You good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in thereI’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”.![]()
am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”.![]()
am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
You good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in there
Appreciate yall. I guess imma keep going butThe only way to smash and the only way to get back at her, is to keep playing.
And in order to get back at her, you gotta smash and then leave her on read.
If you see after the 1st smash, it's gonna be being hot and cold. One day you blowing her up, being all lovey dovey, and then the next minute it's like you can't wait to get away from her. She's bonus and a burden at the same time.
If you got a lot of broads, this happens naturally.
If you don't got a lot of broads, the strategy feels like playing Haitian Roulette.
I’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”.![]()
am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
Date shyt prolly chalked nowThe very structure of ayschronous communication (texting) is the main cause of this. It's turned all of us, those women included, inside out over the last 10 years or so. Made us all anxious and paranoid, analyzing a few sentences like the Zodiac code, hooked on dopamine hits through texting. I want to post more about that later.
There's always a reason, a lot of women do this to convey that they aren't desperate or thirsty. I had someone years back cancel the planned date, because I didn't text her in the few days before the date. I only texted to confirm the day of. To me, that was normal. fukk I look like texting you good morning? But, truthfully I was out of sync with emerging dating norms.
From your perspective, you shouldn't even really give a fukk, what she was doing, or why she didn't hit you back. Just take it in stride, and go on the date. Go on from there.
There's a lot of discourse in here about women with lukewarm interest but can we talk about the ones with super high interest who try to get you to boyfriend girlfriend shyt in like the first 2 weeks of knowing each other?being asked to go on a trip with them and yall been on one date
Lol this is something I’ve had to get used to and it worksI’m texting lil shorty I met from the bar over the weekend, we vibing and whatever, we solidified a date night, cool right? Yesterday, I text her early on some “let’s FaceTime later on, that’s cool?”. No response all day. Early this morning she hmu on some good morning shyt, “I wasn’t feeling too good”.![]()
am I being cynical for not texting her back and letting that shyt die or should I hit her back up? The shyt single brehs deal with
Don’t check herYou good. She not invested yet. See if she do it again if she does then tell her this isn't not gonna work for you and delete her number. Sometimes folks be legit sick. But check her and tell her that you value communication if she wasnt feeling well she needs to just tell you next time rather than waiting until the next day to hit you up. But she hit you up so you still in there
According to a lot of cats on this thread, those are the ones that you're supposed to lock down. It don't matter what you want, it only matters what they want.
I look at them dudes pushing female supremacy like![]()
that's a first.