Any advice on how to maintain your frame when you meet a girl who you feeling?
Went on a date last saturday and hit it off with this chick who is my type and i'm already seeing her as a long-term
I'm quite open and direct so if i like you i'll let you know that i like you but i feel like my frame changes and i become more of a "nice guy"
I'm still talking with other girls and going on dates but how do you keep that frame when its a girl you really like?
You're one of those guys who gets one-itis easily. You're attached to a characteristic, not a person. Its obviously hard at times to tell the difference. As with all encounters, jerk off and see if the post-nut clarity changes any perception of her. Secondly, write down what you like about her the most, and realize that you more than likely can find that in anyone else. Then there's the fact that you might just be a neophile, and while that can be nice, chasing a new feel EVERY time can be bad. Frame is about the creed or mantra that yokes you into the behavior that doesn't leave you exposed. Some say "fake it to you make it", and that can work for some, but I like to know its not an act, and its who I am, not what I want to represent. Though it is true, when choosing to appear like the devil, all men will submit, so if it helps, the world is your stage.
Develop said mantra by using common staples;
She's not the only one like her in the world.
You are better than her
Sex means nothing coming from her as it has no power over you
She needs to jump through your hoops, not you, hers.