Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[cyndaquil]

I get what you saying but it makes me feel weak. Like why I’m worried about somebody who don’t care about me lol

Reframe your thinking. How is it weak? Strength is displayed in overcoming resistance not in the absence of it. If you did not feel those feelings and had nothing to overcome how would you feel? Strong? Would you call a man that doesn't feel fear courageous?

 

[RawDogBandit]

I Wouldn't deal with African women in Asia unless you know for a fact they are in college (as African students tend to go to Asia and Eastern Europe for university in large numbers). A ton are there for prostitution lol.

But still Many African women are searching for an Identify and take to American pop culture which is Prostitution culture so they are on that soft life luxury etc etc while living in/being from failed states with Jihadist and no electricity or drinking water for most of the population.

SA is a failed state for example so seeing them having the whole luxury scene is comical and pitiful.

I’m heading to Africa early next year to visit. My plan is to hit SA, Kenya and Ghana

Are they becoming more westernized overall? Or is it just mostly SA?

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I’m heading to Africa early next year to visit. My plan is to hit SA, Kenya and Ghana

Are they becoming more westernized overall? Or is it just mostly SA?

Bro the whole world is westernized to a degree
Only advantage in Africa is less competition
More women available and less competition

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Bro the whole world is westernized to a degree
Only advantage in Africa is less competition
More women available and less competition

All these brehs on this "Westernized woman" talk really think the minute they touchdown wherever their passport got them it's gonna be like:

 

[Canon]

All these brehs on this "Westernized woman" talk really think the minute they touchdown wherever their passport got them it's gonna be like:

it can be........

 

[Apollo Creed]

I’m heading to Africa early next year to visit. My plan is to hit SA, Kenya and Ghana

Are they becoming more westernized overall? Or is it just mostly SA?

SA is a western country. Never been tonKenya or Ghana but Ghana is flooded with Americans now ok the turn up tip, and Kenya has always been a hoe spot in East Africa. If you just going got vacation and tonhave fun none of this really matters honestly

 

[RawDogBandit]

SA is a western country. Never been tonKenya or Ghana but Ghana is flooded with Americans now ok the turn up tip, and Kenya has always been a hoe spot in East Africa. If you just going got vacation and tonhave fun none of this really matters honestly

Appreciate it. Just was curious. I’m not really going to party or look for women honestly(though I know it will happen) I just want to explore the world a bit more

I’m finishing the first draft of a book and decided to travel for a year to help as I work on the second draft.

Africa will be my first stop. Always wanted to go

 

[RawDogBandit]

Bro the whole world is westernized to a degree
Only advantage in Africa is less competition
More women available and less competition

I hear that. I haven’t been overseas in ten years so I wasn’t sure

I’m sure I’ll be in for a few surprises

 

[Apollo Creed]

Appreciate it. Just was curious. I’m not really going to party or look for women honestly(though I know it will happen) I just want to explore the world a bit more

I’m finishing the first draft of a book and decided to travel for a year to help as I work on the second draft.

Africa will be my first stop. Always wanted to go

Yeah issue is people romanticize things they never experienced then get let down kr taken advantage of once they get it. Just enjoy yourself and understand humans are humans

 

[Amor fati]

I agree whole heartedly

Lot of African descent//born women don’t even try to make you feel like you not tricking on them. They will outright ask you for money or to buy them shyt. It’s uncanny and a huge turn off

What they don’t realize is that if they were just solid/good women and they rolled with you they’d naturally benefit and be taken care of. Instead they make it feel so transactional

Had to tell this Broke ass Cayman Island girl that I'm not the bank of England and I'm not buying her drinks, if she ain't gonna buy my drink on the next round.

 

[skyrunner1]

lol. I met a few teachers out in Asia and they all seem to get their info about America from twitter and TikTok.

In ten years we will all have the same slang, the same fashion, and all the same talking points worldwide because TikTok reaches everyone.

Ive said it on here before and will repeat until it sinks in, but Social Media as a whole is the greatest propaganda distribution technology ever created.. And tiktok is the most efficient, sticky, memetic ever created and cannot even be explained on terms most would understand. These things will be broken down and explained in books, documentaries, specials in the near and distant future.. You hear the stuff coming up now about suicide, depression, anxiety, brain rot, etc. We still dont know affects of this addiction that most have but imagine everyone getting hooked on crack, not just group of people but the masses by billion+..

The way mindsets have changed so rapidly and how things that were regionalized have not been spread globally.. Do with that what you want..

