Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[reserved_one]

Everything we need to know starts on the inside, so that's the first place to look.

Example, if I'm a dude that busts super quick as a grown man, there's probably more of a psychological than a physical reason. The average dude would just start buy some numbing cream or do math in his head. A dude who wants permanent change would ask himself why his body is literally running from the p*ssy, and that'll take a lot of tough questions and honest answers until he finds the hangup that holds all the symptoms together.

To be more specific to dudes example, his chick wanted him to "pound that shyt". Because it doesn't take much for a woman to notice when a dude is dropping his strokes in with some umph behind it, I'm going to assume breh is naturally more tender with chicks than most might like. There's always different tastes, but her being completely put off by the whole thing leans more toward breh not being dominant enough in bed.

That "blame" goes both ways perhaps, but this could either be a one-off situation of being sexually incompatible, or one of many instances where breh, in some form or fashion, was more on the tender side when the chick he's dealing with craved the more dominant side.

Asking yourself questions and being real with the answers that come up is always a good starting point.

In Hindsight I feel like I could had been more dominate but I knew if I kept on fukking her hard n deep like I was, I was gonna bust quickly and that would had been another major issue. Thats Why I was on autopilot half the time and it was my first time having sex with a woman since last September. It just fukked me up when she couldnt feel anything. I never ever had a chick to tell me this. My previous ex felt everything and enjoyed it. I dont get it

But I do realize now that I have Psychological issues when it comes to sex. I treat sex as a mission, a job instead of a pleasant enjoyful experience. Im man enough to admit this and Share it. Its just crazy because as a black man I feel the pressure to live up to these expectations to be the Ultimate womanizer, Mandingo, and Tupac in a Business suit all in one.

 

[reserved_one]

Wow. She's sounds childish as hell. Looks like in reality you've dodged a bullet. Y'all just started having sex and she's already complaining yall weren't connecting? smh

Yeah. She's on that spirituality/Conscious wave where she thought the Universe brought us together for reason. She's 22, fresh outta college and claims to wanna settle down with a good man. Her ass told me that she knows im a great guy and the risk involved of losing someone special like me. She simply cant get over me being average or the sex being lackluster. She feels theres no hope, nothing will Change.

Everytime we kissed, touched the Chemistry was there but regardless of the fact im gonna take the time I need to heal and improve myself.

 

[brebabyyy]

Yeah. She's on that spirituality/Conscious wave where she thought the Universe brought us together for reason. She's 22, fresh outta college and claims to wanna settle down with a good man. Her ass told me that she knows im a great guy and the risk involved of losing someone special like me but she simply cant get over me being average or the sex.

Everytime we kissed, touched the Chemistry was there but regardless of the fact im gonna take the time I need to heal and improve myself.

How did YOU feel about the sex?

 

[brebabyyy]

So she's basically straight up telling you that she's used to dudes blowing her back out

I'm honestly not even sure how I'd feel about that.

What's wrong with getting your back blown out? I believe that's the best sex. It could be because I like to be dominanted. Those slow strokes makes my anxiety go up. I like sex hard and fast.

 

[reserved_one]

Moved way too fast bro. Way too fast

I know. I dont normally move this swiftly but I felt the timing was right. Im ready to Build...I dont got the time or energy to be on my Playa steez even though thats what im gonna have to do. I got a sick father i gotta help take care of amongst other things to deal with. The Dating game can be very grueling especially in this day in age when your trying to find your Match

 

[reserved_one]

How did YOU feel about the sex?

I thought the sex was good..I enjoyed it and got my nut. At first it started off slow but I ended up getting more into it towards the end when she climbed on top as I became aggressive.

The sex just wasnt good to her because she expected much more.

I even went down on her and made her nut 3 times before we even began fukking


She still wasnt impressed

 

[MikelArteta]

Never force someone to be with you.

