Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[The ADD]

You know that's the first thing I thought about because what married woman gives her number to a stranger and also, she repeated it like 3x so I would remember it. I was there holding the elevator open repeating the number back to her: "yeah, that's it"

Maybe she was caught up in the moment on some ego "I'm still desirable out here" plus attention is women's # 1 drug

But then I came back to my senses: I don't do wives. Not down to deal with jealous husbands trying to murder me in my own shyt.

If she giving out her number the cal likely isn’t on him

 

[Brandsdale]

^see this is a playoff game. You got something you both planned to do together and she doesn’t respond is a gigantic red flag

to be fair, I never set a specific time initially just the day. but I messaged her this morning to make sure everything was all good and figure out a timing but its like I'm still stuck in the same pattern of her kinda taking long to answer

I've chalked up the texting game to the bushes over past couple years tho. All i ask for is some tact/communication. If I dont see it initially then I dip out early.

 

[The ADD]

to be fair, I never set a specific time initially just the day. but I messaged her this morning to make sure everything was all good and figure out a timing but its like I'm still stuck in the same pattern of her kinda taking long to answer

I've chalked up the texting game to the bushes over past couple years tho. All i ask for is some tact/communication. If I dont see it initially then I dip out early.

What were y’all supposed to do?

 

[Brandsdale]

What were y’all supposed to do?

just grab drinks

 

[Lieutenant Daniels]

My experience is shyt happens. Ain’t nothing wrong with directly asking her what’s up and if she doesn’t respond then cut her off.

A heat check ain’t a crime unless you’re in a playoff game.

Nikkas love ice skating uphill with women. What you heat checkin he said they only been talking for a month or so and she behaving like a woman that found someone else or got some shyt going privately. A month. Bush shorty.

All this “give it one more shot” “put it on the table” “asking what’s up” is a waste of energy and time. Whatever answer she gives you is just to make herself look good. Her behavior speaking for her.

If her and I was in a relationship then yeah I would spend time trying to find out what’s going on. Brehs gotta stop juelzing for these women when they go cold. If a woman feeling you they not taking 24hrs to respond. Cmon breh.

 

[The ADD]

just grab drinks

I mean it’s 4pm you got time. Sounds like a casual thing and she’s treating it that way.

 

[Brandsdale]

I mean it’s 4pm you got time. Sounds like a casual thing and she’s treating it that way.

Fair. Just annoying cause the more you delay kickin it, the less interested these chics seem in my experience.

we move tho

 

[Wargames]

There really is no excuse to give out your number in situations like this but i guess ya never know their situation

You never really know what the hell going on but I dont see why HAVE to fallback.

She gave you that number for a reason imo

To be a orbiter. .

You want a married woman you got to escalate heavy to confirm she is down for cheating. She might be tired of her husband but is she down to fukk someone else?

to be fair, I never set a specific time initially just the day. but I messaged her this morning to make sure everything was all good and figure out a timing but its like I'm still stuck in the same pattern of her kinda taking long to answer

I've chalked up the texting game to the bushes over past couple years tho. All i ask for is some tact/communication. If I dont see it initially then I dip out early.

yeah after that “is it all good” text just cancel her. Also yeah you can’t chat these women up to much. Outside of a good morning all my communication is leading to a escalation to a physical meeting. It don’t matter if I had sex with her prior or not.

 

[Brandsdale]

To be a orbiter. .

You want a married woman you got to escalate heavy to confirm she is down for cheating. She might be tired of her husband but is she down to fukk someone else?

Being an orbiter is a easy excuse to cheat imo. nikkas do this all the time and it becomes demonized but if a woman entertains anyone else dring a relationship the optics are that hes not stepping up to the plate, satisfying her etc.

At some point you kinda gotta judge women how they judge us. Everybody cheats and some get away with it

yeah after that “is it all good” text just cancel her. Also yeah you can’t chat these women up to much. Outside of a good morning all my communication is leading to a escalation to a physical meeting. It don’t matter if I had sex with her prior or not.

Totally agree. Regardless of how good things go, chatting without leading to something turns you into a penpal. Theres too many things that can cause a woman to change her mind in the midst of "chatting"

 

[The ADD]

Being an orbiter is a easy excuse to cheat imo. nikkas do this all the time and it becomes demonized but if a woman entertains anyone else dring a relationship the optics are that hes not stepping up to the plate, satisfying her etc.

At some point you kinda gotta judge women how they judge us. Everybody cheats and some get away with it

Totally agree. Regardless of how good things go, chatting without leading to something turns you into a penpal. Theres too many things that can cause a woman to change her mind in the midst of "chatting"

Did you set something with the other one?

 

[Brandsdale]

Did you set something with the other one?

already working on it

 

[Duke Wy Lin]

You know that's the first thing I thought about because what married woman gives her number to a stranger and also, she repeated it like 3x so I would remember it. I was there holding the elevator open repeating the number back to her: "yeah, that's it"

Maybe she was caught up in the moment on some ego "I'm still desirable out here" plus attention is women's # 1 drug

But then I came back to my senses: I don't do wives. Not down to deal with jealous husbands trying to murder me in my own shyt.

You're a wise man.. don't listen to anyone who tells you to proceed with this chick. There's too many women out here to be dealing with married women, whether they're receptive or not.

 

[rabbid]

Or...don't bother thinking you need a woman to be a "champion" or even who is gonna understand the winning mindset. Being a great man comes with knowing that you became as such, with the help of people around you, not a stranger who happens to be relatively pretty and sucks your dikk from time to time. Ultimately you win alone and you lose alone, having someone who may possible amplify both, is a crutch and a problem.

...hmm, nah i disagree. If i thought this way I wouldn't even be talking to girls romantically. I've won with good women and I've met milestones with girls in my life that have absolutely been champions in sofar as they see us together as opportunities to grow and build stronger than we were apart. Seems like you're seperating "women" from "people" which is odd but hey that's you.

 

[Ohene]

Meet a fly ass Indian chick in my elevator
I didn't have my phone on me, when it's my floor I ask for her number anyway
She gives it to me, I memorize it
Text her
After bantering a little back and forth
she hits me with

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"I'm married"

Grand opening/grand closing

she gave u the number for a reason but be careful. how old is she?
indians can be very barbaric. you dont want homie findin out u fukkin his wife and u live in the same buildin

 

[VertigoKnight]

to be fair, I never set a specific time initially just the day. but I messaged her this morning to make sure everything was all good and figure out a timing but its like I'm still stuck in the same pattern of her kinda taking long to answer

I've chalked up the texting game to the bushes over past couple years tho. All i ask for is some tact/communication. If I dont see it initially then I dip out early.

I’ll say this. With women you need to set a firm time for a meet. Even if either of you have to change it slightly, at least it's set and she knows.

Trying to figure out the time the day of a meet, even if its just casual drinks gives certain women cold feet. If she’s already 50/50 on you it gives her a good excuse to bail.

Me personally. I usually get that I’m looking forward to seeing you message the morning of a meetup.