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Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Met a woman from Africa on a date and she’s breaking down to me what a dowry is and what paying damages are. “How many goats I gotta send to ya pops?”
One of the most annoying things about african women
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Big Yella
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Big Yella
lmaoo isnt this what you was referring to earlier? @Apollo CreedMet a woman from Africa on a date and she’s breaking down to me what a dowry is and what paying damages are. “How many goats I gotta send to ya pops?”
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Big Yella
lol I guess I stand corrected about African women? 
Yikes
Ground zero of all things wrong with society
if an African woman is talking to a man not from her tribe/a nikka in general on a random date she is a renegade and has been discarded by her people hence she on a date with an outsider. Even if an African woman is dating an outsider dowry aint being brought up on no random date with a nikka she prob aint even gonna see again, that shyt aint a flex its a sign of a money hungry renegade
You saying I’m dealing with African Brittany Renner?
If a woman is so "traditional" the fukk is she doing unmarried over the age of 22 on a date with someone not from her culture of so called "Tradition"?
She clearly accomplished something so important she bushed her tradition for a period, so why does her traditions matter now? its cause she is looking for a sucker she thinks has no culture so she can manipulate. A man from a strong culture doesn't give a fukk about the woman's culture because she is going to play by the rules of his culture. It's insulting.
It's a microcosm of modern women/dating and why the game doesnt make sense for men nowadays
As a man, a lot of women expect you to do a bunch of traditional shyt (courting, dating, paying, providing, princess treatment) early on, while they are soliciting the same treatment from a bunch of other men and they dont do the traditional things a woman would do until later on the backend (if youre lucky). I understand taking a risk but nowadays its just too lopsided. It's actually rather insane when you think about it.
An African woman will live in Canada, UK or America. Yall might have even both been born in and grew up in these countries; for all intents and purposes you are african descent but are also American, Canadian or British. You will make more money than her, be debt free, might even have your own place / investments. Meanwhile she could be jobless, making a fraction of what you make or broke, in debt and mostly relying on you as a provider. Yet youre the one who's paying a bride price? And to make matters worse, if her family doesnt have any wealth or isnt together, you and your family might even pay for most of the wedding?
Man...men have to wake up. Lot of us are letting ourselves be abused and what were being sold aint worth it. Something's got to give.
funny enough in indian cultures, the man is the one who receives a dowry.
my bro in law is guyanese, my sister is ghanaian...both sides were arguing about who receives what until the couple just said fukk it, nobodys receiving anything lol
my bro in law is guyanese, my sister is ghanaian...both sides were arguing about who receives what until the couple just said fukk it, nobodys receiving anything lol
It's a microcosm of modern women/dating and why the game doesnt make sense for men nowadays
As a man, a lot of women expect you to do a bunch of traditional shyt (courting, dating, paying, providing, princess treatment) early on, while they are soliciting the same treatment from a bunch of other men and they dont do the traditional things a woman would do until later on the backend (if youre lucky). I understand taking a risk but nowadays its just too lopsided. It's actually rather insane when you think about it.
An African woman will live in Canada, UK or America. Yall might have even both been born in and grew up in these countries; for all intents and purposes you are african descent but are also American, Canadian or British. You will make more money than her, be debt free, might even have your own place / investments. Meanwhile she could be jobless, making a fraction of what you make or broke, in debt and mostly relying on you as a provider. Yet youre the one who's paying a bride price? And to make matters worse, if her family doesnt have any wealth or isnt together, you and your family might even pay for most of the wedding?
Man...men have to wake up. Lot of us are letting ourselves be abused and what were being sold aint worth it. Something's got to give.
Thats the thing, we use Modern in a negative context, nothing wrong with being modern the issue is for Women they want a modern situation for themselves but not for men.
in a Modern world everything should be 50/50 and either Gender can approach people they find attractive. But women never in history do anything that benefits someone else/unconditional outside of their child and looking at history you can argue the investment in their child is so the child can take care of them in old age lol
Women talk communication yet when its time to talk they play dumb lol, in a perfect world both sides will say hey this is my strength, this is your strength, lets figure the gaps out together. All of that Color Purple servant shyt is really women projecting what they want to do to men on men to misdirect attention for when they start doing the crazy shyt, meanwhile men still out here tryna prove they are the best servants.
Deleted my account months ago
Similar to social media id rather not even be exposed to what’s on it - it just creates a cycle of using it because youre bored which has subtle effects on you just like social media platforms do