International Playa
Playa with a Passport
had to quote for those who missed the article
Been in 3 relationships before 30 where i shacked up with a woman.
I feel like ive had 3 divorces.
The new goal is 18-24 months of freedom and not looking for anything serious. Yes ill holla but i wanna get my money right and do some self improvement before i get serious again.



U don't have to rush for kiss breh ur good everyone has their own pace but I will say this if a female really puts it out there for u to do it and u don't do it she willu
But as another poster said another work female be smart breh
Learn from ur past mistakes so u don't repeat them again
Some of y'all just don't learn huh..
why take shyt slow? I never understand this with nikkas. you obviously find ol girl attractive and want to fukk her why are you putting up so many unneeded hurdles to it. I also go for the kiss first time I'm chilling with a girl because that shows you think "I know I'm good enough for you" now she can reciprocate or not but at the least you know whats up right then and there. I've never had a girl straight up refuse or give me the cheek or anything but if they did they number deleted because she just not into me. Women nowadays think a kiss is damn near more intimate than sex so you juking with ol girl don't really mean shyt right now. it doesn't seem like you in a bad spot or anything but all this guess work you have now could have been quelled by going for a kiss.

Awe damn I got some BULLshyt to tell y'all![]()

Another thing is when a chick offers the "lets be friends first" option.. Reject that shyt.
Understand what a woman's meaning behind what a friend is. A woman meaning of a friend is someone that she's nice too whenever she sees him. Men think "Oh we're still gonna kick it, hang out, and eventually she'll see that she wanna get with me"
Most of the time, Its usually not the case. Ask that broad to do what friends normally would do, Like go out for ice cream, go to a movie, go to skating, or take a trip and watch how many bullshyt excuses she would give out as if you still trying to holler at her.




Awe damn I got some BULLshyt to tell y'all![]()

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While you out here thinking some girl would never look your way, little do you know she's either lonely as hell and desperate for companionship OR her bf is completely not what you thought he'd look like
If the opposite sex is dictating your attitude and outlook on life you already lost
Love shouldn't be so damn hard

Aim for respect from a women not love. They don't love like a man ...at all.

Been in 3 relationships before 30 where i shacked up with a woman.
I feel like ive had 3 divorces.
The new goal is 18-24 months of freedom and not looking for anything serious. Yes ill holla but i wanna get my money right and do some self improvement before i get serious again.
this is only her 2nd time seeing me.