Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Mister_DoItNice]

Whatever you guys say. I just don't see a need to shyt on a chick like that, especially if I'm not even attracted to her to begin with. Wouldn't waste my time.

Anyway, the shorty I had fly out from Spain to see me a couple months ago just told me today she's thinking of marrying some dude. I'm not really sure why she told me or if she was looking to get a reaction from me. I don't care either way. She told me before that she didn't think I would ever take her seriously because she wasn't black... and she's right lol.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Yo Crayola how old are you fam? You're taking HOH a bit too literal homie. If this particular woman hasn't done you wrong I don't see why you need to treat her so harshly. If you don't want her on the team, since she's ugly, then cut her loose. Not that difficult. Get something better.

I'm 27 years old. I don't put women on a pedestal, I see them all the same and treat them the same. I'm straight forward with my intentions on everything even if I don't get sex. women are deceptive, but as a heterosexual male you cannot avoid them cause they will smell blood once they take interest in you. I treat her harshly because she is 18. Also it's better to be this way now then get married and have your bytch acting a fool.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Is he really though?
-"I'm not interested in friendship/venting phone calls"
-"Smashing is a priority as far as women I meet"
-"If we're out and you're drunk, I'm not your bodyguard" (so her incentive to act stupid should go down)
I feel like this is what nikkas are generally afraid to say but he said it

My nikka. Do you know how many times I told women this they eject themselves out of a interaction with me. This lets me know that a chick was expecting me to give her attention while she does not give me sex in return. Women will stop playing games when you be upfront with them. Actually it does not give women room to play games. They have a option to take it or leave it. Women can't handle a dude that is striaght to the point n I don't care how a women feels about this. I tell this to every female I interact with including my mom and female family members.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

I don't know I feel like in this particular situation, that straight up shyt is a benefit. She's 18, like @Hennessypapi said these broads have the attention span of a pigeon so finesse will bore them and give them room to play games. This isn't a 28-year-old "independent woman" waiting to be sold dreams (which I don't advocate for anyway) on settling down and have a whole bunch of shyt left for interpretation.

@Crayola Coyote is too direct in general lol but I think his cynicism is fukking him up for this particular girl more than being too direct.

I am aware I'm cynical towards women. but I do not want to be that dude that gets set up by a simp dude named Dontarus or shot gunnded in the back of the head by my girl while I sleep like on the tv show Snapped. Breh this thread is 3000 pages long just about how women manipulate men in the wrong way. I'm good.

 

[Shadow King]

My nikka. Do you know how many times I told women this they eject themselves out of a interaction with me. This lets me know that a chick was expecting me to give her attention while she does not give me sex in return. Women will stop playing games when you be upfront with them. Actually it does not give women room to play games. They have a option to take it or leave it. Women can't handle a dude that is striaght to the point n I don't care how a women feels about this. I tell this to every female I interact with including my mom and female family members.

I am aware I'm cynical towards women. but I do not want to be that dude that gets set up by a simp dude named Dontarus or shot gunnded in the back of the head by my girl while I sleep like on the tv show Snapped. Breh this thread is 3000 pages long just about how women manipulate men in the wrong way. I'm good.

Breh I'm kind of on your side my only thing is why lay down those rules and keep interacting with her without taking it a step further? I know you said you find her ugly, so if that's the case cut her loose I'm cynical also but I'm not too worried about getting shot in my head but fukk the Florida shyt she's talking about

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Breh I'm kind of on your side my only thing is why lay down those rules and keep interacting with her without taking it a step further? I know you said you find her ugly, so if that's the case cut her loose I'm cynical also but I'm not too worried about getting shot in my head but fukk the Florida shyt she's talking about

I can't cut her loose cause I'm not dating her or having sex with her. She comes around when she sees me and I interact with her to know what I like in women and what I don't like. Cause one day I'll have to pick a chick and I will have to see those signs this one is showing me. I live in Florida that I go to Tampa a lot n our town is boring as hell.

 

[YaFingerDealMe]

I got hoes but I got a crush on this chick and can't understand why, I can feel the energy though

 

[MikelArteta]

Well I'm no longer engaged brehs, fiance said she has alot of doubts and returned the ring to me.

Came out of nowhere .

Then days later she wanted to talk I went to the washroom and she went through my phone and found a convo with one of my friends who is a girl telling her that she returned the ring to me and I feel so embarrassed. And my friend said she feels like slapping her for wasting my time and I said lol She blew up at me for "discussing our issues with others" yet she's been messaging her sister about us all the time.

Won't lie it stings, I love her but such is life.

