Every time I see the phrase band for band I just think of rappers and fast money guys in the club buying bottles to pour out on the floor to compare who can waste the most moneyBreh once you get to that state and remove your ego it's so much easier. I've encountered a lot of chicks that messed with scammers, promoters, etc. and they mentioned what them other dudes did for them. Younger men would try to match that band for band and you just end up wasting bread doing silly stuff. Now I let them know off rip I ain't doing it and I'm not competing with the ghosts of your ex's either. Also if they were so great you would still be with them but you're not and you're in my face now.
It's all lust and ego. I've seen many dudes spend their last to prove to a chick that's broke that he isn't broke. Logically it doesn't make sense at all but brehs are chasing that nut so it's all thrown out the window to make it happenEvery time I see the phrase band for band I just think of rappers and fast money guys in the club buying bottles to pour out on the floor to compare who can waste the most money
And in this case figuratively that's what they are doing with the woman's ex here.
I'm dumbfounded at the lengths some of us will go to in order to keep and impress a chick. If she feeling you she makes it easy. We get too much into how much we lusting after somebody to let shyt go lol
At the end of the day they are still Johns. Whether you buying p*ssy with clout, money, expensive gifts, light bill payments, rent payments, giving her a room in your house, or whatever if your relationship is transactional where you give her things and she gives you p*ssy in return it's the prostitute-john relationship with another name.
Flashy chains, flashy cars, designer clothes, luxury apartments. No appreciating assets. I workout and stay in shape, buy clothes that fit on sale, wear a modest silver chain, a watch that costs less than $100, drive a paid off car, and stack my paper up. No problems getting chose still. And I know whoever choosing is choosing cuz they want me not what I have. A lot of us are doing well and we have the luxury of an abundance of choice in who we deal with.It's all lust and ego. I've seen many dudes spend their last to prove to a chick that's broke that he isn't broke. Logically it doesn't make sense at all but brehs are chasing that nut so it's all thrown out the window to make it happen
I pretty much operate off that assumption and if she is sexy enough (which the girls I get at are) she has some form of an OnlyFans revenue stream operating in the background. Be it specifically OF or something else like a sugardaddy, etc...... Cynical... I know, but we are in an interconnected world. Nothing is siloed and local anymore. Choosing to fall in love and do the white picket fence life thing now will have to involve reconciling that your girl is not innocent in the least and be cool with it........ the classic Madaonna-Whore complex dudes suffer from when looking for a partner..
His mistake was moving in with a woman. Now he’s stuck.