Just when I think i finally found a woman to date, she hits me with the " im not looking for a relationship right now everytime i get into one i always waste my time"
Which is cool i understand. So i told her how i felt and she was like "put it like this she just kind of going with the flow"
Then i was like "ok lets go with the flow then etc etc etc"

She says "idk"

So i say, "its cool im not asking u right now for ur answer, im saying think about it"

Feel like i need to just chalk it up as an L yo

 

[MikelArteta]

Probably wasn't the reason why.

Believe half of what someone says when there dumping you.


Ppl will tell.you whatever to hurt you and try and destroy your self esteem

Well me and my girl just broke up...she told me that we weren't connecting sexually and i couldnt Please her enough with not having a Monster dikk

The crazy thing is she the first chick to complain about this. Im fukking hurt right now.

My Pride

 

[MikelArteta]

Focus on the what not the why

You were dumped. Why doesn't matter

It's the why's that make you worry and keep you up all night.

Even if you out there like a porn star she would have still broken up with you because it would have been something else.

I thought the sex was good..I enjoyed it and got my nut. At first it started off slow but I ended up getting more into it towards the end when she climbed on top as I became aggressive.

The sex just wasnt good to her because she expected much more.

I even went down on her and made her nut 3 times before we even began fukking


She still wasnt impressed

 

[International Playa]

I know. I dont normally move this swiftly but I felt the timing was right. Im ready to Build...I dont got the time or energy to be on my Playa steez even though thats what im gonna have to do. I got a sick father i gotta help take care of amongst other things to deal with. The Dating game can be very grueling especially in this day in age when your trying to find your Match

That was way to early, you barely knew the girl. Dudes should only introduce people you are dating to family only if you damn near know she could be your wifey/mother of your children

 

[MikelArteta]

Women only want to be friends to relieve their guilt.

I don't want to hurt him so I'll offer friends and if he accepts well no more guilt.

To keep you as a backup, knowing she can have you back if things don't work out with the new brehs she's messing with

And the thing is she still wanna be friends. I dont know if i can do that, not because im Selfish but because im gonna be constant reminded of that shyt when i talk to her or see her.

 

[Silkk]

That was brutal of her. A simple I'm not feeling this should have been enough. U don't need a heartless person like that in ur life anyway

I hear you breh...appreciate the feedback. Im really going thru it right now but im going do Everything i can to turn this into positives.

My ex thot tried to hit me with that bullshyt after I told her to fukk off

I don't eat p*ssy and i'm selfish as fukk with thots tho

Gonna pop an addy, fukk her one last time in a few weeks and BEAT HER p*ssy TO SMITHERINES the entire night


"Talk that shyt now"

 

[TRUEST]

We known each other since April but things got more serious between us in May when we started spending more time together and we became official this month.

I just started bringing her around the family too...met her fam last week.

This week was our first time having sex.

dude ill be very honest with you. until you fucck a girl, u dont have her. trust me on this.

even girls that barely like u. if u fucck em good, even if its just ONE TIME!!!!! trust me, u are miles and miles ahead of ur competition. ur objective with any chick u get with (who u like) is to bed them asap. stop with that "taking it slow" bullsh1t. it will always, i repeat, always bite u in the ass!

and btw, fuccking a chick good does not mean having a "big" d1ck. u just got to have the energy to go relentlessly and viciously. very few women dont like to be dominated.

 

[Asiatic Black Hebrew]

What's wrong with getting your back blown out? I believe that's the best sex. It could be because I like to be dominanted. Those slow strokes makes my anxiety go up. I like sex hard and fast.

Oh I don't think there's anything wrong at all. It's just the way it was said, I guess. Having my new chick tell me, after we had sex for the first time, that she's used to getting her back blown out by other guys would have me kinda I don't know, maybe I'm overthinking it, but the way the poster described the interaction just seemed

Of course everyone has a past, but I don't want the visual of some guy she met before me fukking my girls brains out.

 

[VFib]

I thought the sex was good..I enjoyed it and got my nut. At first it started off slow but I ended up getting more into it towards the end when she climbed on top as I became aggressive.

The sex just wasnt good to her because she expected much more.

I even went down on her and made her nut 3 times before we even began fukking


She still wasnt impressed

Did you talk about your sexual wants, needs, desires, etc beforehand?