Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

I get what you saying but it makes me feel weak. Like why I’m worried about somebody who don’t care about me lol

Vulnerability is a part of it! Like the dude said in HEAT "The action is the juice". Sex, lust, romance makes you vulnerable, that's why it's so thrilling. Somehow around 2016 people began to live out the phrase "catching feelings", and try to avoid feelings like you would try to avoid getting sick or some shyt. You can't do that, you are distancing yourself and others from the only things that make anything worthwhile.

To be able to be weak, is a strength itself.

 

[Amor fati]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

 

[The ADD]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

 

[trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

I see nothing wrong with what she did.... She was 100% transparent. Told you what it is and also subliminally let you know, you're not the only one she is talking to..... 3/4 of the posts on this website revolve around bashing women cause they have a "hidden roster" so you don't know where you stand, trying to talk to a girl and when you get in touch she has some BS excuse for missing the engagement, or not being "traditional" enough and embodying being "prim", "proper" , and "delicate".

She conveyed in a crystal clear manner where she is at......... how you choose to take it is upon your discretion....

 

[The ADD]

I see nothing wrong with what she did.... She was 100% transparent. Told you what it is and also subliminally let you know, you're not the only one she is talking to..... 3/4 of the posts on this website revolve around bashing women cause they have a "hidden roster" so you don't know where you stand, trying to talk to a girl and when you get in touch she has some BS excuse for missing the engagement, or not being "traditional" enough and embodying being "prim", "proper" , and "delicate".

She conveyed in a crystal clear manner where she is at......... how you choose to take it is upon your discretion....

It does say something that she agreed to it and 9 minutes later remembered she had a date. No bueno.

 

[Amor fati]

I see nothing wrong with what she did.... She was 100% transparent. Told you what it is and also subliminally let you know, you're not the only one she is talking to..... 3/4 of the posts on this website revolve around bashing women cause they have a "hidden roster" so you don't know where you stand, trying to talk to a girl and when you get in touch she has some BS excuse for missing the engagement, or not being "traditional" enough and embodying being "prim", "proper" , and "delicate".

She conveyed in a crystal clear manner where she is at......... how you choose to take it is upon your discretion....

Bro you're talking as if I'm mad she's seeing other people, as I'm talking and seeing other girls. All I'm saying is spare the damn information I don't need to know that. Chill with your projections.

 

[Brandsdale]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

How long you been talking? if shes being up front with you (and you are also dating other people) then I dont think there's necessarily anything wrong here?

Sure, its a bit awkard to tell someone about seeing other people off rip but you too aren't even at a stage to expect anything from each other, yall just "talking" (or whatever preliminary stage you wanna call it). You're adults and dating involves vetting multiple people.

I wouldnt say this is disrespectful, it actually kinda sounds one-sided. You cant be talking to multiple chics and not expect shorty to play the field too

 

[Amor fati]

How long you been talking? if shes being up front with you (and you are also dating other people) then I dont think there's necessarily anything wrong here?

Sure, its a bit awkard to tell someone about seeing other people off rip but you too aren't even at a stage to expect anything from each other, yall just "talking" (or whatever preliminary stage you wanna call it). You're adults and dating involves vetting multiple people.

I wouldnt say this is disrespectful, it actually kinda sounds one-sided. You cant be talking to multiple chics and not expect shorty to play the field too

I feel you. But like said to the other guy I got no issues her playing the field ain't one of those naive guys that wants a girl exclusive to him off jump. My thing is respect me and spare me the details what you are doing with next man that shyt is for her girlfriends or dudes on the friendzone .

 

[Apollo Creed]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

I mean yall not in a relationship but yeah folks should be able to read the room lol but yeah all that “checking” stuff is dumb in 2025, these chicks for everyone so ghost and dont get stuck with the bill

 

[WIA20XX]

Just started talking to this 39 year old lady long story short I told her that I'd call her in the evening the next day which she was down for, then 9 mins later she said that it took might not be possible cause she's on a date. Normally if a girl tells me about the next man I check her quick fast in a heartbeat but this time I just decided to ghost her as my soul doesn't like her vibe.

These women have gotten used to being around friendly vibe dudes for so long that they straight up disrespect you off the bat.

I'm more tripping off the fact that

1) She's 39 and doesn't understand discretion
2) You're hollering at a 39 year old (That's my territory!, Y'all stick with them young girls man! lol)

But I'd get the "ick" from some broad mentioning how she's basically getting that thang smashed and she'll call you later.

She don't to hear about you splacking some 28 year old, why does she think you want to hear about her dealing with another guy?

She's old enough to understand how other people are affected by what she says. She either has no filter, lacks emotional intelligence, or is trying to make herself look good/feel good by saying she's got options.

Classless

 

[cyndaquil]

I feel you. But like said to the other guy I got no issues her playing the field ain't one of those naive guys that wants a girl exclusive to him off jump. My thing is respect me and spare me the details what you are doing with next man that shyt is for her girlfriends or dudes on the friendzone .

I kinda agree. It's implied folks could be dating other people early on but never really said. It's kinda that "yeah we know it's happening but let's not talk about it" thing. I wouldn't like it if a woman said that to me either. It's not a shock that she's talking to other people moreso it tells me the kind of woman she is and how casually she views me. But again it depends on what you want from this woman.

 

[cyndaquil]

She's old enough to understand how other people are affected by what she says. She either has not filter, lacks emotional intelligence, or is trying to make herself look good/feel good but saying she's got options.

Classless

I think it's this one. The implication here, if she is serious about breh, is that she has options and she's attempting to get breh off of his program and force him to compete and in turn commit faster. Probably some shyt she learned off a podcast lol

 

[WIA20XX]

I think it's this one. The implication here, if she is serious about breh, is that she has options and she's attempting to get breh off of his program and force him to compete and in turn commit faster. Probably some shyt she learned off a podcast lol

I can see it now

*gets off phone*
*smacks head*
"Damn!"
"I just saw this on TikTok"
"Lemme call him back"

 

[Apollo Creed]

Been traveling so much decided to finallg match/respond to the backlog i have locally on dating apps and i really have no desire to meet these chicks lol like when i travel there is a sense of urgency so idk if its just im not in the mood/emotional stare to care or the convo is ass

 

[DJSmooth]

I’m heading to Africa early next year to visit. My plan is to hit SA, Kenya and Ghana

Are they becoming more westernized overall? Or is it just mostly SA?

Lol you hitting all 3 countries? None of them countries are remotely close to each other Africa is huge.