Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[cyndaquil]

eh def wouldn't say all that. There is a top 10-15% of men (still a super minority so def aint making it sound easy) who can eat and just dont understand the lane to work. You dont have to be Drake to get work IG.

Gotta curate your content around a lifestyle and branding. That in and of itself can be ddifficult since it's almost like a hobby/job with how much time and energy it takes

Plus if you don't have a specific look you're just wasting your time anyways. Unless you're hitting a niche like comedy or something

 

[MikelArteta]

Hinge used to have quality women a few years back until the undesirables showed up. lol

When hinge first came out it was the goat, it had like the cream of the crop. If you had alot of matches as a man you'd get like premium hinge for free, top women weren't hidden behind roses. But then yeah just like other apps it fell

I'm old enough that I was able to experience the prime days of myspace, black planet, asianavenue , migente, pof, okcupid, match, tinder, bumble, hinge and ate well of them all.

once they fall off the fall off is epic

 

[Apollo Creed]

When hinge first came out it was the goat, it had like the cream of the crop. If you had alot of matches as a man you'd get like premium hinge for free, top women weren't hidden behind roses. But then yeah just like other apps it fell

I'm old enough that I was able to experience the prime days of myspace, black planet, asianavenue , migente, pof, okcupid, match, tinder, bumble, hinge and ate well of them all.

once they fall off the fall off is epic

Most the apps got bought by The Match Company or something and that killed them being forced to convert users to profitability

 

[WIA20XX]

Gotta curate your content around a lifestyle and branding. That in and of itself can be ddifficult since it's almost like a hobby/job with how much time and energy it takes

Plus if you don't have a specific look you're just wasting your time anyways. Unless you're hitting a niche like comedy or something

This is how they market themselves

Brunch Alittle Harder on Instagram: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life."

355 likes, 95 comments - lewis_queen on August 31, 2025: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life.".

www.instagram.com

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So if a cat wants to attract chicks like this - ....he has to do better versions of this stuff.

 

[re'up]

The “intentional” dating phrase came about because folks got tired of dating someone who strung them along for a month or two; and in some cases longer only to cut and run when the relationship tried to progress. A lot of men and women in the dating pool have no direction. Most things in life have a goal in mind and dating is no different. For example, some may want to just have sex and hangout sometimes, some may want a full blown relationship. The hangup is a person you meet may not be interested in going in the same direction you’re going dating wise but it’s not said upfront.

They aren’t truthful with their “intentions” and will string you along until one of you ask for more than the other. I think dating with “intention” is good because it helps set boundaries EARLY in the interaction and frames your thought into “do I even like this person and are they looking for the same thing I’m looking for”.

Basically it’s all about finding like minded individuals who want the same things which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. We need more of that. It prevents a lot of “I’m just going with the flow but secretly don’t want anything serious” women and men.

All good points, but two counters:

Isn't there some kind of personal responsibility involved, when someone is "stringing you along", to assess the situation, or just ask the question? You can never prevent someone from being less than honest with you.

Is creating rigid boundaries a real solution? Life isn't like The Bachelor, where you are placed in a house with a dozen people. This is only me, but the women who I really fell in love with, we never planned it, it just happened from being together. Imagine at age 18, telling someone "yeah we can go to the movies, but are you dating me intentionally"?

but to your points, I think a lot of people do think like that. Hence a lot of the language about checking boxes. Like minded individuals. I like the more risky, the more intense. But I think that is part of what love/lust/vulnerability is, it's a risk.

 

[WIA20XX]

Just going off on a tangent here, but when a man, no matter what his face looks like, no matter what his BMI looks like, if he got some money, he thinks that standing on couple hundred thousand a year means he deserves some 23 year old IG baddie, or whatever his particular type is.

The money gives him means, options, and confidence, sure - but most of all, he feels ENTITLED.

Now, with women making more and more money, no matter what she looks like, her face, her body, her whatever - she feels ENTITLED to a Shemar Moore or whoever they're jilling off to over at LSA.

She's thinking, that I've "leveled up" and where's my strong, bearded, tall man to complete the perfect picture...

 

[re'up]

This is how they market themselves

Brunch Alittle Harder on Instagram: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life."

355 likes, 95 comments - lewis_queen on August 31, 2025: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life.".

www.instagram.com

....

So if a cat wants to attract chicks like this - ....he has to do better versions of this stuff.

Oh that's what a lot of women I know look like on social media for sure. I think one of the key points of a change in culture is everyone becoming a brand, and how that changes your worldview. Rewires basic human emotions.

For example, in 2008, people did not think like this, or act like this. Their experiences, their looks, their dinners were personal reflections, not part of a curated look.

 

[WIA20XX]

Gotta curate your content around a lifestyle and branding. That in and of itself can be ddifficult since it's almost like a hobby/job with how much time and energy it takes

Plus if you don't have a specific look you're just wasting your time anyways. Unless you're hitting a niche like comedy or something

Based on broads I would smash on IG - it's all "luxury/ celeb" lifestyle. Which is very feasible/fake -able

To wit, I'm waiting for the bus yesterday (flex!) and the wildebeest yaking on the phone for all to hear said She couldn't attend a certain talking because she was in Jamaica.

In my mind's eye, I can see my cousins and his breddas at the Dunn's River falls rubbing them down for a TikTok video.

 

[cyndaquil]

This is how they market themselves

Brunch Alittle Harder on Instagram: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life."

355 likes, 95 comments - lewis_queen on August 31, 2025: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life.".

www.instagram.com

....

So if a cat wants to attract chicks like this - ....he has to do better versions of this stuff.

Stupid shyt then check their net worth and its negative...

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

This is how they market themselves

Brunch Alittle Harder on Instagram: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life."

355 likes, 95 comments - lewis_queen on August 31, 2025: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life.".

www.instagram.com

....

So if a cat wants to attract chicks like this - ....he has to do better versions of this stuff.

She looks like she eats sushi all day...

 

[DJSmooth]

This is how they market themselves

Brunch Alittle Harder on Instagram: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life."

355 likes, 95 comments - lewis_queen on August 31, 2025: "Happy Birthday to me🎂♍️ Cheers to 32 years of God’s love, good health & an amazing support system to cover me through this thing called life.".

www.instagram.com

....

So if a cat wants to attract chicks like this - ....he has to do better versions of this stuff.

Yall got to get off the internet. If you met her in person she would probably be going.

I meet influencers/mini influencers all the time, some of them don't want a man all on the internet. It really is just an extra source of income for them.

 

[Canon]

Yall got to get off the internet. If you met her in person she would probably be going.

I meet influencers/mini influencers all the time, some of them don't want a man all on the internet. It really is just an extra source of income for them.

They want to limit his options and maximize there’s

 

[General Mills]

 

[WIA20XX]

Y'all cats that like to Well Ackshually...

 

[The Jewnited States]

I made the mistake of trying out Facebook dating. Probably the worst one yet. There's decent and good looking chicks on there but the chance of any of them taking it seriously is hovering right around 0