Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Guvnor said:
I swear she took at my phone screen and saw notifications from females texting me. Almost ruined my whole weekend smh, good thing I was able to spin it and say they was coworkers.

Close call! Anyone ever been in a similar situation?
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Not really, I make it very clear early on, mind your business and ignorance is bliss. Get mad if you want to, I don't care, unless you're paying my phone bill...and even then. Plus its good for dread game, lets them know you're sexually valuable. Let her spin the gears and get mad, it only gets her hornier for you.
 
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Damn I just realized that I lowkey suck with women. I can barely hold a convo, I’m not smooth at all.

I need to catch up, I don’t even know what to work on :sadcam:

I got zero experience in my teen years now I’m in my 20s trying to catch up to this shyt :sadcam:


I’m just tryna be a smooth young fly breh :takedat:
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
Damn I just realized that I lowkey suck with women. I can barely hold a convo, I’m not smooth at all.

I need to catch up, I don’t even know what to work on :sadcam:

I got zero experience in my teen years now I’m in my 20s trying to catch up to this shyt :sadcam:


I’m just tryna be a smooth young fly breh :takedat:
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Best thing to do is just dive in and don't let rejection get to you so much.

I know it can be hard to not think your not getting anywhere when you keep getting rejected, but there isn't a quick fix or a book/youtube video you can read to magically get better.
Those are supplementary things and the only way to get better is to be in the field.

I don't know how old you are but when I was around 23, besides a couple women that happened to be in my vicinity (Work, Local area, friends of Friends etc) I wasn't really getting it in overwise.
Me and my friend made it a mission to hit the Clubs/Bars every week, sometimes twice on a weekend and just became dedicated to getting better at that side of the game.

Once you do it a couple of times you realize it isn't as hard as you might make it out to be in your head. Just go where women are receptive to meeting people
Now if your talking about cold approaching that is an entirely different animal. Could probably count on one hand the amount of times I have cold approached without any choosing signals.
 
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DapMeUp! said:
Best thing to do is just dive in and don't let rejection get to you so much.

I know it can be hard to not think your not getting anywhere when you keep getting rejected, but there isn't a quick fix or a book/youtube video you can read to magically get better.
Those are supplementary things and the only way to get better is to be in the field.

I don't know how old you are but when I was around 23, besides a couple women that happened to be in my vicinity (Work, Local area, friends of Friends etc) I wasn't really getting it in overwise.
Me and my friend made it a mission to hit the Clubs/Bars every week, sometimes twice on a weekend and just became dedicated to getting better at that side of the game.

Once you do it a couple of times you realize it isn't as hard as you might make it out to be in your head. Just go where women are receptive to meeting people
Now if your talking about cold approaching that is an entirely different animal. Could probably count on one hand the amount of times I have cold approached without any choosing signals.
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That’s crazy I’m actually 23 and have been doing the same thing.

But recently I’ve struggled with even talking to women. My self esteem got so low because I kept getting rejected left and right for months. Currently in a year and a half dry spell,

I was coming at things the wrong way, too desperate, playing not to lose.

Now I’m trying to pull off that mental band aid and going back in it. These past two days I’ve actually managed to speak to women and even had a mini convo on Sunday.

I’d say for me my biggest problem is that I’ll see a woman and let all the excuses and negative shyt come in at once, completely clouding my mind.

Working on just saying fukk it and just doing it. The clubs and shyt are my comfort zone I’m really aiming for that cold approach IRL type stuff. Being able to just go in those crucial do it or lose it moments. Still haven’t done a real cold approach in months.
 
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KingZimbabwe said:
That’s crazy I’m actually 23 and have been doing the same thing.

But recently I’ve struggled with even talking to women. My self esteem got so low because I kept getting rejected left and right for months. Currently in a year and a half dry spell,

I was coming at things the wrong way, too desperate, playing not to lose.

Now I’m trying to pull off that mental band aid and going back in it. These past two days I’ve actually managed to speak to women and even had a mini convo on Sunday.

I’d say for me my biggest problem is that I’ll see a woman and let all the excuses and negative shyt come in at once, completely clouding my mind.

Working on just saying fukk it and just doing it. The clubs and shyt are my comfort zone I’m really aiming for that cold approach IRL type stuff. Being able to just go in those crucial do it or lose it moments. Still haven’t done a real cold approach in months.
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Yeah the clubs create that adrenaline that makes shyt easier...

It's just a rhythm that "nightgame" can put you in...
 
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Guvnor said:
I swear she took at my phone screen and saw notifications from females texting me. Almost ruined my whole weekend smh, good thing I was able to spin it and say they was coworkers.

Close call! Anyone ever been in a similar situation?
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so what if you talk to other women? Are you in a relationship?
Best believe she's talking to other men as well
 
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Killigraphy said:
Not really, I make it very clear early on, mind your business and ignorance is bliss. Get mad if you want to, I don't care, unless you're paying my phone bill...and even then. Plus its good for dread game, lets them know you're sexually valuable. Let her spin the gears and get mad, it only gets her hornier for you.
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LOL you ain't lying, she did put it down on me crazy last night.


TradePascalSiakam said:
so what if you talk to other women? Are you in a relationship?
Best believe she's talking to other men as well
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shyt she probably is, you never know but I messed up with this one. She thinks we are in a relationship cause I let her pressure me into it. Lesson learned here!

Also even for the women I'm not in a relationship with they seem to always get jealous and shyt about other women.


Lumumba said:
Turn off notification banners and keep phone on do not disturb
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Learned this the hard way, thanks. she was plugging my phone up and saw the notifications.
 
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