Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. :martin: :stopitslime: am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
 

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I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. :martin: :stopitslime: am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
You good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in there
 

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I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. :martin: :stopitslime: am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with

The only way to smash and the only way to get back at her, is to keep playing.

And in order to get back at her, you gotta smash and then leave her on read.

If you see after the 1st smash, it's gonna be being hot and cold. One day you blowing her up, being all lovey dovey, and then the next minute it's like you can't wait to get away from her. She's bonus and a burden at the same time.

If you got a lot of broads, this happens naturally.

If you don't got a lot of broads, the strategy feels like playing Haitian Roulette.
 

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You good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in there

The only way to smash and the only way to get back at her, is to keep playing.

And in order to get back at her, you gotta smash and then leave her on read.

If you see after the 1st smash, it's gonna be being hot and cold. One day you blowing her up, being all lovey dovey, and then the next minute it's like you can't wait to get away from her. She's bonus and a burden at the same time.

If you got a lot of broads, this happens naturally.

If you don't got a lot of broads, the strategy feels like playing Haitian Roulette.
Appreciate yall. I guess imma keep going but












I’ve PLAYED THESE GAMES BEFORE!! :sadcam:







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I said I played these games before :unimpressed: can’t lie this shyt mad annoying, but it is what it is. Play the game till you win.
 

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I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. :martin: :stopitslime: am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with

The very structure of ayschronous communication (texting) is the main cause of this. It's turned all of us, those women included, inside out over the last 10 years or so. Made us all anxious and paranoid, analyzing a few sentences like the Zodiac code, hooked on dopamine hits through texting. I want to post more about that later.

There's always a reason, a lot of women do this to convey that they aren't desperate or thirsty. I had someone years back cancel the planned date, because I didn't text her in the few days before the date. I only texted to confirm the day of. To me, that was normal. fukk I look like texting you good morning? But, truthfully I was out of sync with emerging dating norms.

From your perspective, you shouldn't even really give a fukk, what she was doing, or why she didn't hit you back. Just take it in stride, and go on the date. Go on from there.
 

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The very structure of ayschronous communication (texting) is the main cause of this. It's turned all of us, those women included, inside out over the last 10 years or so. Made us all anxious and paranoid, analyzing a few sentences like the Zodiac code, hooked on dopamine hits through texting. I want to post more about that later.

There's always a reason, a lot of women do this to convey that they aren't desperate or thirsty. I had someone years back cancel the planned date, because I didn't text her in the few days before the date. I only texted to confirm the day of. To me, that was normal. fukk I look like texting you good morning? But, truthfully I was out of sync with emerging dating norms.

From your perspective, you shouldn't even really give a fukk, what she was doing, or why she didn't hit you back. Just take it in stride, and go on the date. Go on from there.
Date shyt prolly chalked now :mjlol: I really don’t give a fukk, that’s why I just been hittin chicks, keeping it movin and that’s it, for so long. Ain’t nothing lasting these days, it is what it is.
 

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I'm thinking you were trying to firm up the date and talk before, because that's what's expected now, and I understand that for sure, because now, rarely do people just set a time and commit. They text and send memes and voice notes, FaceTime, and second and third guess their decisions, so I get it.

I think about that sometimes, like if I want a date in 2 weeks for something, will anyone just commit and stick to it, or is it better to hit someone 2 days before, or even the same day? I do little experiments with that all the time.

It's truthfully a problem across society. No one just shows up anymore. They think about what their energy is, what their aura is, what the vibe is, or how they are feeling, can we do next week instead? NO dude it's a fukking pre paid reservation.

I say all the time, I don't answer my phone because I want to talk to everyone that calls me, but it doesn't matter what my feelings are, you pick up the phone for Mom, or Dad, or my boys, or whoever it is. I don't show up because it's always the perfect thing or perfect moment, I show up because that's my word. Because I said i would show up. I told a woman once, somewhat dramatically, that the only reason I would ever no show, is I was dead, jail, or got hit by a car lol
 

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There's a lot of discourse in here about women with lukewarm interest but can we talk about the ones with super high interest who try to get you to boyfriend girlfriend shyt in like the first 2 weeks of knowing each other? :dahell: being asked to go on a trip with them and yall been on one date

According to a lot of cats on this thread, those are the ones that you're supposed to lock down. It don't matter what you want, it only matters what they want.

I look at them dudes pushing female supremacy like :mjpls:
 

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I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”. :martin: :stopitslime: am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
Lol this is something I’ve had to get used to and it works

Just play it cool and match her energy

No double texting
 

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You good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in there
Don’t check her
I used to check girls

It’s pointless these days. Just move on to the next one and keep talking to the current but don’t give her much attn/investment
 
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