Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Been in 3 relationships before 30 where i shacked up with a woman.


I feel like ive had 3 divorces.

The new goal is 18-24 months of freedom and not looking for anything serious. Yes ill holla but i wanna get my money right and do some self improvement before i get serious again.

I dunno how you brehs do it.... :huhldup:
I couldn't think of a better torture sequence :wow:

#GMB #HARDONHOUSEMATES :mjgrin:
 

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U don't have to rush for kiss breh ur good everyone has their own pace but I will say this if a female really puts it out there for u to do it and u don't do it she will :camby: u

But as another poster said another work female be smart breh
Learn from ur past mistakes so u don't repeat them again

Some of y'all just don't learn huh..

why take shyt slow? I never understand this with nikkas. you obviously find ol girl attractive and want to fukk her why are you putting up so many unneeded hurdles to it. I also go for the kiss first time I'm chilling with a girl because that shows you think "I know I'm good enough for you" now she can reciprocate or not but at the least you know whats up right then and there. I've never had a girl straight up refuse or give me the cheek or anything but if they did they number deleted because she just not into me. Women nowadays think a kiss is damn near more intimate than sex so you juking with ol girl don't really mean shyt right now. it doesn't seem like you in a bad spot or anything but all this guess work you have now could have been quelled by going for a kiss.


Awe damn I got some BULLshyt to tell y'all :francis:
 

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Another thing is when a chick offers the "lets be friends first" option.. Reject that shyt.

Understand what a woman's meaning behind what a friend is. A woman meaning of a friend is someone that she's nice too whenever she sees him. Men think "Oh we're still gonna kick it, hang out, and eventually she'll see that she wanna get with me"

Most of the time, Its usually not the case. Ask that broad to do what friends normally would do, Like go out for ice cream, go to a movie, go to skating, or take a trip and watch how many bullshyt excuses she would give out as if you still trying to holler at her.

When I hear that shyt I put my hand up like :stop:
And say na I'm good I have friends not trying to add a female friend who wanna friend zone or play games
I got madden for games
My time and worth is more valuable than being ur friend
See ya :camby:


But I will say this in some situations rare which it has benefited a breh
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1 case u get friendzone but u already met her friends and shyt can get u in good with her friends cuz if she really think ur coo word of mouth from her helps and then it's free game to her friends and then bam u in her friends instead and ain't shyt she can say or she will try to say of course for me when it has happened she encourages her friend to get at me :win:
Later down the line I end up smashing her too cuz her friends put in good word bout me of their own choice and it also networks u to her friends friends and talk bout a Buffett and good reputation :blessed:

Of course don't do this shyt if u ain't on game meaning no fukks given confident in urself and can take a NO
 

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While you out here thinking some girl would never look your way, little do you know she's either lonely as hell and desperate for companionship OR her bf is completely not what you thought he'd look like

If the opposite sex is dictating your attitude and outlook on life you already lost


couple good posts thatd resonate in here
 

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Been in 3 relationships before 30 where i shacked up with a woman.

I feel like ive had 3 divorces.

The new goal is 18-24 months of freedom and not looking for anything serious. Yes ill holla but i wanna get my money right and do some self improvement before i get serious again.


This is what im on currently. Blocked my Ex and moving forward.
 
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I didn't tell not one lie. Women's love is pragmatic and opportunistic. One thing you have to understand about women is its in their NATURE to protect the NEST first. Which means she aiming for a high value male to create a world for her. Hell when a women has a child or two her live for those kids is different from the love she will try to give you.


Iron Rule of Tomassi #6
Women are utterly incapable of loving a man in the way that a man expects to be loved.

In its simplicity this speaks volumes about about the condition of Men. It accurately expresses a pervasive nihilism that Men must either confront and accept, or be driven insane in denial for the rest of their lives when they fail to come to terms with the disillusionment.

Women are incapable of loving men in a way that a man idealizes is possible, in a way he thinks she should be capable of.


I'll be back April to create a thread on the hard on hoes principles take a wild guess what law this will be and no it a it 6th?
 

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So monday i had to train another woman at work. Lil short, slim, kinda pretty girl. (About an 8/10). She stayed laughing at everything i said and steady stared in my eyes when i spoke. I mentioned how once upon a time i used to mess with this girl that worked there and she said she'd never mess with anybody at work.

Lunch time hit and we both had to go since i was her trained. Outside the building she was behind me and asked me if i wanted to walk to churches with her and i said yes. We walk there and chit chat. While waiting she slaps my chest and says she cant wait til she gets her uniform. Soon after, Dude ends up skipping her (im not in line) and she says something. I stand outside when i seen dude looking at her. After she comes out and we're walking back to work she says ol dude said he didnt mean to disrespect her boyfriend (me).

While im about to walk in the building she says i can sit in her car with her. We sit in the and she eats and talks with me. When it was time to clock back in, the rest of the day was regular and when she leaves she smiles and tells me bye. She also says she comes back Wednesday. Fast foward to today and right after i clock in she comes out the office and smiles and says she misses me. She pretty much made sure she said something to me every time i was around today (wasnt training her no more) and stayed accidentally catching eye contact. I had to unload the truck for a while and when i got done and went to buy something to drink she says HEY HONEYBUN.

:mjlol: this is only her 2nd time seeing me.
What yall brehs think of this?
:patrice:
 
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