Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.

are you out of shape and ugly? How is your career? What things do you actually like?

1. try to get in the best shape you can
2. Invest in a skin, hair care, and dent care regimen.
3. Learn to live within your means ans adopt minimalism if your money isnt up.

do those three things and you build confidence in yourself.

next is say pick up hobbies so you actually have stuff to talk about (that you care about) and this also helps put you in proximity of other people
 

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Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.


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Besides bars and clubs what other places are women receptive to meeting other people? I am 35 and am a virgin and am socially awkward. I want to get out there and try to talk/interact with as many women as possible so I can get better social skills and also lose my virginity.
Meet women where they are. The street, store, mall, or movies. They will either say yes or no. Don’t take it personal.
 

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Mad p*ssy thrown at me at my plant job. Lately I’ve been thinkin bout my past two bytches I tried bein serious with. Not gonna lie they hurt my fukkin feelings. I just don’t want to go thru that shyt again. I know I should just fukk these hoes but tinder fed me so good I want intimacy at this point. 30 ain’t that far, I don’t want to be another older delusional coli nikka preachin bout we just fukk hoes. skeetsinternal is a scumbag (no disrespect his threads are entertaining and gut wrenching. He got his own lane) cause he can’t get love. I’ve been abstinent for some weeks now. Now I’m starting to feel lonely. I have been fukkin up by beatin my meat to naked brehettes gallery pics. I just don’t want the cycle to repeat.

Hope you fakkits can help me since y’all shyt on my threads so here I am.
 

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Any advice on how to maintain your frame when you meet a girl who you feeling?
Went on a date last saturday and hit it off with this chick who is my type and i'm already seeing her as a long-term :snoop:

I'm quite open and direct so if i like you i'll let you know that i like you but i feel like my frame changes and i become more of a "nice guy"

I'm still talking with other girls and going on dates but how do you keep that frame when its a girl you really like?
Always think that she’s fukking with another dude because there’s a great chance that she is
 

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Meet women where they are. The street, store, mall, or movies. They will either say yes or no. Don’t take it personal.

lotta dudes dont have a damn thing to talk about and neither does the avg bird brain. People sleep on being well read and having hobbies + toastmasters to actually learn how to talk if you dont have the natural skills.

convo has always been a natural strength for me and allowed me to have convo with anyone (when I choose to speak).
 

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Any advice on how to maintain your frame when you meet a girl who you feeling?
Went on a date last saturday and hit it off with this chick who is my type and i'm already seeing her as a long-term :snoop:

I'm quite open and direct so if i like you i'll let you know that i like you but i feel like my frame changes and i become more of a "nice guy"

I'm still talking with other girls and going on dates but how do you keep that frame when its a girl you really like?

There are only 4 things a woman can hold over you

1.emotional connection
2. beauty
3. kids
4. sex

once you have power over all those things you win
 

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So, I actually messaged her. ended up on read :yeshrug: but she's still viewing my stories. So, it may be dead.

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So that’s my roster at the moment. But not even hurt, especially compared to how I was months ago.

Imma start going to a big church soon to find a godly women
when she said she couldn't and didn't offer anything else to meet up, you should have said something along the lines of "cool, well i thought of you because you mentioned it. Shoot me text if you want to link up when you are free" and leave it at that. And never text her again until she reaches out. When she reaches out whether its a week/month/year later, you do small talk (two three exchanges and invite her out again. If she's wishy washy, you say cool, let me know when you are free and then never text her again. If she reaches out again, you don't bring up hanging out. Two three exchanges then say you gotta go but nice catching up with you.

That way she realizes you are not scared to ask for what you want but at the same time you won't keep pursuing if she keeps shooting you down
 

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I randomly DM a baddie (8.5) on IG. She's from NY like me. Surprised, she even answered back.

I only text to set up meetups. I don't go back and forth, women LOSE interest when you do that.

Saving the convo in PERSON at best.

For brehs that get SCARED of very attractive women, remember, she's just a HUMAN like you

Also dominate the situation. Lead the convo, Lead with your body language, Flirt with her. If you're a silent type, own it.
 

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when she said she couldn't and didn't offer anything else to meet up, you should have said something along the lines of "cool, well i thought of you because you mentioned it. Shoot me text if you want to link up when you are free" and leave it at that. And never text her again until she reaches out. When she reaches out whether its a week/month/year later, you do small talk (two three exchanges and invite her out again. If she's wishy washy, you say cool, let me know when you are free and then never text her again. If she reaches out again, you don't bring up hanging out. Two three exchanges then say you gotta go but nice catching up with you.

That way she realizes you are not scared to ask for what you want but at the same time you won't keep pursuing if she keeps shooting you down
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Any advice on how to maintain your frame when you meet a girl who you feeling?
Went on a date last saturday and hit it off with this chick who is my type and i'm already seeing her as a long-term :snoop:

I'm quite open and direct so if i like you i'll let you know that i like you but i feel like my frame changes and i become more of a "nice guy"

I'm still talking with other girls and going on dates but how do you keep that frame when its a girl you really like?

You're one of those guys who gets one-itis easily. You're attached to a characteristic, not a person. Its obviously hard at times to tell the difference. As with all encounters, jerk off and see if the post-nut clarity changes any perception of her. Secondly, write down what you like about her the most, and realize that you more than likely can find that in anyone else. Then there's the fact that you might just be a neophile, and while that can be nice, chasing a new feel EVERY time can be bad. Frame is about the creed or mantra that yokes you into the behavior that doesn't leave you exposed. Some say "fake it to you make it", and that can work for some, but I like to know its not an act, and its who I am, not what I want to represent. Though it is true, when choosing to appear like the devil, all men will submit, so if it helps, the world is your stage.

Develop said mantra by using common staples;

She's not the only one like her in the world.

You are better than her

Sex means nothing coming from her as it has no power over you

She needs to jump through your hoops, not you, hers.
 
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