Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Got the same problem....

I used to go out with the homies all the time before everyone started having kids and shyt, but I was always stuck in my head....

Now that I'm actually ready to interact with females, I have barely anyone to go with....

My dawg just came back from Up North recently though, and he stays bagging broads...thinking I oughtta start going out with him and my brother.....


Certainly seems so...I've been sitting here trying to breath deeper, and I'm starting to feel a bit better.....my mind's calming down, and I just feel better in general....

Trust me..you gonna see the results over time...even set an alarm clock to remind you about breathing properly...

You might have to check your posture as well just to make sure that's proper too..

If you are hitting the gym it's gonna come full circle for you breh...

You gotta just make some tweaks..
 

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So I've been dating one girl like I mentioned that was lukewarm.

Anyway I ended up dating a few other women last week. Four actually. I ended up having sex with two. :wow: I'm kinda :picard: at myself right now.

One was an older woman with a kid who definitely wanted it.. she was trying to get me home.

Other girl was younger, 28, but I've been talking to the past three weeks. Nice ass and all. Ended up having sex with her three times that night. :takedat:

Now she's playing games because we had sex. Said she had to blow me off a bit so I don't get sprung and fall in love with her. :francis:

She asked me twice during the date if I'm needy. She's in Chicago for work and gets back Wednesday night, I'm flying out Friday and prior to us having sex and around then she mentioned she wanted to try and see me then.

I know I put it down but I smashed and want to again...:yeshrug:
 

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So I've been dating one girl like I mentioned that was lukewarm.

Anyway I ended up dating a few other women last week. Four actually. I ended up having sex with two. :wow: I'm kinda :picard: at myself right now.

One was an older woman with a kid who definitely wanted it.. she was trying to get me home.

Other girl was younger, 28, but I've been talking to the past three weeks. Nice ass and all. Ended up having sex with her three times that night. :takedat:

Now she's playing games because we had sex. Said she had to blow me off a bit so I don't get sprung and fall in love with her. :francis:

She asked me twice during the date if I'm needy. She's in Chicago for work and gets back Wednesday night, I'm flying out Friday and prior to us having sex and around then she mentioned she wanted to try and see me then.

I know I put it down but I smashed and want to again...:yeshrug:
Just do it again, she basically said you fukked it up too good and she's gonna actually fall in love with you, if you don't care about her feelings that's just a call to the buffet
Kinda funny the unaccountablity of women, won't even accept her feelings and put it on you
 

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So fellas, the last two women I've been with I've ran into some "performance anxiety "! Is there anything I can do to give myself a little boost.
 

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Just do it again, she basically said you fukked it up too good and she's gonna actually fall in love with you, if you don't care about her feelings that's just a call to the buffet
Kinda funny the unaccountablity of women, won't even accept her feelings and put it on you


She talked to me a bit the day after we had sex but has been Swayze ever since. I know she's in Chicago now for work and she talked about linking up when she gets back...but having done this before a lot of girls freak and completely ghost after situations like this.

I have to fall back on this one and let her come back.

I'm telling you though the shyt was good breh. :takedat: I haven't fukked a girl 3x in a row in one session in a long time. :jawalrus:

So fellas, the last two women I've been with I've ran into some "performance anxiety "! Is there anything I can do to give myself a little boost.

Honestly most of the time with women it takes me a good 2-3 times to have sex with them to be good and used to their body. Maybe same with you, unless you're talking about premature ejaculation or getting nervous or something...
 

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I just do not have the confidence to talk to women in the day yet.:mjcry:

I find it easier to talk to them in lounges/bars :yeshrug: but we go VERY rarely. I have no crew to consistently go out with to get better.:mjcry:

And I don't want to show up alone either :snoop:
Are u popular or well known in your area? You’ll be surprised how many ppl you’ll run into at the club and bond with when gone off that liquor
 

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I'm sorry but you guys make too many excuses. I'm on a European island where most don't speak English and I don't have any of my actual squad here and I still eat well. Y'all too used to being comfortable all the damn time. Stop that line of thinking. Build yourself and go hunt! You don't have anything to lose. Rejection happens. So what.

Oh yeah... GO LIFT!
 

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Just do it again, she basically said you fukked it up too good and she's gonna actually fall in love with you, if you don't care about her feelings that's just a call to the buffet
Kinda funny the unaccountablity of women, won't even accept her feelings and put it on you

So true.

:mjlol:
 

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She talked to me a bit the day after we had sex but has been Swayze ever since. I know she's in Chicago now for work and she talked about linking up when she gets back...but having done this before a lot of girls freak and completely ghost after situations like this.

I have to fall back on this one and let her come back.

I'm telling you though the shyt was good breh. :takedat: I haven't fukked a girl 3x in a row in one session in a long time. :jawalrus:



Honestly most of the time with women it takes me a good 2-3 times to have sex with them to be good and used to their body. Maybe same with you, unless you're talking about premature ejaculation or getting nervous or something...
I get nervous, my mind is so concerned with pleasing my partner I go blank
 

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I get nervous, my mind is so concerned with pleasing my partner I go blank

Of course you should please your partner, but why should you be nervous? It should be a fun experience more than anything.
 

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I just do not have the confidence to talk to women in the day yet.:mjcry:

I find it easier to talk to them in lounges/bars :yeshrug: but we go VERY rarely. I have no crew to consistently go out with to get better.:mjcry:

And I don't want to show up alone either :snoop:
it bes that way sometimes. i honestly kinda suck talking to girls in lounges/bars
for one its usually loud and for two its usually dark as hell.
 

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Are u popular or well known in your area? You’ll be surprised how many ppl you’ll run into at the club and bond with when gone off that liquor
Not really well known no.
it bes that way sometimes. i honestly kinda suck talking to girls in lounges/bars
for one its usually loud and for two its usually dark as hell.

That's one of the advantages for me :picard:
 
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