Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

My boy last night told me that I should approach women with more intent.

I have no problem approaching and for the most part confident but I should probably tell them more that I'm interested in them and such.

I don't know why I do it less now. I'm a bit gun-shy with that because some women it's hard for me to gauge whether they are into me or not.

I'm tall, good looking I think , work out, and have a deep voice it shouldn't be too hard to ramp it up...I may get less numbers but I may get more numbers that stick. Worth a shot..

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

lets just say, if i sense any nervousness from u while im using ur phone, then that tells me ur not being faithful. i.e., i ask to use ur phone to make a call cause my battery is dead. u give me ur phone and as im typing on it, ur eyeing me with great discomfort. ur breathing heavy, ur body movements appear fidgety...etc. these are signs ur doing something that is not right...i.e. scouting for new d1ck, talking to exes, entertaining a courting session with some dude at ur class or work, etc. if ur dating a guy who is on is G, the only conversations with a male ur allowed to have is with men u are related to by blood....i.e. your brother, uncle, father, close cousins, friends uve had since u were a pre-teen...etc.

This is crazy man....

I normally respect what you have to say on here but this is just going too far.

This reeks of insecurity and unstableness on your part. You have to let people exercise their free will to live life and trust that you've picked one who is loyal.

 

[Mr210]

This is crazy man....

I normally respect what you have to say on here but this is just going too far.

This reeks of insecurity and unstableness on your part. You have to let people exercise their free will to live life and trust that you've picked one who is loyal.

Yea, he drops some gems but damn, he is sounding real paranoid with that post you replied to

 

[360dagod]

This is crazy man....

I normally respect what you have to say on here but this is just going too far.

This reeks of insecurity and unstableness on your part. You have to let people exercise their free will to live life and trust that you've picked one who is loyal.

My nikka gonna be on some Colombo shyt

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Yea, he drops some gems but damn, he is sounding real paranoid with that post you replied to

Not only is it paranoid, it's actually totally unhealthy and sounds downright emotionally abusive.

Abusers try to remove people from women's lives and isolate them.

The shyt he's talking just isn't cool at all.

 

[Poitier]

Some men never recover from getting cheated on... shyt will shatter a ego to pieces

 

[Mr210]

Not only is it paranoid, it's actually totally unhealthy and sounds downright emotionally abusive.

Abusers try to remove people from women's lives and isolate them.

The shyt he's talking just isn't cool at all.

Yep cosign, I have a couple of female friends I wish a woman would have the audacity to tell me who I can and can't talk to...it's all about boundaries

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Some men never recover from getting cheated on... shyt will shatter a ego to pieces

There's a lot of talk in this thread about being secure, building self worth and recognizing you're the prize as a man but part of that is realizing that everything isn't about YOU. You can't control everyone's actions, just your own.......Other people's actions (even if they are unfavorable to you) are a reflection of that person and how they feel about life. It's not a reflection of who you are as a person.

If your girl cheats, you deal with it and move on.

 

[Poitier]

There's a lot of talk in this thread about being secure, building self worth and recognizing you're the prize as a man but part of that is realizing that everything isn't about UOU. You can't control everyone's actions, just your own.......Other people's actions (even if they are unfavorable to you) are a reflection of that person and how they feel about life. It's not a reflection of who you are as a person.

If your girl cheats, you deal with it and move on.

I agree 100%

Not gone lie I've been cheated on and took it square on the chin and it took a minute to let go off the hurt and paranoia that came from that but letting that person permanently damage you is the ultimate L.

 

[FakeNews]

Building a chick up in your head as anything more than just another option is a huge mistake and hard to undo

A fukking men

 

[FakeNews]

a woman thats worried about her job security could have easily lured u into a sexual harassment situation where she gets to sue the company and not have to worry so much about her job security. u on the other hand, get screwed.

its worth a shot kicking it to her. but if she got fired, she might have ill-feelings towards the company and anyone reaching out from that company will likely ignite her ire quite easily. be careful

Thanks for the reply and advice. Ive thought about the bolded. I dont want to respark any ill will she might have toward company but yeah Im gonna give it a shot

 

[MikelArteta]

There's a lot of talk in this thread about being secure, building self worth and recognizing you're the prize as a man but part of that is realizing that everything isn't about YOU. You can't control everyone's actions, just your own.......Other people's actions (even if they are unfavorable to you) are a reflection of that person and how they feel about life. It's not a reflection of who you are as a person.

If your girl cheats, you deal with it and move on.

Yup but how would you know if your girl is cheating?

There are a few people out there who will be upfront with their partner but for the majority its the other party finds out.

And the Majority of time its checking up on your investment.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Yup but how would you know if your girl is cheating?

There are a few people out there who will be upfront with their partner but for the majority its the other party finds out.

And the Majority of time its checking up on your investment.

The truth always comes to light one way or another........but I'm certainly not going to spend my time looking for something negative.

I also operate under the assumption that everyone cheats.

I'll cross that bridge if and when it gets there.

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

The truth always comes to light one way or another........but I'm certainly not going to spend my time looking for something negative.

I also operate under the assumption that everyone cheats.

I'll cross that bridge if and when it gets there.

Yeah it will come to light alright.. months or years later when you find out you got something incurable

 

[BlackManLiveFromLondon]

A nikka like me im only 19 and I'm seeing how fukked up the game is

Then again, I found out at like 15-16 how shyt was

Gotta give a shoutout to you guys in your thirties the advice here has been A1. Furthermore, women really need to be banned from posting in this thread because they don't contribute at all