Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

The "match energy" has always seemed to me a little bit p*ssy, to put it in a street way, in the same way a lot of our new wage/wellness culture language has become.

We all get trapped in the quicksand of texting and bad responses -worse responses cycle. But, I do my thing, not theirs. Two good faith invites, and that's it, but everyone gets the good faith invite, because that's me. Why would I embody or emulate traits I don't respect?

 

[Ohene]

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Dont matter. The 25% who get with the program is who we wanna worry about. She responding fast to another dude that's fine. You've read the courage to to be disliked right? Dont worry about her tasks. You told ol girl how you need to be treated. How she chooses to deal with it is her task. You're protecting your peace of mind.

How many posts in here we got of dudes worrying about what a woman is doing and asking whether they should say something to her about something that bothers them? They aint focusing on their tasks.

How she feel about something is how she feel maybe she dont like it and disappears maybe she recalibrates her behavior gives you what you need. Cool less stress in the long run.

But the going along matching energy shyt is just going with her program cuz you switching up hoping she give you some p*ssy and she knows that. Which is kinda crazy cuz it's displaying that in the totality of what you have to offer her p*ssy is more valuable than that.

Crazy work. Humans don't always think logically especially when hormones are involved so I understand and I'm not saying it doesn't work. Sometimes it does but shyt is pretty wild when you think about it.

Lol you right

Like i said it depends on what you want from the situation. Im from your school of belief. But the fact is that If you want to manipulate the situation and get p*ssy, then unfortunately playing it cool is what works. Not long term but short term if you wanna just run through hoes you gotta treat it like a game of whacamole…out of sight out of mind

 

[Ohene]

i think im just naturally at a point where i dont care

if its a girl i am actually feeling and i have been spending enough time with her...then ill lay that boundary because its important to set the right precedent. but if i just met the girl then i naturally just dont care enough anymore about whether she does or doesnt respond. Part of it is because I’ve gotten used to the flakiness of these women and another part of it is that i know i barely know this girl and don't care just because she looks good. in the above scenario, homie just met her and hasnt even gone out with her yet. so if she dont respond, who cares..move onto the next girl and give this girl time when/if she hits you up...on YOUR terms.

From your perspective, you shouldn't even really give a fukk, what she was doing, or why she didn't hit you back. Just take it in stride, and go on the date.

this is basically what i'm saying above

 

[Ohene]

The only way to smash and the only way to get back at her, is to keep playing.

And in order to get back at her, you gotta smash and then leave her on read.

If you see after the 1st smash, it's gonna be being hot and cold. One day you blowing her up, being all lovey dovey, and then the next minute it's like you can't wait to get away from her. She's bonus and a burden at the same time.

If you got a lot of broads, this happens naturally.

If you don't got a lot of broads, the strategy feels like playing Haitian Roulette.

this guy knows lol

 

[WIA20XX]

this guy knows lol

The game is cold....and I learned the game from these broads!!!!

 

[jesc07]

I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with

My approach on this is to always tell and not ask...I would've flipped it and said "i'ma FT you when i get off of work."

She can still not respond but you can call anyway (I probably wouldn't but if you do and no answer...then she was likely to flake on your date night anyway)

 

[Broad Street Bully]

My approach on this is to always tell and not ask...I would've flipped it and said "i'ma FT you when i get off of work."

She can still not respond but you can call anyway (I probably wouldn't but if you do and no answer...then she was likely to flake on your date night anyway)

shyt all good, she legit sick (as far as I know), we been texting again since. Still no FT but I ain’t trip or harp on it. I got an “it is what it is” mindset on a lot of shyt. Women, for sure.

 

[jesc07]

shyt all good, she legit sick (as far as I know), we been texting again since. Still no FT but I ain’t trip or harp on it. I got an “it is what it is” mindset on a lot of shyt. Women, for sure.

Yessir always gotta be thinkin bout the next.

 

[Bigblackted4]

Crazy but the most normal and best women I’ve met on dating apps are ones from Feeld. The single ones are usually 3 things:
Professional women
DTF
Not Needy

 

[Bigblackted4]

Met a nice lil light skin but she had a dude. Told her to hit me up once she got single but she not trying to let me go easy. Stays with the ego stroking but I can’t be out here fukking no dudes girl unless they open!

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Dont matter. The 25% who get with the program is who we wanna worry about. She responding fast to another dude that's fine. You've read the courage to to be disliked right? Dont worry about her tasks. You told ol girl how you need to be treated. How she chooses to deal with it is her task. You're protecting your peace of mind.

How many posts in here we got of dudes worrying about what a woman is doing and asking whether they should say something to her about something that bothers them? They aint focusing on their tasks.

How she feel about something is how she feel maybe she dont like it and disappears maybe she recalibrates her behavior gives you what you need. Cool less stress in the long run.

But the going along matching energy shyt is just going with her program cuz you switching up hoping she give you some p*ssy and she knows that. Which is kinda crazy cuz it's displaying that in the totality of what you have to offer her p*ssy is more valuable than that.

Crazy work. Humans don't always think logically especially when hormones are involved so I understand and I'm not saying it doesn't work. Sometimes it does but shyt is pretty wild when you think about it.

Somebody did a recent refresher of the book....... i needed the quick reminder of the material anyway...

 

[Ohene]

Somebody did a recent refresher of the book....... i needed the quick reminder of the material anyway...

i needed that shyt too lmao
i need that shyt on a wall somewhere at the crib i swear
"focus on your tasks"

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Met a nice lil light skin but she had a dude. Told her to hit me up once she got single but she not trying to let me go easy. Stays with the ego stroking but I can’t be out here fukking no dudes girl unless they open!

Did you meet her on the aforementioned app???......

 

[Ohene]

ill never understand how women can spend time with a dude they have no interest in just for a free meal or experience

i have two women tryna take me out for my birthday - one for drinks and one for dinner - and i dont even care for all that, even though i'm feeling them. they can just come over and kick it or i might even just sspend the night alone. kinda shows you how differently men and women are wired

however, i think the key distinction is that if a woman can take herself out to nice restaurants and shyt she will be wired more similarly to me in that her time is more valuable. it really only be the broke women that care about all that wining/dining shyt. i say all that to say, if a girl cares about how much you spend on her, its often because she is broke and has no understanding of money. As a result, a dude taking her out is the only way she can have nice dinners or experiences.

last chick i took out for her birthday, took her out for a nice dinner, drinks and even sent her flowers. spent about $300 and she had the nerve to say i seemed frugal weeks later. meanwhile i got chicks tryna take me out and I am telling them i'm straight.

 

[Ohene]

Crazy but the most normal and best women I’ve met on dating apps are ones from Feeld. The single ones are usually 3 things:
Professional women
DTF
Not Needy

my homie uses that

this year some of the coolest chicks i met randomly in person are bisexual and polyamourous

i think its because they understand what its like to date women; that sympathy turns them into cooler chicks. plus theres no strings attached