 

[Huellz Santana]

brehs, I need some quick advice. I just started dating this girl. She's dope and really attractive but she gives me such a hard time about my career. She doesn't understand that a man needs purpose and that I'm doing all of this for our (potential) future. she's not OD with it but all she wants to do is be cuddled up with me. I enjoy my time with her but when I tell her I won't be available because I got important business shyt to take care of she always gets offended.

it got so bad the other day I almost bushed her. she was crying and saying I didn't care about her because I'm making a big career move. I'm trying to reassure her but it's only so much emotions I can deal with. I gotta plan a ton of shyt and she aint helping. but deep down her heart is in the right place​

 

[360dagod]

brehs, I need some quick advice. I just started dating this girl. She's dope and really attractive but she gives me such a hard time about my career. She doesn't understand that a man needs purpose and that I'm doing all of this for our (potential) future. she's not OD with it but all she wants to do is be cuddled up with me. I enjoy my time with her but when I tell her I won't be available because I got important business shyt to take care of she always gets offended.

it got so bad the other day I almost bushed her. she was crying and saying I didn't care about her because I'm making a big career move. I'm trying to reassure her but it's only so much emotions I can deal with. I gotta plan a ton of shyt and she aint helping. but deep down her heart is in the right place​

You just started dating her and she acting like this...

 

[360dagod]

Well I'm no longer engaged brehs, fiance said she has alot of doubts and returned the ring to me.

Came out of nowhere .

Then days later she wanted to talk I went to the washroom and she went through my phone and found a convo with one of my friends who is a girl telling her that she returned the ring to me and I feel so embarrassed. And my friend said she feels like slapping her for wasting my time and I said lol She blew up at me for "discussing our issues with others" yet she's been messaging her sister about us all the time.

Won't lie it stings, I love her but such is life.

It's over breh

 

[TRUEST]

Well I'm no longer engaged brehs, fiance said she has alot of doubts and returned the ring to me.

Came out of nowhere .

Then days later she wanted to talk I went to the washroom and she went through my phone and found a convo with one of my friends who is a girl telling her that she returned the ring to me and I feel so embarrassed. And my friend said she feels like slapping her for wasting my time and I said lol She blew up at me for "discussing our issues with others" yet she's been messaging her sister about us all the time.

Won't lie it stings, I love her but such is life.

sorry to hear man. but before u proposed, was she the one hinting she wanted to marry? were u guys dating for at least a year before you proposed?

in this modern day in age, if ur going to get marriage, it shouldnt (should not) be ur original idea. the girl should be the one who is head over heels in love with u. bringing up the kids yall gon have, throwing all types of hints. its like going on national television to propose to your girl. u should never put urself out like that to begin with, but if u did do it, u better know the answer. how do u know the answer? because she has been hinting she wants to marry u.

also, its probably a family member of hers (or a friend) that's talking in her ear. she probably told one of them about the money she lent to you to pay off ur debts and they went wild on her. like he's trying to use u.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Don't reassure her of anything. Your self improvement is paramount. If she can't get with the program, then the bushes is where she belongs with a less ambitious man.

 

[DJSmooth]

brehs, I need some quick advice. I just started dating this girl. She's dope and really attractive but she gives me such a hard time about my career. She doesn't understand that a man needs purpose and that I'm doing all of this for our (potential) future. she's not OD with it but all she wants to do is be cuddled up with me. I enjoy my time with her but when I tell her I won't be available because I got important business shyt to take care of she always gets offended.

it got so bad the other day I almost bushed her. she was crying and saying I didn't care about her because I'm making a big career move. I'm trying to reassure her but it's only so much emotions I can deal with. I gotta plan a ton of shyt and she aint helping. but deep down her heart is in the right place​

All women do this because they require attention and stability. Reasons why bum nikkas can knock up girls all year long because they don't have shyt to do with their lives.

You either gonna have to get use to it and keep checking her every so often because she won't stop, they never do.

Or you gonna have to drop her and stop seriously dating till you get to where you want to be in life. Start back when you have the time to dedicate to dating women.

9/10 women ain't good for building with, they don't understand the void you feel as a man when you ain't where you want to be yet.

 

[TRUEST]

brehs, I need some quick advice. I just started dating this girl. She's dope and really attractive but she gives me such a hard time about my career. She doesn't understand that a man needs purpose and that I'm doing all of this for our (potential) future. she's not OD with it but all she wants to do is be cuddled up with me. I enjoy my time with her but when I tell her I won't be available because I got important business shyt to take care of she always gets offended.

it got so bad the other day I almost bushed her. she was crying and saying I didn't care about her because I'm making a big career move. I'm trying to reassure her but it's only so much emotions I can deal with. I gotta plan a ton of shyt and she aint helping. but deep down her heart is in the right place​

this is easy to fix. she seems like the type that wanna be under their man wherever he goes. if u like her, u and her can be a great team. u just have to have a stern conversation with her about what ur destiny is.

tell her flat out, listen hun, im a man, and i have dreams of having a family and being able to protect and provide for them. im doing what i have to do to be able to do that to my satisfaction. i want u on my team as my partner. but if u cant understand what im trying to do here, im gonna have to question your ability to hold ur own in our relationship.

trust, she'll get on track, fast.