a fwb then she was like "Goodbye" :francis:

And like a year before all this i took my co-worker to the Spaghetti Factory for my very first date :ehh: turns out it was a pity date set up by another coworker :troll: which i pretty much figured after we got done eating when we were suppose to go to the movies, she hit me with "Sorry my brother just text me and he wants me to go to San Jose with him":manny:. bytch ghosted me and the job the next week with no notice :heh:

The funny thing is that i'm not really stressed about it. I mean at my age I should be more experienced than just those moments i've named above but i'm wired differently than most and really don't care for dating, love, relationships, getting married, kids etc. :yeshrug: and i use to get mad about that shyt too in school like "Why is _____ getting all the girls and i can't" :dwillhuh: but i ended up like :manny: it is what it is.

I mean I just spent 2 months losing 20+ lbs just by changing my diet and exercise everyday after getting lazy. I quit my job because they wouldn't give me a raise and it turns out they're closing in Jan 2017. Right now i'm learning Video Editing with the help of my sis who's studying film and plans to make an production company. Idk maybe i'll start traveling around the globe and end up meeting a crazy bytch who clicks with me :russ: just my luck

Guess my rambling is over lol but for all the nikkas struggling with these women...
Don't worry about it:hubie:

You'll be aight my nikka!

I went thru a bad dry stretch....then outta nowhere I hit prolly tha hottest winning streak.

Ya winning streak is coming breh.
 

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The funny thing is that i'm not really stressed about it. I mean at my age I should be more experienced than just those moments i've named above but i'm wired differently than most and really don't care for dating, love, relationships, getting married, kids etc. :yeshrug: and i use to get mad about that shyt too in school like "Why is _____ getting all the girls and i can't" :dwillhuh: but i ended up like :manny: it is what it is.

I mean I just spent 2 months losing 20+ lbs just by changing my diet and exercise everyday after getting lazy. I quit my job because they wouldn't give me a raise and it turns out they're closing in Jan 2017. Right now i'm learning Video Editing with the help of my sis who's studying film and plans to make an production company. Idk maybe i'll start traveling around the globe and end up meeting a crazy bytch who clicks with me :russ: just my luck

Guess my rambling is over lol but for all the nikkas struggling with these women...
Don't worry about it:hubie:
pretty similar case here, but I'm a few years younger. Coulda prob smashed a few ratchets at my old job but I rather masturbate then deal with drama so I settled for some head action with this one broad.

Besides all that my phone is dry as fukk. I just can't get it in me to chase/approach females. And weirdly I'm pretty much okay with that. When girls (friends or coworkers) find out about my status and views they're pretty surprised. They think I'm running through hoes right now... na I'm at home getting headaches trying to get these certs :mjcry:
 

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I know this is hard to believe but I haven't messed with any broads for about 3 years literally and i just turned 27 a couple days ago. No texts, convos, etc. :heh: which ironically was my last date. I'm a weird ass nikka so i used Tinder when it was first popping and got lucky with 3 thick/chubby girls which i wasn't really attracted to.

Went out with the first one for ice cream after work, she ghosted me after that then married some nikka in jail a year later :dead: the 2nd one just wanted someone to fukk while her nikka was in jail :mjlol: we smoked the first couple of days then when her roommates were gone I "attempted" to smash :laff: my dikk was soft af so she got mad and fell asleep :pachaha: she felt bad later, sucked me off then took me home. Tried again the next day to try to make it up but her roommates came back early so i dipped and got lost trying to find a way out her Apartment complex in the rain :dead: got ghosted after that. The 3rd and final chick didn't want to fukk but kept sexting me :what: then said she wanted a relationship, i told her i just want a fwb then she was like "Goodbye" :francis:

And like a year before all this i took my co-worker to the Spaghetti Factory for my very first date :ehh: turns out it was a pity date set up by another coworker :troll: which i pretty much figured after we got done eating when we were suppose to go to the movies, she hit me with "Sorry my brother just text me and he wants me to go to San Jose with him":manny:. bytch ghosted me and the job the next week with no notice :heh:

The funny thing is that i'm not really stressed about it. I mean at my age I should be more experienced than just those moments i've named above but i'm wired differently than most and really don't care for dating, love, relationships, getting married, kids etc. :yeshrug: and i use to get mad about that shyt too in school like "Why is _____ getting all the girls and i can't" :dwillhuh: but i ended up like :manny: it is what it is.

I mean I just spent 2 months losing 20+ lbs just by changing my diet and exercise everyday after getting lazy. I quit my job because they wouldn't give me a raise and it turns out they're closing in Jan 2017. Right now i'm learning Video Editing with the help of my sis who's studying film and plans to make an production company. Idk maybe i'll start traveling around the globe and end up meeting a crazy bytch who clicks with me :russ: just my luck

Guess my rambling is over lol but for all the nikkas struggling with these women...
Don't worry about it:hubie:

dude, how tall are you?

1. step up your dress game. and when i say step it up, i dont mean dressing like u just stepped out of a hip hop video. that look is very bad, unless u wanna attract hoodrats. what i mean by dress game is, wear dress shirts (fitted), dress jeans (fitted to your figure). and for the next couple of weeeks, just holler at chicks with ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTIONS OF TRYING TO GET THEIR NUMBER.

your story is very depressing. and im not going to be of the type to tell u "ahhh ur time will come". nah. that's terrible advice. ur time may never come if u stay stagnant. change ur wardrobe asap. and when u talk to chicks, put a lil bass in ur voice.
 

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dude, how tall are you?

1. step up your dress game. and when i say step it up, i dont mean dressing like u just stepped out of a hip hop video. that look is very bad, unless u wanna attract hoodrats. what i mean by dress game is, wear dress shirts (fitted), dress jeans (fitted to your figure). and for the next couple of weeeks, just holler at chicks with ABSOLUTELY NO INTENTIONS OF TRYING TO GET THEIR NUMBER.

your story is very depressing. and im not going to be of the type to tell u "ahhh ur time will come". nah. that's terrible advice. ur time may never come if u stay stagnant. change ur wardrobe asap. and when u talk to chicks, put a lil bass in ur voice.

5'5" or 5'6" and i don't wear dress shirts or "hip-hop" clothes. I just wear regular shyt like

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And swap the kicks with this

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Or some Pop Culture tees
 
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I'm in that zone where I can't miss a shot:wow:. Straight after a breakup too.
Got a couple dates all lined up for next week. Got this thick asian fashion chick off tinder who wants me to come over. Also ran into some girl I talked to a few times on instagram , outside of a club. Just had a small talk with her. Next morning she dm'd me saying she was happy to see me and would like to see me again.And she's hella fine :takedat:.

It's that dope vibe fellas.That feeling when all these girls keep complimenting you on your looks and the way you dress.
My "ex" sent me a txt saying she misses my sexy and fun snapchats. Ain't replied to that shyt and not going to. I can see things clearly now.
 
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