Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Shorties out here wildin. Talking bout raw sex and I don't even know you. Young Turk is not about that life :picard:
 
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Real talk inebriation is a cheat code breh, with a chick who's already feeling you it speeds up the process a lot. But never be someone you not for these hoes that's just putting the p*ssy on a pedestal. I quit drinking and I know I miss out on p*ssy cause of it but i'd rather that than be a follower like that for the sake of smashing females.
Yeah I know that's why I haven't gone that route. I think I've got an addictive personality anyway so I don't need to add a vice. And no smoking is just a drop in a bucket as far as my shortcomings so it not that important.
 

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So, I was back in my hometown over the weekend visiting. I managed to hit up one of my old classmates to come to my Auntee's birthday bash. To my surprise, she actually came out to show love. That actually made me feel good.

These days she's more:flabbynsick: , has 3 kids and a criminal record but I can't lie and say I don't wanna smash lol. She always favored Hoopz Alexander to me. I been wanting to hit that since high school and now that I'm back in town, with a new sense of confidence, swagger, etc I felt I can't lose.

As long I strap up..why not? :yeshrug: She was looking fukkable that night. Our conversation was good...laughing and reflecting on old times n shyt.
Once the tanqueray started kicking in, I started macking on her something fierce which had her like :ohhh:because I wasn't known for that.
As things began to heat up, her gay white friend shows up unannounced butting into our conversation:childplease:.
Then her homegirls came and started cock blocking on some "We ain't fukking with no nikkas" type shyt sounding like a :mjpls:convention.


At this point, I'm just like fukk it. I'm way too drunk to be entertaining this bullshyt. So, ole girl branch off from them to come sit with me then here they go again lol smh. I just ended up dipping and told her I'll see you next time. I've learned that females are just as worst as dudes when it comes cock blocking. I can't name how many times a female knocked me out of getting some coouch lol
 

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Remember brehs. women are 99 percent of the time completely illogical. Girl I'm dating now is always on a high horse about the patriarchy, misogny and all that other feminist bullshyt. I just ignore it I'm not entertaining that shyt :hubie: Its funny though because shes a cutie and gets free drinks when she goes out, and better tips at work. I gave her a bunch of cosmetics (I get hundreds of dollars of free shyt a month no simp :mjcry: ) and she knows fully that playing up her good looks will get her paid more. Like if you really wanted equality or w/e wouldn't this be frowned upon :jbhmm: And is completely aware that this predicated on her appearance :dahell: so hold up. You hate the patriarchy and alla this other shyt but you willing to benefit from your inherit attractiveness. Women be on some fu fu ass shyt sometimes. why its a good idea to go actions>>>>>>words. random thoughts but needed to vent.
 

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I get exhaustion talking on the phone, brehs. I can text all day, but talking...just can't do it, especially if I'm watching tv or a movie. The phone is the ultimate barometer on how much I'm feeling a girl. If we're actually bf/gf, you can call whenever basically. If I miss her call....I'll call back as soon as I can. It's like a right of passage lol.

If we've been on only a couple dates and you HAVE to talk to me everyday...that barometer meter starts tilting towards bushes. That's a sign of being too clingy too fast.

Last night:
(text message)
Her: What you up to? I just left happy hr and dinner with my friends :queen:
Me: Oh word, how was that? I'm chillin watching a tv show...starting to doze off a lil bit :yawn:

.......

*facetime call pops up on my phone*


:gucci:
 
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Women be on some shyt I swear.

Yesterday I went to the chicks place who I been seeing and when I got there she was going on about my job status which she knew about from the jump and was talking about how we might've went too fast.

So far everytime we have been together we have had sex except for that first date, I also have hit raw everytime since the first time but have made sure not to bust in her.

I was under the assumption that she was trying to break shyt off yesterday but after four sessions starting last night and ending early this morning the chick is talking about how she is starting to fall for me.

Why the hell do women have to be so confusing?
 

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Women be on some shyt I swear.

Yesterday I went to the chicks place who I been seeing and when I got there she was going on about my job status which she knew about from the jump and was talking about how we might've went too fast.

So far everytime we have been together we have had sex except for that first date, I also have hit raw everytime since the first time but have made sure not to bust in her.

I was under the assumption that she was trying to break shyt off yesterday but after four sessions starting last night and ending early this morning the chick is talking about how she is starting to fall for me.

Why the hell do women have to be so confusing?
most of them exist completely in the moment. My ex told me she loved me and 8 hours later said this isn't gonna work :mjcry:
someone or something got in her head and in that period of time her emotions told her right now she didn't love me. so that was that. It ties back to my previous post that these broads are not logical at all. I've come to the conclusion that they can do w/e they want I have no expectations. you fukk with me you fukk with me, you don't you don't. but I aint never gonna chase after or get bummed out over a chick again. fukk all that. I view women as not MINE its just MY turn and thats the grim truth imo.
 
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most of them exist completely in the moment. My ex told me she loved me and 8 hours later said this isn't gonna work :mjcry:
someone or something got in her head and in that period of time her emotions told her right now she didn't love me. so that was that. It ties back to my previous post that these broads are not logical at all. I've come to the conclusion that they can do w/e they want I have no expectations. you fukk with me you fukk with me, you don't you don't. but I aint never gonna chase after or get bummed out over a chick again. fukk all that. I view women as not MINE its just MY turn and thats the grim truth imo.

I was thinking those things to myself yesterday when she was talking about me not working and even though I do like this woman I had no feeling of heartbreak since I knew better from previous experiences and this thread.

She hit me up about an hour ago and things seems cool but i'm just taking things as they come and not setting huge expectations like i've done in the past.
 

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I was thinking those things to myself yesterday when she was talking about me not working and even though I do like this woman I had no feeling of heartbreak since I knew better from previous experiences and this thread.

She hit me up about an hour ago and things seems cool but i'm just taking things as they come and not setting huge expectations like i've done in the past.
best to take shyt day to day. shes already expressed she has doubts so best not to become too invested in her. buttttttttttt actions do speak louder than words so she could have just been testing you since women love doing dumb shyt to see how we react.
 
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best to take shyt day to day. shes already expressed she has doubts so best not to become too invested in her. buttttttttttt actions do speak louder than words so she could have just been testing you since women love doing dumb shyt to see how we react.

Exactly, with this chick I let her know up front how things were for me at the moment as far as my working situation and she didn't run off like most would so I took that as a good sign. I feel like she thinks i'm gonna use her and bounce which aren't my intentions at all, I never ask her to spend any money on me and when we have went out on dates I have actually spent more even though I don't have a steady gig right now.
 
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