Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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re'up said:
Used to tell one of my boys EVERY time you leave your house, for anything, business, personal, you should be at like 70/80 % dress wise, at minimum,

exactly what you said, it speaks volumes about you. There's class/status at play, in every interaction. And when you look at people's dress, from that standpoint, it tells you a lot.

My boy was forever on that shorts and tees shyt when he was lazy, but he looked bummy, and felt bummy,
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I think especially for brehs who grew up in the hip hop generation where "rebel without a cause" is baked into the very DNA, it can put them in a mental bind as they grow older. That whole keeping it real as you age and SHOULD be evolving and grow will have brehs stuck some type of peter pan failure to launch type mindset. I have had this convo over the years with many family members, and some have grown out of it to varying degrees. I atleast tell brehs have ATLEAST ONE good fitting suit to start in case something comes up. Im like breh you cant be in 30s goin to funerals in dikkie sets, we was doing that in our teens, its over, looooong time ago. :snoop: :russ:

I think even just starting small and them seeing the response they get from EVERYBODY will atleast light that spark. It has worked for some but for others who perpetually stuck in 2nd childhood mindset, what can you do? :manny:
 
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Women tend to categorize handsome guys as either "fukkboys" or "Prince Charming" Once that fantasy is ruined, they get disappointed.

But it's like you didn't get to know the person, you just wanted the fantasy. Women can't handle reality. It breaks down their illusion.

Be straightforward and direct with women. I respect women who are honest with themselves. I respect a woman who isn't ashamed to be a slut than a woman whose a fake freak. Too many imposters running around.
 
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Got curved by a chick on ig last night. Met her in the gym, got her gram a few a days ago.

Sent a playful/risky dm last night around 12 and she waited til 8am to “see” it and didnt respond
 
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BlueHeffner said:
Got curved by a chick on ig last night. Met her in the gym, got her gram a few a days ago.

Sent a playful/risky dm last night around 12 and she waited til 8am to “see” it and didnt respond
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Always irritates me when that happens, can remember the first time, the read receipts and all that, not sure if you give a fukk, but

1) unless you are willing to do the whole chat for days or weeks and maybe meet up, or end up in the same place, get a phone number, not an IG, even if they offer IG first

2) we all know and understand these phrases, curve, ghost, but some of these are 10 years old now, and in this new era, especially with someone who has lets just say 3,000 followers, even the ones with 1,000, everyone is just overwhelmed, and flooded with messages, DM's, likes, group chats, on and on, how do you stand out?

if you are just trying to send out a quick nothing DM or text, likely won't even get a response. but, you can't take it personally. She gets like at least a dozen of those a day. Probably closer to 25/ but since you do know each other in person, that's where the real connection is.

Also, have to follow up THAT night, if not that hour, to create that kind of stickiness. People forget, they move on, just watch people on their phones, it's so chaotic.
 
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