Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Crayola Coyote said:
In order for women to stop playing games you gotta tell them exactly what you want to do. You have to have a plan. No plans equals mind games. She ether down or not. If not charge her to the game.
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Yup, give them no wiggle room to play. Either she's with the program or you part ways with no hard feelings or grudges.
 
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Crayola Coyote said:
Since 2017 I only went on 2 dates. All I met at work. Anyway, I go out a lot and talk to a bunch of women still taking Ls. Nothing poppin. I truley hate women Breh. I dispise them. American society allows them to get away with so much it's insane. Just last night I went out I saw this white chick around my age with another white lady that around 40 but had a body of a 26 yr old. I said what's up to her she walked right past me with her middle finger in my face. I didn't do anything just blew it off n started talking to this black chick that was right next to me. All a sudden the same white girl that gave me the finger walked back to me and told me she was sorry she did that. I told the chick I'm good and ignored her. As I'm talking to the black chick her dude pulls up and get real close to her as if I was gonna snatch her. He tells me what's up i says what's up they leave to this club next door. Real talk it don't matter where I go I talk to women, I get ignored, I change my game up from being aggressive to assertive still taking Ls. Black women to White women whatever fukk em.
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post a pic breh
 
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Crayola Coyote said:
Since 2017 I only went on 2 dates. All I met at work. Anyway, I go out a lot and talk to a bunch of women still taking Ls. Nothing poppin. I truley hate women Breh. I dispise them. American society allows them to get away with so much it's insane. Just last night I went out I saw this white chick around my age with another white lady that around 40 but had a body of a 26 yr old. I said what's up to her she walked right past me with her middle finger in my face. I didn't do anything just blew it off n started talking to this black chick that was right next to me. All a sudden the same white girl that gave me the finger walked back to me and told me she was sorry she did that. I told the chick I'm good and ignored her. As I'm talking to the black chick her dude pulls up and get real close to her as if I was gonna snatch her. He tells me what's up i says what's up they leave to this club next door. Real talk it don't matter where I go I talk to women, I get ignored, I change my game up from being aggressive to assertive still taking Ls. Black women to White women whatever fukk em.
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Your problem is

You doin all these changes for women... Not for yourself. You got the game fukked up. Youre never gonna have a comfortable, amicable, and peaceful relationship with women being this hardpressed for their validation.

Do you love yourself to the utmost level?
 
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Crayola Coyote said:
Since 2017 I only went on 2 dates. All I met at work. Anyway, I go out a lot and talk to a bunch of women still taking Ls. Nothing poppin. I truley hate women Breh. I dispise them. American society allows them to get away with so much it's insane. Just last night I went out I saw this white chick around my age with another white lady that around 40 but had a body of a 26 yr old. I said what's up to her she walked right past me with her middle finger in my face. I didn't do anything just blew it off n started talking to this black chick that was right next to me. All a sudden the same white girl that gave me the finger walked back to me and told me she was sorry she did that. I told the chick I'm good and ignored her. As I'm talking to the black chick her dude pulls up and get real close to her as if I was gonna snatch her. He tells me what's up i says what's up they leave to this club next door. Real talk it don't matter where I go I talk to women, I get ignored, I change my game up from being aggressive to assertive still taking Ls. Black women to White women whatever fukk em.
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Best advice would be to stop thinking about pulling women altogether for a while. Real talk. Just start conversing with everyone who passes you with a smile and genuine intent to find out what makes them unique. Sounds crazy but this is practice but also a confidence booster. It will make you more comfortable socially.

Just ask them about themselves, about their family, how many siblings, are they close, what do they do, what school, best friends, just keep asking questions. Look for connections and commonalities. Some people might be like I don't know you fool. But that's ok. That means your questions are personal and rejection is good because it makes us stronger.

Just keep talking to people to learn how to do it. Learn how to make people laugh. Learn how to make people smile. Learn how to make people comfortable sharing with you.

If you just do this publicly, while working on yourself privately, next thing you know you'll have 20 chicks and you'll be choosing which one is worthy of the d.

And above all you have to let go of that resentment, that anger. You have to forgive because even if you had a chick you'd run her off quick. Women require a certain amount of tenderness which ultimately boils down to your ability to keep your cool in hostile situations. If you can't handle her mood swings what you gonna do when shyt really hits the fan?

So you're not having any luck with ladies? That's obvious by your attitude about it. You're being emotional and feminine and that type of energy of course repels feminine energy. This is science. Women seek security in a man. We can't be this be insecure and hope to attract women.

Build yourself up. Hit the gym. Talk to people. Realize you're a great person and above all: forgive the world. Let go of that hate. Love yourself, love everyone around you, next thing you know you're surrounded by love.

And I don't fukk random women, I constantly build deep relationships and fukk who I decide I wanna fukk based on who I'm feeling the most. But I treat every interaction with a woman as a "relationship" of some sort, even if it's just a simple smile and hello. I always want to make them smile just in case. You never know when something will escalate. They say luck is preparation for opportunity. Cool thing about this is preparation creates opportunities as well so go better yourself and get in deep conversations with people along the way.

Of course being handsome always helps but just smiling can take you a long way. Makes people drop their defenses. Good luck.
 
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YoungCoolSwag921 said:
Whered you get this from if I mask patna... Is there a manual for women that they come on earth with? :jbhmm:
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I got it from Mr Locario on you tube. He's a dating coach. Check him out. The reason why dudes don't make things happen with chicks is because we don't have a plan. In a chicks mind if you don't tell her what it is she gonna put you in the friend zone or just play games. I done this before and chicks ether stop playing games or they charge themselves out.
 
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YoungCoolSwag921 said:
Your problem is

You doin all these changes for women... Not for yourself. You got the game fukked up. Youre never gonna have a comfortable, amicable, and peaceful relationship with women being this hardpressed for their validation.

Do you love yourself to the utmost level?
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I'm going by what's going to work for me. Being aggressive didn't work so I changed it up. I use to put women into categores but I don't do that any more I treat them all the same. No, I don't need validation from women cause when I get rejected I don't care to dwell on why she didn't want to mess with me. My mentality is why should I mess with her, what does she have to offer me. I only got 3 chicks that I kinda liked but I stopped talking to them cause they were weird. Rejection is normal it's part of the game your not gonna get every girl you talk to. I gotta switch up my environment too.
 
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