Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
- Thread starter Rominati
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I told my ex don't add me on Snapchat. She said she wants to do it so she can send pics of the kids.
Next thing I know is she looking at my story. Now i gotta put this shyt on friends only
Next thing I know is she looking at my story. Now i gotta put this shyt on friends only
Maybe I'll be in the same space in 4 years...but when you never experience mutual attractions...you get cold.
Gonna have to make love to goals.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Damn breh. That sounds.... I don't even know what to say.
How do you deal with stuff like this brehs? 
Had drinks with this girl on Monday. Prior to that we were hitting it off and extremely flirty before meeting. During it we did the normal icebreaker stuff and asked questions.
Later that night she said that I was nervous during our date. I explained myself (too much) that I wasn't and any sort of nervousness is normal meeting someone with romantic intent.
We texted a little but she stopped Tuesday. She texts me this afternoon. I haven't texted her back. Should I even bother with her mind games? She's attractive and I thought we had in commin, but I could be wrong.
Had drinks with this girl on Monday. Prior to that we were hitting it off and extremely flirty before meeting. During it we did the normal icebreaker stuff and asked questions.
Later that night she said that I was nervous during our date. I explained myself (too much) that I wasn't and any sort of nervousness is normal meeting someone with romantic intent.
We texted a little but she stopped Tuesday. She texts me this afternoon. I haven't texted her back. Should I even bother with her mind games? She's attractive and I thought we had in commin, but I could be wrong.
Is this is response to me or some other dude I can't see?
Hoodoo Child
The Urban Legend
Always show backbone and be in control of the situation. If a woman don't respect you or don't sense any security around you..then your wasting her time.
Mister_DoItNice
Leading The Regime
Is this is response to me or some other dude I can't see?
It was a response to what you said about not experiencing mutual attraction.
How do you deal with stuff like this brehs?
Had drinks with this girl on Monday. Prior to that we were hitting it off and extremely flirty before meeting. During it we did the normal icebreaker stuff and asked questions.
Later that night she said that I was nervous during our date. I explained myself (too much) that I wasn't and any sort of nervousness is normal meeting someone with romantic intent.
We texted a little but she stopped Tuesday. She texts me this afternoon. I haven't texted her back. Should I even bother with her mind games? She's attractive and I thought we had in commin, but I could be wrong.
nah dont punk out on this and blame it on "mind games". not sure what its going to take before u guys get it through ur heads.
this woman clearly told u what u needed to work on in order to better ur chances on ur next date with someone else. u came off nervous. in other words, you TURNED HER OFF!!!!
think back to how the entire interaction went, take notes and learn to avoid everything u did that u think may have turned her off.
stop acting so gadamn excited when ur with a girl u like. in the game of seduction, NEVER EVER fall under the delusion that the more u show the girl u want her, the more shes going to want u. nah, let her know ur interested but that u can take it or leave it (dont say that to her but let ur mannerisms show it). and if ur a nervous person by nature, drink a lil alcohol before u head out (no drunk driving please).
Maybe a couple in high school when I was a little bytch
...but I'm 6 years removed. In my young adult life...nah. That's why I'm more critical of myself than most find normal. My void is greater than some of yall realize 
Well...some people click or not. I recall wanting to go to another spot and she said "Am I boring you?"
Also on first introduction she tried to shake my hand. I was like "nah we hug". If anything many of the things she did or said she was the nervous one and she was projecting.
She texted me again and I said how about we do something again and she asked what did I have in mind so balls in my court. There's another woman I'm actually more into I'm gonna see tomorrow afternoon.
True Blue Moon
Superstar
Real shyt. I'm noticing a trend of dudes behaving like weirdos then returning to the thread on some "Women are crazy, right?".
I do standup comedy, and any time I bomb, it's MY fault. Even if the crowd was lame, you'll never grow if you're so comfortable having an excuse. Gotta always be at the cause and not the effect, and that requires being real with yourself.