Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Oh.... everybody with a modicum of intelligence knows what he is trying to do........ the mere thought of an individual being able to express life experiences in a coherent, sophisticated way that are outside of the narrow idea this individual has about "blackness", is too much for him to process.....

It's funny, cause on The Coli, it's a cost free way to assassinate someone's character.

It's not like Silky is gonna post his socials on here so we can verify if he's even qualified to ask the question.

Poisonous troll behavior.
 

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Oh.... everybody with a modicum of intelligence knows what he is trying to do........ the mere thought of an individual being able to express life experiences in a coherent, sophisticated way that are outside of the narrow idea this individual has about "blackness", is too much for him to process.....
Bro it’s not that deep

@re'up is cool I agree with majority of his takes

But I wanna know if he’s black
 
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Bro it’s not that deep

@re'up is cool I agree with majority of his takes

But I wanna know if he’s black
and it doesn't have to be that deep..... what in any way whatsoever does his being black have to do with the commentary he has provided?


You forgot to switch back to your @Astroslik account...
I really hope you not out here using dual accounts breh..... not you Lurka, but Malcom... :eldiego:
 

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Say brehs how do you handle when a chick pulls back during the dating phase? Do you bring it up? Mirror their energy? Dead the situation right then and there and move on?

I’m of the opinion that it’s best to just mirror her behavior and not reach out unless she does.
 

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Say brehs how do you handle when a chick pulls back during the dating phase? Do you bring it up? Mirror their energy? Dead the situation right then and there and move on?

I’m of the opinion that it’s best to just mirror her behavior and not reach out unless she does.
Depends what you want

Try to get to the point of not caring to the degree you don’t even notice she pulled back

Just fall back yourself and focus your attn on women who are more proactive
 
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Depends what you want

Try to get to the point of not caring to the point you don’t even notice she pulled back or if you do you don’t care.

Just fall back yourself and focus your attn on women who are more proactive

I want a relationship but I’m not gonna chase a chick especially after I’ve smashed a couple times.

Yeah exactly what I was thinking. Part of the downside of seeing one woman at a time. Which is my M.O.
 

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I want a relationship but I’m not gonna chase a chick especially after I’ve smashed a couple times.

Yeah exactly what I was thinking. Part of the downside of seeing one woman at a time. Which is my M.O.
i'm seeing 3. fukkin only one though for now (outside of the cougar i banged last week randomly)
i ain in any rush to lock anyone down, let them prove themselves to me at this pt
 

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and it doesn't have to be that deep..... what in any way whatsoever does his being black have to do with the commentary he has provided?



I really hope you not out here using dual accounts breh..... not you Lurka, but Malcom... :eldiego:

That's like county jail shyt. What race are you with? I remember that shyt back then. Which car are you rolling in? Leave me out of all that.

I appreciate you two standing in for me. I appreciate engaging with the key people in here, but being the center of attention is not my thing.
 
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That's like county jail shyt. What race are you with? I remember that shyt back then. Which car are you rolling in? Leave me out of all that.

I appreciate you two standing in for me. I appreciate engaging with the key people in here, but being the center of attention is not my thing.
Your commentary is thought out, well articulated, and not 3 sentences........ displaying higher intellect makes some folks uncomfortable.......
 

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Where did yall meet and what was discussed before?

Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.
 

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Yo I need your advice

I matched with my old coworker on hinge last month, we used to work together before Covid for like 2 years. She was in relationship back then but definitely showed signs that she liked me. Anyways, we matched and after few catch ups on how we been, I told her let’s grab something to eat and catch up in person.

Ended up meeting up and grabbing a dinner together, then chilled in the park afterwards. Continued to text afterwards for 2 days, I mentioned we should go eat again somewhere, and she said sounds like a plan. Anyways after talking for 2 days after meeting up, she suddenly didn’t reply. I hit her up again 2 days later and she apologized, said she was very busy and tired. She works as a nurse at urgent care. We continue to talk for like 2 days and then again she went quiet. The last text I sent didn’t really need a reply, but I thought she would still say something next day or start new convo. It’s been a week and a half since we spoke, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t mind hitting her up again but at the same time I feel like she would’ve texted me if she was really interested or is she waiting for me to make the move?

Not sure how to proceed, when we met up she looked like she was interested in me, plus she came down to the city to meet up, I feel like a person that’s not interested wouldn’t do that since she lives more than an hour away.
 
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