Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt?
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Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person
what you think champ? She obviously aint thinking about you
Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt?
Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person


Checked my whatsapp contacts and i know she deleted my number because her pic and last seen ain't showing no mo, although I stopped making effort trying to pursue her this still hurts brehs
Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt? Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person (she lives in another city) but spoke damn near daily for several months until around December.
Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
she texted you her name so its safe to say you irked her afterwards. if she wasnt interested she wouldn't have done so.Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
she texted you her name so its safe to say you irked her afterwards. if she wasnt interested she wouldn't have done so.
maybe you seemed thirsty by asking her to hit you up afterwards
or maybe she just forgot cause she ws tired after work and shyt. really no big deal
you could easily just message or call her a couple days later and take it from there
Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.
Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy.
Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.
This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
them ones are tough. i'd prolly play it cool and just text her for a good 3 weeks. then say yo Ima be in (city close to her. not the same city but a neighboring one) for a meeting we should kick it afterwardsWent to the club Saturday, met a chick exchanged numbers.
We were texting Sunday and I found out she lives 2hrs away and was only in town celebrating her friends b-day.
How should I go about finessing her to come see me for the weekend or vice versa
them ones are tough. i'd prolly play it cool and just text her for a good 3 weeks. then say yo Ima be in for a meeting (city close to her. not the same city but a neighboring one)we should kick it afterwards

So me and the chick I went out on 3 dates with talked last night. She only sees me as just a "nice guy" and doesn't want to take things any further with me right now. That gave me the conformation I needed to turn my focus and attention to someone else. She's more focused on her career and trying to better herself which is understandable.
Afterwards, I chilled with my older cousin and he was lowkey clowning me about it. His advice was to unlock my inner savage and become HOH on all these bytches. The thing is, I'm capable and have done it multiple occasions.
Its not like I don't have that "edge", but I look at him and see the results HOH has been for him that has me
Multiple bm's, alot of children, child support etc,
At the same time, I've done a fine job of avoiding those traps. I'm 25 soon to be 26 with no kids, no bm drama. All I gotta continue to do is work on myself, focus on myself while also dabbling into the dating scene here and there. I did just recently lose my job, but I'm searching to find another.
I'll be alright
