It's a microcosm of modern women/dating and why the game doesnt make sense for men nowadays
As a man, a lot of women expect you to do a bunch of traditional shyt (courting, dating, paying, providing, princess treatment) early on, while they are soliciting the same treatment from a bunch of other men and they dont do the traditional things a woman would do until later on the backend (if youre lucky). I understand taking a risk but nowadays its just too lopsided. It's actually rather insane when you think about it.
An African woman will live in Canada, UK or America. Yall might have even both been born in and grew up in these countries; for all intents and purposes you are african descent but are also American, Canadian or British. You will make more money than her, be debt free, might even have your own place / investments. Meanwhile she could be jobless, making a fraction of what you make or broke, in debt and mostly relying on you as a provider. Yet youre the one who's paying a bride price? And to make matters worse, if her family doesnt have any wealth or isnt together, you and your family might even pay for most of the wedding?
Man...men have to wake up. Lot of us are letting ourselves be abused and what were being sold aint worth it. Something's got to give.