Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[International Playa]

Most "baddies" are carbon copies of each other. They talk the same. Act the same. Operate the same. Social media being the main variable.

Aaliyah really a trendsetter though. Aaliyah birthed a whole generation of women based on her style and swag. Difference is none of these hoes have half the sauce Aaliyah had in the 90's

Back on topic, most "dimes" require a lot of dominance. A lot of pressure.

Ever had a woman take over the convo? It's awkward af

Always take the lead

Switch topics when necessary. Escalate!

As a man, being passive like a vegetable is like watching your life pass you by. Not just with dating, this advice can also be applicable towards achieving your goals. Be proactive guys!

Dimes are too much work. You got dudes in her DMs, wherever she goes, dudes hollering. If she doesn't set boundaries, she will have dudes lingering around to take your spot. Some dimes are high maintenance

I prefer a 6/7, still cute, humble & is all about her man

 

[Apollo Creed]

Dimes are too much work. You got dudes in her DMs, wherever she goes, dudes hollering. If she doesn't set boundaries, she will have dudes lingering around to take your spot. Some dimes are high maintenance

I prefer a 6/7, still cute, humble & is all about her man

"Dimes" are only for recreational sex, probably the most insecure people on earth lol.

 

[Ahadi]

You first

At this point, at 30, just focus on me. Enjoy being alone. Don’t plan too much, don’t try to create these elaborate events or invite them out because they always end up feeling “pressured”, just enjoy my turn, do cheap / low investment activities and KIM.

Side bar: Started to recently realize I attract women who need “stability” (never been asked for money before) or that I’m “presentable” | which turns me off a bit from dating tbh.

But when I’m traveling for work, or vacation, I’ll keep hinge & pay for premium for a week / beforehand.

 

[<<TheStandard>>]

Dimes are too much work. You got dudes in her DMs, wherever she goes, dudes hollering. If she doesn't set boundaries, she will have dudes lingering around to take your spot. Some dimes are high maintenance

I prefer a 6/7, still cute, humble & is all about her man

There's 6's and 7s that's everything you're describing here......It's really just a matter of her personality.

 

[TheHonorableOmarSharif]

 

[Silkk]

Work on your body brehs. Always got p*ssy but it’s a level I didn’t know existed without being rich. Just trust me

What? lol

Working on your body just puts you in a completely different mindstate altogether tbh

Dimes are too much work. You got dudes in her DMs, wherever she goes, dudes hollering. If she doesn't set boundaries, she will have dudes lingering around to take your spot. Some dimes are high maintenance

I prefer a 6/7, still cute, humble & is all about her man

"Dimes" are only for recreational sex, probably the most insecure people on earth lol.

Dimes are subjective though. Don't not go after someone because you think they're too fine.

 

[Silkk]

Bet he paid for these tickets, took her to dinner, and bought flowers



Don’t spend serious money until you know she’s into you.

 

[The ADD]

At this point, at 30, just focus on me. Enjoy being alone. Don’t plan too much, don’t try to create these elaborate events or invite them out because they always end up feeling “pressured”, just enjoy my turn, do cheap / low investment activities and KIM.

Side bar: Started to recently realize I attract women who need “stability” (never been asked for money before) or that I’m “presentable” | which turns me off a bit from dating tbh.

But when I’m traveling for work, or vacation, I’ll keep hinge & pay for premium for a week / beforehand.

So you just want run through them

 

[Ahadi]

So you just want run through them

Until one shows me a physical / mental / spiritual investment and shows me she should be promoted to that position.

Other than that, I’m taking myself on dates lol

 

[360dagod]

End game is Jefferson from Married With Children+benefits and a way better marcy

 

[MicIsGod]

What? lol

Working on your body just puts you in a completely different mindstate altogether tbh



Dimes are subjective though. Don't not go after someone because you think they're too fine.

It does change your life in every way, wish I knew that in my teens. For women, they lust bodies maybe more than we do. Sounds dumb but I didn’t know that

 

[WIA20XX]

Dimes are too much work. You got dudes in her DMs, wherever she goes, dudes hollering. If she doesn't set boundaries, she will have dudes lingering around to take your spot. Some dimes are high maintenance

I prefer a 6/7, still cute, humble & is all about her man

Less attractive girls are no less of a headache than a fine one.

They all think they are 10's (and are scared of losing their looks, super self conscious, low self esteem, esteem/emotions driven by things external to them, and outside of their control)

And they have a inbox full of cats trying to get at them.
Even if she doens't think she is a 10, she definitely thinks knows that she can do better than him.

There's no upside to dealing with chicks that are "low maintenance".

The real maintenance is not the shoes, bags, and makeup - but their emotional states.

 

[NoirDynosaur]

Less attractive girls are no less of a headache than a fine one.

They all think they are 10's (and are scared of losing their looks, super self conscious, low self esteem, esteem/emotions driven by things external to them, and outside of their control)

And they have a inbox full of cats trying to get at them.
Even if she doens't think she is a 10, she definitely thinks knows that she can do better than him.

There's no upside to dealing with chicks that are "low maintenance".

The real maintenance is not the shoes, bags, and makeup - but their emotional states.

Beauty is fleeting. That's why most women chase it.

Women have leverage on social media. A bunch of men in their DM's. In real life, they don't get approached that often.

Real life is superior. Your personality, charm and energy can sway a chick. Meanwhile, online, the man gotta compete with the simps saying the same shyt in remixed form

A man who is confident, physically attractive, has money and swag can get any woman he wants.

The secret to getting baddies is not being starstruck by their looks. Most simps mess up the game by looking for her validation. Players flip the script by making the woman chase for his validation.

 

[WIA20XX]

Beauty is fleeting. That's why most women chase it.

Women have leverage on social media. A bunch of men in their DM's. In real life, they don't get approached that often.

Real life is superior. Your personality, charm and energy can sway a chick. Meanwhile, online, the man gotta compete with the simps saying the same shyt in remixed form

A man who is confident, physically attractive, has money and swag can get any woman he wants.

The secret to getting baddies is not being starstruck by their looks. Most simps mess up the game by looking for her validation. Players flip the script by making the woman chase for his validation.

There's too much here that I disagree with for me to go point by point.

But the key to bad chicks

• Define Who Your Baddie is
• Get into her social circle, or the one above it
• Run your game as usual

What a lot of guys try to do is run up on some Insta-Thot in the Club VIP and try to swagger their way into some P.

That's like a homeless chick trying to pull my coat...

 

[Ohene]

If you are a good dude who’s attractive, successful, a gentleman with integrity etc, and you get with a girl who is a “6” or “7” they just going to think that they’re on your level anyways since they were able to nab you. hypergamy is a cliche but its in a woman nature

Go for what you actually want - or else you’ll just end up resenting the bytch