 

[WIA20XX]

Ive said it on here before and will repeat until it sinks in, but Social Media as a whole is the greatest propaganda distribution technology ever created.. And tiktok is the most efficient, sticky, memetic ever created and cannot even be explained on terms most would understand. These things will be broken down and explained in books, documentaries, specials in the near and distant future.. You hear the stuff coming up now about suicide, depression, anxiety, brain rot, etc. We still dont know affects of this addiction that most have but imagine everyone getting hooked on crack, not just group of people but the masses by billion+..

The way mindsets have changed so rapidly and how things that were regionalized have not been spread globally.. Do with that what you want..

On some realness

I read about a few studies, and this is what Google's AI* has to say about it (*I'm aware of the irony of using AI)

Have reading scores declined since the introduction of smart phones?

Yes, Multiple studies show that reading scores have declined since the widespread introduction of smartphones
, and research has found a negative correlation between screen time and reading comprehension. The iPhone, which launched in 2007, marked the beginning of smartphones dominating teens' lives, with notable drops in test scores occurring around 2012. While researchers point to several potential contributing factors, definitive causation has been hard to prove

So what this means for dudes out there trying to smash or trying to find a wife - your target market has been been seriously dumbed down, and they're more emotionally reactive and more unpredictable than was the norm prior to the iPhone.

Old heads remember when broads back in the day were scatter brained, hypergamous, selfish, duplicitious, never on time, totally self centered, etc.

The behavior itself was not new.

But

The breadth of this behavior, the depth of it, the short and long term consequences of it, the inability to deal with it on a personal level, the impossibility of dealing with it on societal/global level....

That's the difference. In my 30s, I could manage a chick in her mid to late 20s. There was still some semblance of Offline >>>>> Online.

Whatever I dealt with in the late 90s and early to mid 00s is like 10x for Millennials, and 1,000 X for Gen Z's.

AND

Because old hoes wanna be young, you got Vivica Fox and Madonna getting BBLs, so now if I'm rapping to a chick that's Karreuche's age (she's 37), she's thinking like she's 22, despite having a 401k, a mortgage, an education and a good job.

 

[re'up]

When the dude said social media is a cancer on society, that's what I have been thinking for a few years now.

The way it was introduced, and defended over the years, from a champion of democracy, to what it is now.

That whole argument that it's just a tool and it depends on how you use it is such bullshyt. It's impacted every major facet of modern public life. Politics, terrorism, the financial industry, every business you cam think of, books, movies, music, our whole lives are centered around social media, whether we use it or not. The most powerful people in the world are using it. That alone is fukking wild. Justice Department officials. Presidents.

So, conversely, the idea that it wouldn't affect person to person interpersonal relationships is just laughable. Of course it does. Of course it has. You can probably chart the escalation in this thread, where people are debating the content of instagram and our IMessages from 10 years ago, to now, where we are all like none of us have any clue what this done to everyone. I think AI will be like this too.

 

[re'up]

Notes on text messages and dopamine:

It was probably a few years ago when I realized how much I disliked texting, not because I am a "bad texter" but because as a mechanism, it felt like I was getting high, when I didn't want to, and I realize now that everyone is kind of bound to this system of dopamine drip. I had these two girls today, that I had never called, and I wanted to call both of them, but I was like the odds on them answering are like 15%. Half the time they don't answer, even if they know me! The other half they text back. So I texted.

But it really is like a slot machine. The flow and consistency of a phone call doesn't have that effect on me. It's like just a good feeling, that eventually goes away. Texting is like doing coke all afternoon. You get that little hit or nothing at all, and then start the whole process over. Had some deeper thoughts about attachment and dopamine running together, and how we have all been programmed and rewired to equate love/lust/passion/connection/intimacy with texts, essentially quick dopamine hits. And, for me, being aware of this, and not really texting very much in general, people who are on dating apps, plus group chats, plus whatever else, they are mainlining this shyt all day.

 

[Ohene]

When the dude said social media is a cancer on society, that's what I have been thinking for a few years now.

The way it was introduced, and defended over the years, from a champion of democracy, to what it is now.

That whole argument that it's just a tool and it depends on how you use it is such bullshyt. It's impacted every major facet of modern public life. Politics, terrorism, the financial industry, every business you cam think of, books, movies, music, our whole lives are centered around social media, whether we use it or not. The most powerful people in the world are using it. That alone is fukking wild. Justice Department officials. Presidents.

So, conversely, the idea that it wouldn't affect person to person interpersonal relationships is just laughable. Of course it does. Of course it has. You can probably chart the escalation in this thread, where people are debating the content of instagram and our IMessages from 10 years ago, to now, where we are all like none of us have any clue what this done to everyone. I think AI will be like this too.

im halfway through careless ppl btw. gotta finish that joint