Oh indeed (c) Omar
Here are my 2 points when "iffy" chicks and also "OMG I LOVE YOU, LETS GET MARRIED RIGHT NOW" type chicks come at you
1) Are you getting what you want?
I think the 1st point is obvious, and anyone telling cats the only way to be happy is if the girl is chasing you from the start - is not to be trusted, and possibly an LSA agent.
Except that it's not obvious to dudes.
2) Females Change
A) The chick that was iffy can become your wife. Every story you ever hear about couples meeting (black ones at least), "I didn't like him at first"
One of the extended fam, she was like, I didn't like him on the first night. 2 weeks later I saw him at the spot, and now we've been married 10 years and have 2 kids.
I have smashed more chicks that didn't like me at first, than ones that was hoping I would holla at em.
B) The chick that was wifey from jump, can switch up for all types of reasons
- She feel diff
- New job, new me
- New body, new me
- New degree, new me
- Old Dude come back in the picture
- New dude come in the picture
- Her broads whisphering in her ear this and that
- She's watching soap operas/TV, traditional media, new media, social media
^Had these happen to me all the time. Everything is chill, we solidfying and them boom something changes on her end. This is
the essential story I read when it comes to relationship issues.
Chicks are not just moody and emotional. It's not a time of the month thing. It's not little thing.
It's their essential essence.
They'll chop their hair off on a whim, pick a place on a map and just move there, get married just cause.
They are chaos embodied.
All the time they put time, money, effort, and energy into hobbies, careers, and dudes that are obviously dead ends from the outset.
Ignore what everyone says, ignore their own minds...and then be like "why didn't you stop me" (Should sound familiar in terms of politics)
But you got so many dudes talmbout, if you just smash her right, if you stack bills and handle your business...
Stone Cold Pimps lose broads over some BS, why wouldn't a regular dude?
So I go back to the 2 principles
1) As a man, are you getting what you want?
And
2) Because she's a female, she's gonna change.
To the first, a lotta guys don't get what they want, but even more don't KNOW what they want. Cause sometimes you think you know, until you get it. (With new information, you should change your mind)
To the second, if the chick is playing games or she's way too in to you from the start - that can and often does change, both to the positive and negative. ...
Following from the fact that hoes will change on a dime - as a man, are you prepared for that?
Lotta guys say yes, and then find themselves crying or drinking/smoking themselves out trying to replace that love they felt...