Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[ViShawn]

text her if u want. but after this, if she doesnt initiate a text, dead it

Yeah we go back and forth with banter. I just am thinking aloud.

Dont.

Start gettin busy with goals. The more u invest in urself the less attached/clingy u will be.

Course I have my goals. I'm out of town right now actually for family but I text people, etc and just genuinely want to say hi.

Funny with the texting though many women are different with that.

Had sex with one girl I was talking to for a bit and talked on the phone and she got LIVID that I "waited" so long to contact her (just two days)

Meanwhile other girls are different and if you do enough it adds intrigue.

 

[ViShawn]

Oh I'm not gonna trip because she actually paid more for our date and that let me knows she's interested in my time and not what I give her, etc. Let me chill out lol.

 

[HearNoEvil]

Your girl problems won't go away. They'll only change form.

You'll have to chose between two women you love. Your female acquaintances will hate you because you pumped and dumped all of them.

Your problems don't get solved. They evolve. The next level isn't better so enjoy the journey.

 

[Shadow King]

Your girl problems won't go away. They'll only change form.

You'll have to chose between two women you love. Your female acquaintances will hate you because you pumped and dumped all of them.

Your problems don't get solved. They evolve. The next level isn't better so enjoy the journey.

Is this really a "problem" though?

 

[Captain Crunch]

Just met a milf, had her turned on and everything, but she said I should get out the uber.

Riding the train now with the and face

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

 

[Clay Puppington]

Delete

 

[Johnny Kilroy]

Lowkey....

Developing Good Posture can be like the pitcher who adds another pitch to his arsenal

Excellent point. I been mindful of my posture so long I almost forgot how important it is.

Years ago my sister was like "Why you trying to walk around with your chest out" but nah my chest wasn't out, my core was just correct. It shows confidence. Body language. Remember, a servant walks on their toes but a King walks on his heels. Walk into a room the right way and you'll have all the panties moist before speaking a word.

 

[Cryptocurrency Scarface]

I have an unpopular opinion that I'd like to share.

I'm 23 and I don't believe in having a girlfriend or a long term relationship until I'm in the 28-32 age range.
I'd like to finish school and build a career, some money, a good friend network etc. Honestly, having a relationship is very low in my priority list. Over the past year, I've cut off a lot of people and changed up my habits, health, and read a lot of books to change my general mindset and I'm so at ease with myself that I rarely feel lonely. It could also be subconscious; my parents don't like each other and a lot of men / dudes I've seen that are in relationships have turned soft. The last thing I want to do is turn soft in a sink or swim world.

Chime in and tell me what you guys think.

Agree totally

 

[StretfordRed]

Didn't think it was thread worthy, so thought I'd ask in here

Been seeing a chick for about 2 months now, she wanted to make things exclusive early doors so we did. But throughout all that time she always commenting about other celeb brehs like The Rock, breed from 50 shades, and even one of the brehs from The Last U when we were watching it together ..She be like "oh hello "

I generally don't do that about chicks, as you don't know how they react, so I don't even retaliate.

So anyways, yesterday she's at a hen party. She said there aren't no strippers as the bridesmaid won't allow it . Then half way through the day she sends me 2 pics of topless male servants. TBH I was at work and was more mad she sent me topless men when I was looking at my phone in public...People sitting next to me must have though wtttffff

So I tell her, please don't ever send me stuff like that again. But then she replied saying "They are such lovely guys though" and "Been having a nice chat with them " (word for word) and I generally felt like why are you telling me this

She's been single for 5 years, aint really fukked anyone (as she says ) and you can count her Hitlist on one hand. She 34, which raises red flags all over the place...So I don't know if her dating etiquette is off. But am I tripping to be a bit salty here?

I was meant to meet her tonight, but hmm. I feel a way right about now

 

[HearNoEvil]

I have an unpopular opinion that I'd like to share.

I'm 23 and I don't believe in having a girlfriend or a long term relationship until I'm in the 28-32 age range.
I'd like to finish school and build a career, some money, a good friend network etc. Honestly, having a relationship is very low in my priority list. Over the past year, I've cut off a lot of people and changed up my habits, health, and read a lot of books to change my general mindset and I'm so at ease with myself that I rarely feel lonely. It could also be subconscious; my parents don't like each other and a lot of men / dudes I've seen that are in relationships have turned soft. The last thing I want to do is turn soft in a sink or swim world.

Chime in and tell me what you guys think.

What is your endgame? If you want a marriage/family, you are being short sighted. Picking and maintaining long term relationships is a skill. The more you do it, the better you get at it. If you haven't practiced running a long term relationship in five years, how well will you do when you decide to settle down? Poorly. You won't know what habits you can put up with and which ones you can't. You won't know what you are willing to change about yourself and what you aren't. You won't know how to compromise after half a decade of single living. You won't know how to deal with boredom when you start committing again. Part of getting better at something is failure. If family is what you are after, it would be better for you to work the kinks out now than when you are already in your thirties. Like the building of all skills, time is not on your side. (By the way, men who turn soft during relationships, suck at relationships. Just because they suck doesn't mean you have to. If all your friends suck at basketball, does that mean that you will too?) Good luck to you breh.

 

[HearNoEvil]

She's been single for 5 years, aint really fukked anyone (as she says ) and you can count her Hitlist on one hand. She 34, which raises red flags all over the place...So I don't know if her dating etiquette is off. But am I tripping to be a bit salty here?

I was meant to meet her tonight, but hmm. I feel a way right about now

These are shyt tests. She's trying to get you to react. That'd be normal if it wasn't so excessive. In my humble opinion, this one is broken.

If she's too obnoxious for you, dead her breh.

 

[Clay Puppington]

What is your endgame, etc

Thank you for taking the time to write this out.

My endgame is enjoying life to the fullest and my vision, while it would be better or nicer with a wife in the picture, is still captivating. I'm without a doubt jaded on marriage though, which is why I'm trying to get perspective and you gave me some.

I disagree with your basketball analogy though. I get what you meant but putting it that way makes it seems like your friends don't influence you (they do)

 

[HearNoEvil]

Thank you for taking the time to write this out.

My endgame is enjoying life to the fullest and my vision, while it would be better or nicer with a wife in the picture, is still captivating. I'm without a doubt jaded on marriage though, which is why I'm trying to get perspective and you gave me some.

I disagree with your basketball analogy though. I get what you meant but putting it that way makes it seems like your friends don't influence you (they do)

You're welcome. If it helps, you could always do the ceremony and ring exchange without signing contracts or involving the government.

No one should put fifty percent of their finances at risk, not even for love.

 

[StretfordRed]

These are shyt tests. She's trying to get you to react. That'd be normal if it wasn't so excessive. In my humble opinion, this one is broken.

If she's too obnoxious for you, dead her breh.

Bruh it's literally every time we meet it's the same.

I'm thinking you're right. It's a reaction tester. But I don't like her that much to feel a way

Think it's time to her