Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Soundbwoy]

OG is telling the truth

 

[Silkk]

Ain't got feelings for nobody.
Ain't no women at the job to mess with.


This shyt fukking sucks

 

[DeuceZ]

My new co-worker at work been throwing the boy mad signs... we both married so that's a definite no no... Not gonna jeopardize both my marriage and employment at the same time



The D'evils like

 

[Water]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

 

[BigMan]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

Yes . Very normal. Don't worry about those loses

 

[ViShawn]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

 

[Easy-E]

fukk the dating game

If I don't hit it rich, I'm just traveling til I die #GMB

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

If you guys mess with Apple Music, search for “fearless motivation”. They’ve got a bunch of gym playlists and tracks that echo many of the sentiments we share in here. It’s a great way to start your week off on the right note. Go be great.

 

[John Reena]

What do nikkaz get outta being male feminists/simps?!

 

[John Reena]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

She basically used u for free meals

 

[Cynic]

My girl getting distant, and whole vibe is off when we spend more than a few days apart

Talking about moving to different cities and shyt like I ain't got a life were I'm at

I'm all for change but it has to be under my terms. She doesn't know what she want but wants me to follow her

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[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Ppl keep telling me at least men do, that I need a car, I get around fine walking and riding the bus and public transportation. Maybe I'll get a bike one day.

All I have is work and school and any other place I'll foot it or take public transportation.

Their point is that what if I wanna take a girl out on a date? And I see that point but that's not my focus and really I don't mind the exercise and me time outside. And in reality maybe I'd weed out people, or maybe I don't even need to introduce all of that attention when I wanna focus.

Anyway is a car necessary in your lives fellas?

Uber

 

[Rich Spirit]

Is it normal for guys to strike out like 6-7 times before getting a W? On Saturday I went out to a club and was getting curved like crazy until one chick came and grabbed me. I mean I appreciate the win but im still thinking about those damn loses.

It’s a numbers game. Don’t count your losses

 

[Silkk]

So an update guys. Had dinner with this Latina girl tonight I've been seeing since Late July - Early August I mentioned.

I have been having a huge frustration with her not opening up to me and also being sometimes resistant to touch even though she kissed me many times. I confronted her about it tonight. Long story short she said she sees me as a friend and she enjoys doing stuff with me but doesn't feel a romantic spark. She says she likes to meet a guy and see if something happens romantically AKA take it slow.

I told her that we've been together 6-7 times and it felt disconjointed..like 6 first dates. Not what I was looking for. Frankly I wish she told me she wasn't interested a few dates ago but I only paid my way for the most part with her and we did some interesting stuff.

She also said that given my father's death I was in an "emotionally vulnerable" spot in my life and she wanted to be there for me

Vulnerable yes but I'm not some ****ing needy guy. Seriously.

Anyway the past two times I saw her she was very much talking about work and in hindsight she felt sorta boring as a person. Just not as passionate as I like. It could have been the overall "chemistry" of things or just her in general. I felt like at times I was pulling teeth to get conversation out of her. Felt like I had to second guess myself at times. *sigh*

So I will continue dating and the search continues.

Get her drunk & blow her back out

 

[ViShawn]

She basically used u for free meals

Eh...we went Dutch most of the time so it wasn't that.

She used me for companionship and someone to do something with for sure.