Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Crayola Coyote]

Random question, if your lady withholds sex from you because you guys are having issues, is it fair to withhold spending money on her?

Yes.

 

[Crayola Coyote]

lol we're gonna argue this shyt forever

you dont gotta be fukkin 5 random chicks at once for it to be a roster. its nothing to keep shyt casual with other, QUALITY women because although its rare, women can be useful for more than their p*ssy. Some have good networks they could plug you into, some are cool to hang around, some can enlighten / teach you about things in life and give you a female perspective, some can use their p*ssy power to get over on men and you can benefit from such. When I was younger and didnt even care about women i would politic with girls, kick it with them and just overall be cool. You had no obligations to them, everything was casual and before you knew it the girl would start feeling you just off seeing how you move and catching the vibe between yall.

Beyond that though, its more about letting your girl feel the threat of other women, and you being psychologically adjusted to bounce on your girl if she doing some bullshyt. Girls like dudes that other women like. Once your girl sees other girls flirting with you, checking you out and all that...not only will she fall in line but she will feel that much luckier to have you and appreciative of the fact that you chose her out of all the other women.

That one girl shyt is doom. It leaves your average dude comfortable, vulnerable and depleted. I will always stay sharp. Mind, body, mouth and soul.

Never met a women like that and I doubt they exist. You sure ain't a simp Breh

 

[Crayola Coyote]

Brehs.

Cold Approaching or Wait for women to choose up on you?

Cold approach. Standing around with you dikk in your hand never works out.

 

[Shadow King]

Never met a women like that and I doubt they exist. You sure ain't a simp Breh

I don't agree with the idea of self-building while chasing women but that concept isn't a simpish one

 

[Bless't]

A man on his purpose always has to be able to figure it out though. Because if it's not women it's kids and a family, or sick parents you gotta help take care of, or fixing personal physical and mental health issues, all while keeping your business afloat.

Now if there's definitely a time for grind season where you gotta shut everything out to hit that next level, but then there's never really a point when you "make it". If you crack six figures you wanna keep that and grow it. If you crack millions you got a gang of other problems that need your attention.

I think the key is setting and enforcing boundaries and being discerning on which chick is gaining any sort of access to your kingdom and giving whatever time you're able without compromising your mission.

Speaking from experience, there are women out there who are down as fukk and know when to yield the right of way to your mission. I got some potentially life changing news the other day that may require me to be busy and traveling. When I expressed the slightest concern over my wife missing me or wondering if she's gonna be OK, she was like "fukk that, this is what we've been working for. You do what you have to do and I'll take care of home."

I can't stress how foundational it is to have a good woman who has your back and helps build the dream with you

Now don't go fitting any old chick in that role, but women are also put here to support us. So having the right one you can dish the rock to and build with is critical. Dudes who don't learn how to deal with women on the come up will end up making bad choices in women once they're rich because they never learned the right lessons or the nature of a woman.

 

[Deafheaven]

well brehs she really did want to just cut my hair that was a weird night

but afterward I felt the littlest ting of dissapointment for wasted time nothing else so I really think I have ascended to a plane of indifference. IDK if this is a good or bad thing because I want to feel something special for a chick again at some point

 

[TRUEST]

well brehs she really did want to just cut my hair that was a weird night

but afterward I felt the littlest ting of dissapointment for wasted time nothing else so I really think I have ascended to a plane of indifference. IDK if this is a good or bad thing because I want to feel something special for a chick again at some point

saying you're indifferent does not make u indifferent. and judging from these stories u keep posting, ur no where near indifference. stop caring so much.

 

[Deafheaven]

saying you're indifferent does not make u indifferent. and judging from these stories u keep posting, ur no where near indifference. stop caring so much.

Sure I care to some capacity because I can't reclaim time, at least for a moment but I think me now from me several years ago is a vast difference. I'd be neurotic over girl for weeks at a time. Now its a hour at most. I don't think its in my personality to be completely indifferent but I'm getting as close as I can for myself personally.

But youre right. I'm not completely indifferent but I feel saying it enough will help get there if it possible for me.

 

[TRUEST]

Sure I care to some capacity because I can't reclaim time, at least for a moment but I think me now from me several years ago is a vast difference. I'd be neurotic over girl for weeks at a time. Now its a hour at most. I don't think its in my personality to be completely indifferent but I'm getting as close as I can for myself personally.

But youre right. I'm not completely indifferent but I feel saying it enough will help get there if it possible for me.

it helps if u have time consuming hobbies...i.e. a side business or something that requires concentration. the girls are for the release of stress after uve gotten some business done. and the girl who is more than that will prove that to you.

a few pages back, someone used an analogy of crabs crawling out of a bucket. yeah, the chick who is down for u will take the effort to crawl out of the midst of other girls ur talking to.

 

[Deafheaven]

noted. you right. She was there though so I tried closed mouths don't get fed. But I really didn't expect any more than a one off booty call, shes not worth entertaining beyond that.

 

[Ohene]

Thanks for the co-sign yall about to make move in lecture tommorow. Usually I end up with women older then me but this is going to be something different I look forward to this.

report back breh

 

[Ohene]

Never met a women like that and I doubt they exist. You sure ain't a simp Breh

lolol like i said it is very rare. but in my line of work (or any business job) you can definitely meet girls like that. you'd be surprised how many girls have relatives or friends that are successful if they arent successful themselves. shyt, my brother knows this girl who went to Harvard and is a pro when it comes to getting grants. Were gonna try and bring her in to help us solidify our business plan and what not for a side project my bro and I are doing. Only thing is she lives in Boston. that's just one example. Dont be misogynistic breh.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Me and the secretary at my job have a huge amount of chemistry. She's witty, got a very sharp tongue, cute face, and just my type of body. We talk shyt to each other all day, and it's veering into the realm of sexual innuendos getting thrown around quite often. I'm happily married though, and while I'm ok being strong at this point, long term, it's looking like this is going to be a very tough fight. On a side note, my wife is great, we're a solid team, but she's not exactly a giver when it comes to intimacy. She was a cheater in all her previous relationships and she's told me that she wouldn't hold it against me if i ever stepped out, as she just wants me to be happy. I'm sure in reality this probably wouldn't hold true, and plus it's just some p*ssy and I'd like to look back when I'm old and be able to tell our daughter that neither of us had ever stepped out on one or the other. Any brehs ever been in this situation and have some pointers? I don't think simply ignoring her will be a viable option, I've been great at changing the subject when it goes to far, but i can't lie, i really want to smash. She also has a bf, btw.

Gonna have to say leave women you work with alone unless you're going to get into a serious bf/gf situation. As it will almost always go south and then more often that not if rumors spread you'll look like a love rat and the bad guy.

Not a good look if HR are looking for sacrificial lambs.

 

[Dreamzeedream]

 

[MikelArteta]

Why would you marry a woman who have cheated in all her previous relationships and she told you?

My daughter is obviously mixed with Chinese and my wife has only been with black dudes in the past. I also know that she hasn't cheated since we've been together, but i know that as always, it could always happen in the future. We're always in communication and both honest to a fault people. I have plenty of self control, but in the long term if i end up being at this job for a number of years, I'm just looking for ways to keep the flirting contained to friendly banter, so that it doesn't gradually escalate into something more. She doesn't encourage me to cheat either, it would definitely become a burden on our relationship. She's just realistic about the possibility since she's been there before.