Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt?

read this

Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person

what you think champ? She obviously aint thinking about you
 

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So me and the chick I went out on 3 dates with talked last night. She only sees me as just a "nice guy" and doesn't want to take things any further with me right now. That gave me the conformation I needed to turn my focus and attention to someone else. She's more focused on her career and trying to better herself which is understandable.

Afterwards, I chilled with my older cousin and he was lowkey clowning me about it. His advice was to unlock my inner savage and become HOH on all these bytches. The thing is, I'm capable and have done it multiple occasions.
Its not like I don't have that "edge", but I look at him and see the results HOH has been for him that has me :hubie:
Multiple bm's, alot of children, child support etc, :damn:

At the same time, I've done a fine job of avoiding those traps. I'm 25 soon to be 26 with no kids, no bm drama. All I gotta continue to do is work on myself, focus on myself while also dabbling into the dating scene here and there. I did just recently lose my job, but I'm searching to find another.

I'll be alright
 

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Checked my whatsapp contacts and i know she deleted my number because her pic and last seen ain't showing no mo, although I stopped making effort trying to pursue her this still hurts brehs :mjcry:
Do I just delete hers too or be like fuk it and hit her up in about a week or so on some "hey stranger" shyt? Bit of background its not that deep we have never met in person (she lives in another city) but spoke damn near daily for several months until around December.

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Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.

Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy. :martin:

Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.

This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.

U doing good shiiiiiid. U actively making it happen. Non responses part of da game.
 

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Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.

Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy. :martin:

Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.

This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.
she texted you her name so its safe to say you irked her afterwards. if she wasnt interested she wouldn't have done so.

maybe you seemed thirsty by asking her to hit you up afterwards
or maybe she just forgot cause she ws tired after work and shyt. really no big deal

you could easily just message or call her a couple days later and take it from there
 

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she texted you her name so its safe to say you irked her afterwards. if she wasnt interested she wouldn't have done so.

maybe you seemed thirsty by asking her to hit you up afterwards
or maybe she just forgot cause she ws tired after work and shyt. really no big deal

you could easily just message or call her a couple days later and take it from there

Yep that's my read on things
 

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Being newly single I need to work on myself and being in Atlanta i need to always be on my shyt.

Went to a restaurant for a pickup order after moving in my new spot and started a convo with a pretty server but I was lookin kinda bummy. :martin:

Got her number and she texted me her name then i told her to hit up when she got off and didnt hear anything after that.

This is the 2nd time ive gotten the # and it doesn't go further than that. Gotta figure out what my issue is but im gonna keep shooting my shot.

Gotta ask her a Good time to call and go from there
 

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Went to the club Saturday, met a chick exchanged numbers.

We were texting Sunday and I found out she lives 2hrs away and was only in town celebrating her friends b-day.


How should I go about finessing her to come see me for the weekend or vice versa
 

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Went to the club Saturday, met a chick exchanged numbers.

We were texting Sunday and I found out she lives 2hrs away and was only in town celebrating her friends b-day.


How should I go about finessing her to come see me for the weekend or vice versa
them ones are tough. i'd prolly play it cool and just text her for a good 3 weeks. then say yo Ima be in (city close to her. not the same city but a neighboring one) for a meeting we should kick it afterwards
 
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them ones are tough. i'd prolly play it cool and just text her for a good 3 weeks. then say yo Ima be in for a meeting (city close to her. not the same city but a neighboring one)we should kick it afterwards


Yea I figured it would. I'll text her every couple of days, then hit her with that line
 

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Me being persistent has got me the cheeks a lot of times. I'd fukk with a chick and might not close and shyt just go left from there. But I just let that fizzle out for a lil and then start hitting them back up months later like nothing happened and finally close :mjgrin:
 

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So me and the chick I went out on 3 dates with talked last night. She only sees me as just a "nice guy" and doesn't want to take things any further with me right now. That gave me the conformation I needed to turn my focus and attention to someone else. She's more focused on her career and trying to better herself which is understandable.

Afterwards, I chilled with my older cousin and he was lowkey clowning me about it. His advice was to unlock my inner savage and become HOH on all these bytches. The thing is, I'm capable and have done it multiple occasions.
Its not like I don't have that "edge", but I look at him and see the results HOH has been for him that has me :hubie:
Multiple bm's, alot of children, child support etc, :damn:

At the same time, I've done a fine job of avoiding those traps. I'm 25 soon to be 26 with no kids, no bm drama. All I gotta continue to do is work on myself, focus on myself while also dabbling into the dating scene here and there. I did just recently lose my job, but I'm searching to find another.

I'll be alright

Wait did you go on 3 dates and didn't fukk? :comeon:
 
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