and there it is. too many of us trying to fit the square into the circle. We need to go after the women that are choosing. if the ones that are choosing aren't attractive to us, don't get mad, get better meaning get your money up, step your game up, eat better, work out more, dress better, gain knowledge, work on your craft/mission, go to different places, eliminate toxic people out of your circle, etc (all things you should be doing for yourself regardless but the side effect to all of this is that you will attract different people in your life). We've been giving a lot of the same advice over and over again but i feel like people are looking for the konami code to the game. Might be going against the grain a little but as much as we talk about these hos not being shyt and expecting the world, part of the equation is us guys realize that we are not entitled to p*ssy or love or affection or even respect no matter how great we think we are. Women will choose or not choose you for many reasons that may or may not seem legitimate. if you want something as a man, it's your job to put yourself in a position for them to give it to you. Then again, most of us barely know what we want out of the game...Breh
Secret to the game is you go for the woman that likes you. You cant make a woman like you,
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I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence" I turned to my left I see a girl at the bar. She looked way better than the girl that was sitting next to me. as soon as I was going to get up to talk to her some guy sits by her to kiss her. I got vexed. It's like god/universe does not want me to get with a attractive woman. So I change direction to the bathroom. I come back, the girl ask me if I want a drink, I tell her flat out no.
I buy her a drink and end the date from there. She tell me she had a good time. I say to myself that we didn't even talk to each other how did you have fun? The chick is average, with DD t*ts and a small gut that look like she had a kid but she doesn't have kids. which disgust me cause I can't stand a chick with a stomach of any kind. I'm not getting no chicks at all. I talked to multiple women this year. Going 10-72, gave them my number nothing. I see her at work time to time, she txt me, I txt her back but I'm not interested in her. I leave her on delivered in txt. This weekend im gonna see if I can find a chick that is attractive.
Steph Curry approach.. at least as I call it
Keep shooting until one of your shots falls in the basket. If we shot the ball and made every single shot, there'd be no fun in that. Plus,a lot of my coli brehs would have they own basketball team of churn running around. If a chick rejects me, I just move on to the next. She making room for the next chick to come into your life ya heard me.
I've been talking to every chick I see that is attractive. I give her my number, set up a plan, she never calls me back. I give my number out to another girl I get her number, She doesn't respond. Only girl that talks to me is this girl from work that I do not like and took her out on a date cause I didn't have nobody. We met up at a bar, I didn't make a move on her cause I was not into her. I didn't even talk to her on the date. She was on her phone I was sipping my Jack n Coke. She was there just to be there. I said to myself "so this is how it's like to have a gf/wife. Sit here in a public area in silence
Before you offer your number, how long are these conversations? On average.
So ive been chatting up chicks..getting a vibe and of course it gets to this part
"Okay well i'm gonna go get some food...it was nice meeting you" shyt... Or "I dont know where I wanna go" shyt...
Usually when I chat up chicks i'm playing my guitar and doing my own shyt. Quite frankly with my money situation I just throw in the towel and let them leave.
Is that the "is he aggressive" test?
It's like..i'm playing guitar..you come into my zone in hopes of gaining my attention..we get a vibe going and then want to have me chase you around and shyt...I understand men have to lead but I feel like some of these broads be rushing shyt and it starts to feel like immature games on some "can I get him wrapped around my finger and get him following me around" type shyt.
"Okay well i'm gonna go get some food...it was nice meeting you" shyt... Or "I dont know where I wanna go" shyt...
Usually when I chat up chicks i'm playing my guitar and doing my own shyt. Quite frankly with my money situation I just throw in the towel and let them leave.
Is that the "is he aggressive" test?
It's like..i'm playing guitar..you come into my zone in hopes of gaining my attention..we get a vibe going and then want to have me chase you around and shyt...I understand men have to lead but I feel like some of these broads be rushing shyt and it starts to feel like immature games on some "can I get him wrapped around my finger and get him following me around" type shyt.
So ive been chatting up chicks..getting a vibe and of course it gets to this part
"Okay well i'm gonna go get some food...it was nice meeting you" shyt... Or "I dont know where I wanna go" shyt...
Usually when I chat up chicks i'm playing my guitar and doing my own shyt. Quite frankly with my money situation I just throw in the towel and let them leave.
Is that the "is he aggressive" test?
