Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Action Mike]

Sorry to say breh but sounds as if the relationship may be in its death throes, if it keeps happening she could be pushing and pushing in the hope you dump her.

I hear that breh. Never thought she might be pushing me to pull the trigger, done it before over me kinda missing being single but then she genuinely begged me back and gave it another shot.

It's Confusing as she when we're on date night or something shes all googly eye, then if we're apart for a week, few days i hit questions like were is this going and other relationship milestone questions

 

[Soundbwoy]

OG is telling the truth

 

[Silkk]

Ain't got feelings for nobody.
Ain't no women at the job to mess with.


This shyt fukking sucks

 

[DeuceZ]

My new co-worker at work been throwing the boy mad signs... we both married so that's a definite no no... Not gonna jeopardize both my marriage and employment at the same time



The D'evils like

 

[Water]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

 

[BigMan]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

Yes . Very normal. Don't worry about those loses

 

[ViShawn]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

 

[Easy-E]

fukk the dating game

If I don't hit it rich, I'm just traveling til I die #GMB

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

If you guys mess with Apple Music, search for “fearless motivation”. They’ve got a bunch of gym playlists and tracks that echo many of the sentiments we share in here. It’s a great way to start your week off on the right note. Go be great.

 

[John Reena]

What do nikkaz get outta being male feminists/simps?!

 

[John Reena]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

She basically used u for free meals

 

[Cynic]

My girl getting distant, and whole vibe is off when we spend more than a few days apart

Talking about moving to different cities and shyt like I ain't got a life were I'm at

I'm all for change but it has to be under my terms. She doesn't know what she want but wants me to follow her

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[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ppl keep telling me at least men do, that I need a car, I get around fine walking and riding the bus and public transportation. Maybe I'll get a bike one day.

All I have is work and school and any other place I'll foot it or take public transportation.

Their point is that what if I wanna take a girl out on a date? And I see that point but that's not my focus and really I don't mind the exercise and me time outside. And in reality maybe I'd weed out people, or maybe I don't even need to introduce all of that attention when I wanna focus.

Anyway is a car necessary in your lives fellas?

Uber

 

[Rich Spirit]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

It’s a numbers game. Don’t count your losses

 

[Silkk]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

Get her drunk & blow her back out