Bro it’s not that deep
@re'up is cool I agree with majority of his takes
But I wanna know if he’s black
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@re'up is cool I agree with majority of his takes
But I wanna know if he’s black
You forgot to switch back to your @Astroslik account...
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
and it doesn't have to be that deep..... what in any way whatsoever does his being black have to do with the commentary he has provided?
I really hope you not out here using dual accounts breh..... not you Lurka, but Malcom...
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Say brehs how do you handle when a chick pulls back during the dating phase? Do you bring it up? Mirror their energy? Dead the situation right then and there and move on?
I’m of the opinion that it’s best to just mirror her behavior and not reach out unless she does.
I’m of the opinion that it’s best to just mirror her behavior and not reach out unless she does.
Depends what you want
Try to get to the point of not caring to the degree you don’t even notice she pulled back
Just fall back yourself and focus your attn on women who are more proactive
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Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
I want a relationship but I’m not gonna chase a chick especially after I’ve smashed a couple times.
Yeah exactly what I was thinking. Part of the downside of seeing one woman at a time. Which is my M.O.
i'm seeing 3. fukkin only one though for now (outside of the cougar i banged last week randomly)
i ain in any rush to lock anyone down, let them prove themselves to me at this pt
Does she know that or have reason to think that was in the cards from jump?
Where did yall meet and what was discussed before?
and it doesn't have to be that deep..... what in any way whatsoever does his being black have to do with the commentary he has provided?
I really hope you not out here using dual accounts breh..... not you Lurka, but Malcom...
That's like county jail shyt. What race are you with? I remember that shyt back then. Which car are you rolling in? Leave me out of all that.
I appreciate you two standing in for me. I appreciate engaging with the key people in here, but being the center of attention is not my thing.
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Yes.
trap101-ETHout-Allegri-In
Superstar
Your commentary is thought out, well articulated, and not 3 sentences........ displaying higher intellect makes some folks uncomfortable.......
Lieutenant Daniels
I’m up for Major
Met in the gym. She approached me. We instantly hit it off. Made it known I’m looking for a relationship. She said she was looking for the same thing. We talked for 2 weeks and then i smashed last Saturday twice. Since then its just felt off and I’m about to shut it down. It is what it is.
Sauce Mane
Superstar
Yo I need your advice
I matched with my old coworker on hinge last month, we used to work together before Covid for like 2 years. She was in relationship back then but definitely showed signs that she liked me. Anyways, we matched and after few catch ups on how we been, I told her let’s grab something to eat and catch up in person.
Ended up meeting up and grabbing a dinner together, then chilled in the park afterwards. Continued to text afterwards for 2 days, I mentioned we should go eat again somewhere, and she said sounds like a plan. Anyways after talking for 2 days after meeting up, she suddenly didn’t reply. I hit her up again 2 days later and she apologized, said she was very busy and tired. She works as a nurse at urgent care. We continue to talk for like 2 days and then again she went quiet. The last text I sent didn’t really need a reply, but I thought she would still say something next day or start new convo. It’s been a week and a half since we spoke, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t mind hitting her up again but at the same time I feel like she would’ve texted me if she was really interested or is she waiting for me to make the move?
Not sure how to proceed, when we met up she looked like she was interested in me, plus she came down to the city to meet up, I feel like a person that’s not interested wouldn’t do that since she lives more than an hour away.
I matched with my old coworker on hinge last month, we used to work together before Covid for like 2 years. She was in relationship back then but definitely showed signs that she liked me. Anyways, we matched and after few catch ups on how we been, I told her let’s grab something to eat and catch up in person.
Ended up meeting up and grabbing a dinner together, then chilled in the park afterwards. Continued to text afterwards for 2 days, I mentioned we should go eat again somewhere, and she said sounds like a plan. Anyways after talking for 2 days after meeting up, she suddenly didn’t reply. I hit her up again 2 days later and she apologized, said she was very busy and tired. She works as a nurse at urgent care. We continue to talk for like 2 days and then again she went quiet. The last text I sent didn’t really need a reply, but I thought she would still say something next day or start new convo. It’s been a week and a half since we spoke, and I’m not sure what to do. I don’t mind hitting her up again but at the same time I feel like she would’ve texted me if she was really interested or is she waiting for me to make the move?
Not sure how to proceed, when we met up she looked like she was interested in me, plus she came down to the city to meet up, I feel like a person that’s not interested wouldn’t do that since she lives more than an hour away.
lowe her. if you need closure, throw a hail mary and invite her over on some "hey what are you up to this wknd? (then if she free)...come through xyz day, we havent hung out in a while"
we gotta stop spending resources on women who cant even make it easy for us. sometimes these women need to feel like they will lose our attn/an opportunity with us if they arent reciprocating or investing anything themselves. let someone else be her meal ticket