It's like..i'm playing guitar..you come into my zone in hopes of gaining my attention..we get a vibe going and then want to have me chase you around and shyt...I understand men have to lead but I feel like some of these broads be rushing shyt and it starts to feel like immature games on some "can I get him wrapped around my finger and get him following me around" type shyt.
A girl approaching you is interest off the bat, so it depends on if you're getting their numbers.
If you are, that sounds like a normal chick exit. If not, you're losing opportunities. That gut feeling you have may be sensing the missed chance.
True Blue Moon
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You thinking yourself out of p*ssy breh. Shoot your shot before she bounces if you wanna shoot it. Get your yes or no if you want it and leave the overthinking to her.So ive been chatting up chicks..getting a vibe and of course it gets to this part
"Okay well i'm gonna go get some food...it was nice meeting you" shyt... Or "I dont know where I wanna go" shyt...
Usually when I chat up chicks i'm playing my guitar and doing my own shyt. Quite frankly with my money situation I just throw in the towel and let them leave.
Is that the "is he aggressive" test?
It's like..i'm playing guitar..you come into my zone in hopes of gaining my attention..we get a vibe going and then want to have me chase you around and shyt...I understand men have to lead but I feel like some of these broads be rushing shyt and it starts to feel like immature games on some "can I get him wrapped around my finger and get him following me around" type shyt.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
Breh
Secret to the game is you go for the woman that likes you. You cant make a woman like you,
I'm aware of that. I only ask this girl out cause the last girl that was giving me attention that looked good quit at work. So I had to talk to this girl cause i didn't want to get hanged up on the last girl. plus all the chicks I gave my number out to never was interested. So I'm stuck taking Ls until tomorrow night when I go out and hopefully see a chick that is attractive. The other girl at work that I took out on a date always asking me if I'm gonna go out, I tell her yeah.. but I'm only going to look for chicks.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
My niche is being straight forward & cold approaching. I get to the point cause I always have a plan. I'm not good at being indirect with my intentions. But I always do not give out too much information cause women are looking for things to NOT LIKE YOU so they can rationalize a reason to reject you. Women are not like us or think like us. It's all about the moments for them. That's were we mess up on here.
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Crayola Coyote
Superstar
I'm talking to more and more women. I see a woman that I like that is beside a dude I go by her and ask the guy if the girl is with him. 100% of the time the guy by the girl is not his girl. Just some random guy standing by her. I'm taking Ls like the NY KNICKS but I'm getting more fearless with talking to women that it's a habit. I'm not finding women that are into me. 2 week ago I talked to 30 chicks in one night. 30! I couldn't find number 31 cause the streets were dead and everything was closed.
Crayola Coyote
Superstar
That's 100% of women out there that do that bullshyt. I've been I situations this year were a girl I gave my number too or saw again somewhere asked me if I wanted to hang out with a smug smile on her face I told her no I'm not interested. She asked me how come? I told her I do not need to explain anything to her. She called me a a$$hole. I have ever right to tell a woman that overlooked me to jump off a cliff.
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Piff Lord
Keep shooting but don't shoot like 97 Kobe vs the jazzSteph Curry approach.. at least as I call it
Keep shooting until one of your shots falls in the basket. If we shot the ball and made every single shot, there'd be no fun in that. Plus,a lot of my coli brehs would have they own basketball team of churn running around. If a chick rejects me, I just move on to the next. She making room for the next chick to come into your life ya heard me.
approching is cool but you need to observe as well. When you are out and about, do you notice chicks looking at you in the eyes, chicks checking you out, their facial expressions (i guarantee some women are doing all of the above), or do you just go in blind? Only analogy i could think of is that on old school cartoons, you would always notice an object or something being drawn slightly different and a little brighter and you could tell that object would get picked up or move somehow because it wasnt part of the background. It's the same thing with women. When you observe more, you start to notice which one are checking you out, which ones are open, which ones want to interact with you. Not saying you can't get the other ones but you will have to put in work. All I'm saying is why not go after the ones that already want you? Playing the numbers game will get you some practice but if you're trying to go further, why not go for the easy layup?
of course you do. I'm not saying you should take every single girl that overlooked you and then came back. What I'm saying is, whatever you decide, don't hold on to the frustration cause it will fukk up your mindset (imo).