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Similar to social media id rather not even be exposed to what’s on it - it just creates a cycle of using it because youre bored which has subtle effects on you just like social media platforms do
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Similar to social media id rather not even be exposed to what’s on it - it just creates a cycle of using it because youre bored which has subtle effects on you just like social media platforms do
Mastamimd
Ain't shyt
LiveFromLondon
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My Sister had her traditional wedding the other week, was interesting watching the negotiationsMet a woman from Africa on a date and she’s breaking down to me what a dowry is and what paying damages are. “How many goats I gotta send to ya pops?”
cyndaquil
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Yeah they being given bad advice. The man should pursue you yes ok but there's a fine line between wanting to be pursued and giving off a lack of interest, the pursuit has to be invited. It's push-pull. Same energy as "I want a man who's obsessed with me". She can pop up with a good morning or what are you up to? every so often or tell you about a movie she wants to go see or a park she wants to visit.
cyndaquil
Lv 100 Bold natured
FTFY
I always say nothing wrong with whoever breaking the ice to initiate attraction interest but after that if its like talking to a wall/ one way traffic then bounce. Some folks have more tolerance of when they bounce but still dont waste too much time. There is a difference between shy and Im being entertained by you cause im bored/im socially awkard which is most cases
if you want my overly philsophical take: part of the issue is how we are all taught to designate relationships. Divide into categories. And the hyper categorization that has become part of the day to day language of social media is even worse, words like situationships, for example. I think social media's grip has made everyone even more judgmental and close minded, closer to the Victorian era puritans than any kind of modern, and even the Victorians knew how to have a good affair. Isn't situationship just a pejorative for spending time together?
More practical stance: The only thing I ever pay any attention to, is how that person makes me feel, and do I want to see them again. Of course eventually you have to have a conversation, but 2-3 dates in, you barely know each other. All this "intentional" dating I think is delusional. Even the Victorians didn't take 2 dates to decide marriage. It was a months long process. Sometimes years.
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Ill make plans twice. If the girl cant reach out after that ill take the hint. Even if she interested I dont wanna be in anything with a chick where i gotta do all the work anyway
@Ohene
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get the east african visa you can visit rwanda, kenya and Uganda on one visa. And all of those countries are right beside each other a 1 hour flight.
Also tanzania is right there if you wanted zanzibar or dar es salaam
I stay in Entebbe which is where the airport is
First time I ever went to Uganda I did the east africa visa went to Uganda first then rwanda then kenya
Rwanda is the cleanest but its boring night life is dead , the women are tall and beautiful though. No uber harder to get around.
Kenya got the best safaris and infrastructures esp with the UN moving there a lot of tourists like right in the center of nairobi you can do the elephant conservation, giraffe center and a safari or go to masai mara 4 hour drive from nairobi, nightlife is dope, easy to get around with Uber. A lot of beautiful women nice malls etc. can also take the train to Mombassa for that nice resort relaxing feel
Uganda the pearl of Africa - Most affordable of the 3, women got the best shape, kampala is chaotic barely any street lights , traffic is horrible You can be stuck in the same spot for a few hours sometimes, food isalot to do whether mountain gorilla trekking, jinja, beaches also got the goat fish
South african women have the best shape in africa
Hinge is a wasteland of washed and ran through hoez
Was she over 30?Met a woman from Africa on a date and she’s breaking down to me what a dowry is and what paying damages are. “How many goats I gotta send to ya pops?”
