Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Atlrocafella]

scenario a
imagine you checked through your girls phone and you see her msgn a dude (im pregnant and its yours), you find out and end the relationship

scenario b
your girl is pregnant you guys get married, 5 years down the road you decide to do a dna on little jr to see what hereditary diseases he might fall prey to in the future

the results shock you when you find out jr isn't yours

what scenario would you guys rather be in?

Like you always say, nothing wrong with checking on your investment.

 

[True Blue Moon]

I can't really argue with what u just said. But at the same time, her situation was the precise situation Ive always preached about. Remember I've always said u have to ensure ur girl likes u way more than you like her. That way, even if she does cheat, I'd be over her very, very fast. Women don't like u to get over them.

Snooping through a girls phone has specific benefits;

1. It allows you to know days, weeks, months and years in advance if ur being played for a fool

2. It can be the difference between u catching a curable disease and a incurable one.

3. It saves you from wasting precious resources on a worthless woman.

I did check her phone sporadically. What matters is, had she cheated or been caught talking to another guy, she knew my volatile nature well enough to understand I would have dumped her. She knew in her heart that given my "take it or leave it" attitude she had very little room for error.

And the main reason I checked her phone was she had a very high sex drive. If she's on her period she gets just as much pleasure performing oral. She loves d1ck. So a chick like that, if I'm gonna be rawdogging her, it's imperative i find out what she's capable of and that is usually found thru background checks (.i.e. Checking her phone aka 'snooping').

Respect. And man, she sounds perfect

Sometimes timelines don't match up for people to be together.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

@ anyone who logically rationalizes snooping through a chicks phone.

 

[twan83]

@ anyone who logically rationalizes snooping through a chicks phone.

Oh shyt ur back

 

[Prynce]

I was talking to my patna and I finally said something I been working toads mentally for a while
I said "I'll be damned before I let anybodies dirt ass daughter hurt or lie to me"
I'm proud of myself for that

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Oh shyt ur back

Yes sir, I am

 

[Shadow King]

@ anyone who logically rationalizes snooping through a chicks phone.

There's reasons I personally wouldn't unless I felt a reason to but I can't blame dudes for having a monthly checkup

Is it morally wrong to push up another man's woman?
I personally feel like if you not my friend or somebody I respect your girl is single to me
But I also feel it is foul for me too back door another man

It is. All these stories lately about brehs getting cheated on...nikkas catching the clap...is the "another nikka's bytch like me " feeling worth it?

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

There's reasons I personally wouldn't unless I felt a reason to but I can't blame dudes for having a monthly checkup

A monthly check up? On what? A perceived investment? But if a chick goes through her dudes phone, dude would be quick to throw her to the bush on the grounds of disrespect and lack of trust. At the end of the day, certain things are out of ones control- and infidelity is one of them.

 

[Shadow King]

A monthly check up? On what? A perceived investment? But if a chick goes through her dudes phone, dude would be quick to throw her to the bush on the grounds of disrespect and lack of trust. At the end of the day, certain things are out of ones control- and infidelity is one of them.

Yes, a "perceived" investment. As adept as women are at wearing gamefaces and keeping secrets, as well as the fact that the boyfriend is the only person out of the loop while the side man knows and enjoys his place, there's nothing REALLY wrong with making sure you aren't getting played, sick or pinned with a baby that isn't yours.

Yes checking your girls phone routinely while clutching yours tightly is hypocritical, but I don't know where @TRUEST and other phone-check advocates stand on the availability of their phones.

You can't control infidelity but you can find out it's occurring and move accordingly while you're least affected.

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

Yes, a "perceived" investment. As adept as women are at wearing gamefaces and keeping secrets, as well as the fact that the boyfriend is the only person out of the loop while the side man knows and enjoys his place, there's nothing REALLY wrong with making sure you aren't getting played, sick or pinned with a baby that isn't yours.

Yes checking your girls phone routinely while clutching yours tightly is hypocritical, but I don't know where @TRUEST and other phone-check advocates stand on the availability of their phones.

You can't control infidelity but you can find out it's occurring and move accordingly while you're least affected.

I understand the premise... simply don't agree with the "ways of finding out". I get it... no one likes to know or feel like they are being played. It's all a gamble whether a phone is checked or not.

 

[Shadow King]

I understand the premise... simply don't agree with the "ways of finding out". I get it... no one likes to know or feel like they are being played. It's all a gamble whether a phone is checked or not.

There is no other way to find out though

 

[Sandy_Cheeks]

There is no other way to find out though

How about asking . Mind you... there's a chance she may lie... and at that point, dude has 2 options... either leave because he doesn't believe her or trust her or stay...

 

[twan83]

Yes, a "perceived" investment. As adept as women are at wearing gamefaces and keeping secrets, as well as the fact that the boyfriend is the only person out of the loop while the side man knows and enjoys his place, there's nothing REALLY wrong with making sure you aren't getting played, sick or pinned with a baby that isn't yours.

Yes checking your girls phone routinely while clutching yours tightly is hypocritical, but I don't know where @TRUEST and other phone-check advocates stand on the availability of their phones.

You can't control infidelity but you can find out it's occurring and move accordingly while you're least affected.

If she don't give me a reason too I don't check her stuff
If she does I will
I aint hypocritical bout mines she has access too it but she won't find shyt cuz I aint doing shyt

 

[Shadow King]

How about asking . Mind you... there's a chance she may lie... and at that point, dude has 2 options... either leave because he doesn't believe her or trust her or stay...

The fact that you know this is why men in here aren't trying to ask who's gonna say "well babe I care about you a lot but Martell been throwing it in me too good to just stick to you"? If you actually do want to find out, you find out from the source of fukkery...the phone.

If she don't give me a reason too I don't check her stuff
If she does I will
I aint hypocritical bout mines she has access too it but she won't find shyt cuz I aint doing shyt

I feel the same but I can't be on some "you got access here you go " cause I feel that sets a tone of her doing her monthly inspections while I'm chilling leaving her a hit alone.

I don't know breh I'm not dating so I haven't had to deal with password wars

 

[twan83]

I feel the same but I can't be on some "you got access here you go " cause I feel that sets a tone of her doing her monthly inspections while I'm chilling leaving her a hit alone.

I don't know breh I'm not dating so I haven't had to deal with password wars

Na breh ain't even like that it's been made clear if u ain't got a damn reason too wtf u need too cuz if u do And she knows I don't play

If she feels she has a reason by all means but if u trying to pull a reason all the damn time just cuz u wanna be nosey or think to find shyt get over ur insecurities or

She knows to come to me if she keeps feeling a certain way and I can talk to her and guide her and ease her mind

Just cuz i allow u access doesn't give u right to abuse it there are still limits I have and u keep crossing them even tho I'm fair and explain them
Kick rocks as far as I'm concerned cuz I'm not gonna give u a reason too be that way