Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Goon for hire]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

 

[Astroslik]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

this chick is toying with you

man up and bush her

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

She played you for a ride home. She has someone else she’s more interested in but you’re in the Rolodex for doing favors. Grab your manhood and keep it moving. Anything else you post in here to the contrary will be ignored. Just keeping it real. Tired of telling cats the same things more than once.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

Borderline friendzone think it's time you stopped being so readily available to her.

She was probably waiting on a message from the breh she wants,got one so was happy.

Stop providing chauffeur services to this chick with her not giving you anything in return.

Next she'll be asking you to drop or pick her up from other brehs houses

 

[Goon for hire]

Alright I get it, I'm gonna man up and move on.

 

[letti cook]

edit: nvm...after reading what i wrote, i answered my own question..shyt was stupid

 

[True Blue Moon]

Coli brehs I don't understand
So today I go inthe class I got with her, she barely said a word to me, I tried starting conversation (as she was the one who initiates almost all of them) and she gave me a short response and seemed annoyed so I just said fukk it, she was texting on her phone the whole time,at lunch she sat by me and was talking and being friendly to me

After school she asked me for a ride to her house, I said okay. Drove her home and she was talkative and joking with me. gave me a hug when she was getting out the car and in my head I was

Does it sound like I'm friend zoned, another Breh or she just confused?

She was annoyed when you tried to talk to her cuz she didn't wanna talk to you and friendly during the ride because she just needed a ride home dumbass.

I'm bout to start showing more tough love to brehs who keep banging their head into the wall and choosing to not learn.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Alright I get it, I'm gonna man up and move on.

It's hard especially when you feeling a chick but she's acting this way. But you'll be saving yourself from investing time and energy into her.Just for some next breh to swoop in

Keep things cordial with her, but distance yourself guarantee she'll show you attention. Ignore that as well.

 

[TRFG]

When y'all make plans with a chick do y'all hit her up in between? Say I made plans to chill in 3 weeks do you talk between that time or wait until she hits u?

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Ran into my ex today. At first we just ignored each other but later on I got annoyed with putting up a "you don't exist" front. So I walked over and said hi. She tried to put up a front initially in front of her home girl but then loosened up and started smiling with me and laughing.

Then I peaced out. Was talking with a home girl in the hallway and here her and her friend come, but I just ignored her and kept talking to my friend.

I still miss her, glad we could at least be cordial, but iont want to chase her. I'm glad I could just break down this anger wall.

But I'm thinking I shouldn't hit her up. I should let her come to me instead and stay down. Esp since last time we spoke she cussed me out

 

[Goon for hire]

It's hard especially when you feeling a chick but she's acting this way. But you'll be saving yourself from investing time and energy into her.Just for some next breh to swoop in

Keep things cordial with her, but distance yourself guarantee she'll show you attention. Ignore that as well.

Thanks breh, I bushed her and all she replied with was "okay,whatever"

Sucks because she is the baddest chick that has ever gave me the time of day, I'm a quiet guy so these chances with girls like this don't arise for me much, as they usually fukk with the outgoing and popular nikkas.

Lesson learned I guess.

 

[Mister_DoItNice]

Thanks breh, I bushed her and all she replied with was "okay,whatever"

Sucks because she is the baddest chick that has ever gave me the time of day, I'm a quiet guy so these chances with girls like this don't arise for me much, as they usually fukk with the outgoing and popular nikkas.

Lesson learned I guess.

We must have different definitions of bushes. I don’t notify these chicks that they’ve been tossed. Let her figure it out on her own. Damn homie you fumbling like crazy. You were at a crossroads where you could’ve come out on top but you let your desire for her turn you into a clown. When you get the chance, REALLY read through the thread. It’s a lot I know but it’ll help a great deal. You sound like you don’t really believe in yourself and if that’s the case you’ll keep racking up these L’s.

 

[Deafheaven]

Thanks breh, I bushed her and all she replied with was "okay,whatever"

Sucks because she is the baddest chick that has ever gave me the time of day, I'm a quiet guy so these chances with girls like this don't arise for me much, as they usually fukk with the outgoing and popular nikkas.

Lesson learned I guess.

you get one you can get another interested and the next one you'll do better with because you should know what not to do.

Ran into my ex today. At first we just ignored each other but later on I got annoyed with putting up a "you don't exist" front. So I walked over and said hi. She tried to put up a front initially in front of her home girl but then loosened up and started smiling with me and laughing.

Then I peaced out. Was talking with a home girl in the hallway and here her and her friend come, but I just ignored her and kept talking to my friend.

I still miss her, glad we could at least be cordial, but iont want to chase her. I'm glad I could just break down this anger wall.

But I'm thinking I shouldn't hit her up. I should let her come to me instead and stay down. Esp since last time we spoke she cussed me out

Only time you should entertain shyt with your ex is if she initiates contact, agrees to come do shyt with a chance of you to hit, and does so with 0 apprehension. Anything else you just chasing and giving her power.

When y'all make plans with a chick do y'all hit her up in between? Say I made plans to chill in 3 weeks do you talk between that time or wait until she hits u?

not unless they do. builds mystery and if she loses interest in the period from you not blowing her phone up she wasn't really too super into anyway. I've set up dates like 10 days in advance (3 weeks is a lot lol) and text nothing and they end up hitting me up on some "we still good" shyt. they chasing at that point so it sets a initial power dynamic

 

[Poh SIti Dawn]

Only time you should entertain shyt with your ex is if she initiates contact, agrees to come do shyt with a chance of you to hit, and does so with 0 apprehension. Anything else you just chasing and giving her power

So in other words I gave her juice by saying what's up to her, or I settled things but don't hit her up, let her hit me up?

shyts weird. When we were chopping it up it gave me this feeling and even like 3 hours later Does she feel like this bc I was touching her a lil bit? Hand and body? Heard her friend start talking and her say something n them start laughing or w/e. feel like it's like nicotine where I want to chase it bc it felt good. But im quitting cigarettes sooooo..

I should be still and still work on me.

 

[Deafheaven]

So in other words I gave her juice by saying what's up to her, or I settled things but don't hit her up, let her hit me up?

shyts weird. When we were chopping it up it gave me this feeling and even like 3 hours later Does she feel like this bc I was touching her a lil bit? Hand and body? Heard her friend start talking and her say something n them start laughing or w/e. feel like it's like nicotine where I want to chase it bc it felt good. But im quitting cigarettes sooooo..

I should be still and still work on me.

just talking to her isn't a invitation to spend time together. Its being socially not awkward lol. If the shyt is burning you up to no end, just hold that shyt but appear indifferent in person. If you really want this girl or for her to act right if ya'll end up together again it has to be completely her idea and you have to maintain that level of indifference. Personally I don't hold grudges and unless you harm my livelihood I'm always open to see what you talking about. so if ya'll meant to be toether in a HEALTHY relationship you need to...do nothing . talk to her when you see her, get up on some new ass, never contact her outside of seeing her at school. If she really feeling a certain way about you she'll let you know whether tomorrow or three months from now. Then its up to you to decide where to go from there but at least you in the drivers seat. IMO its not a bad idea to hook up or get with exes, as long as they haven't physically harmed you or done some heinous shyt with your funds. Emotions will be hurt but thats life when dealing with people. BUT YOU MUST WALK AWAY AND NOT LOOK BACK. I've gotten back wtih exes over hitting them up at the right time and shyt and it never worked because it aint even her idea. you need to have more power in the relationship, especially with a woman who already knows how you tick.