Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[phcitywarrior]

- am I reading too much into this?

Lowkey I feel like I’ve been using this fear as an excuse

Reading way too much into this. Cold approaching is really nothing more than striking up a convo and then trying to link up later. That’s it.

It obviously helps when you’re in the right setting were women are more relaxed.

Only thing that’s kinda messing up the cold approach thing now are the masks. Can’t read people’s full faces and its become another barrier to striking up a convo. Before it was the headphones. Now we got the headphones and masks

but i promise it ain't as serious as you think.

This. The vocal minority are always on the internet.

 

[Actually6Foot3]

These women are delusional

Went out for an older cousins birthday (mid to late 30s crowd, I'm 28) got to chatting with one of her friends and the convo delved into what she wanted. She's single, no kids, late 30s, not fat but not skinny either

This broad gon say she wants a "God fearing man that's also a thug" listen, I don't know when black women are going to grow out of this shyt. This is a chic in her late 30s not some young dumb broad. She's currently talking to a nikka she's been with on and off for years that has multiple kids and multiple baby mommas good luck to them. The Marathon continues

 

[DaRealness]

Sometimes we get too hung up on the approaching and dating thing when it comes to women. Just practice making convo with people in general to feel more confident then it will get easier when you do wanna meet chicks with the intention of hooking up.

 

[360dagod]

These women are delusional

Went out for an older cousins birthday (mid to late 30s crowd, I'm 28) got to chatting with one of her friends and the convo delved into what she wanted. She's single, no kids, late 30s, not fat but not skinny either

This broad gon say she wants a "God fearing man that's also a thug" listen, I don't know when black women are going to grow out of this shyt. This is a chic in her late 30s not some young dumb broad. She's currently talking to a nikka she's been with on and off for years that has multiple kids and multiple baby mommas good luck to them. The Marathon continues

And this is what we are supposed work so hard in life to please

 

[Rozay Oro]

I don’t want to date out ever. Please God almighty

 

[Rozay Oro]

I’ve been starting to workout. I keep getting my heartbroken. shyt fukking hurts. I’m trying to keep to myself but I keep meeting new bytches.

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’ve been starting to workout. I keep getting my heartbroken. shyt fukking hurts. I’m trying to keep to myself but I keep meeting new bytches.

You need help breh

 

[Rozay Oro]

You need help breh

Breh therapist too

 

[Silkk]

I’ve been starting to workout. I keep getting my heartbroken. shyt fukking hurts. I’m trying to keep to myself but I keep meeting new bytches.

How....Do you fall in love every week breh?

 

[Doin2Much Williams]

Nah your fear is valid. My thing is if a chick wants to be spoken to by u, she’ll make it easy for u. All u gotta do is give a quick glance and a smile every now and then and go away. If she isn’t disgusted by u she might smile back , or if she wants to play hard, she’ll move closer to u and start doing obvious sh1t.

Keep in mind, u don’t have to ask for her number the first time y’all talk. Just make small talk. If she’s intrigued, you’ll sense the difference in her whenever she sees u.

In this day and age, doing cold approaches without first checking for choosing signals is not a good idea. Sure it can work. But it’s up to u to take that gamble.

coming from somebody of my background/ethnicity, it was always a gamble.

if i sat around and waiting for choosing signals, i would have dated zero of women/girlfriends ive been with since birth.

Most, if not all times out of ten (at least for you baby boy), i dont have the luxury to wait around and find out. I had to spark a convo and create attraction. Conclusively, guys like me already have an uphill battle to climb w societys perceptions stacked against them. So i have to go harder.

any doubt, hesitation or stutter step and thats one lost transaction that will never come to fruition. I have to pounce immediately.

now im currently in a funk, but my birthday is this weekend and know my game is still strong (as exemplified by my trip to vegas earlier this month).



Ultimately, my motto is to always create something out of nothing. What ever god gave me are the tools i gotta use... cuz the media doesnt help.


But ill never let generalizations define me.


Lets make it happen fellas.



btw, so many solo dimes at the gym and mall. Does anybody have a strategy to cold approach in these arenas?




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[MoveForward]

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[Turbulent]

Y'all are sleeping. Almost done with my run on Black Phillip. Dude was a fukking genius. The philosophy he's laying down is heavy shyt.

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I know coli brehs are the spit game at anything that walks type so I shouldn’t even ask but we getting at restaurant waitresses? Bih is kinda old, early to mid 30s just the type to go “you’re too young for me. You’re old enough to be my son” like dikk has a sell by date. Anyway bih is Latina and when she walked away I witnessed the wagon

The worst she can say is no

 

[Trapperman Dave]

I don’t even wanna go out tonight, tired of getting rejected like a mfer every time I go out

Time to change something or find something else that makes you happy

 

[Trapperman Dave]

Tell me your success stories brehs.

Making good money got a decent car and job bout to move out but no hos 4 outta 5 good tho