Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[Ohene]

It's funny how much more discerning you are when you date as an older man. There was this gorgeous girl I met this year. 5'10, natural hair, supermodel kinda slender body with abs and all that. Nice smile. Very active/in the gym. 27 years old. Intelligent. Mix of African, Carribean and European - rather light skinned and very pretty. She's a solid 8/10. We would get along. She would show interest and initiate conversations. She was down to link whenever I wanted to for the most part. However...

- Gen-Z (not inherently bad, but still a barrier)
- Would always mention how she was an overthinker / anxious kinda person
- Mentioned "fumbling the bag" because an athlete wanted to hit and she wouldnt let him
(she's only had sex with one dude before and is celibate outside of relationships)
- Divorced parents
- Cheated on her ex before
- Septum piercing in one of her IG pics
- Criticized my furnishings when she visited
- Asked me how many fights i've been in as an adult (0)

Just too many red flags lol; the underlined is a strict non-starter for me. A 24 year old me mightve seen where it could go, or at least wouldve tried to smash but she's a nice girl. A 34 year old me knows not to waste my or her time. She's better as a friend, perhaps even an adoptive little sister

 

[Ohene]

A great, underrated aspect about talking to multiple women or having a roster is being able to compare the women in real time to see who’s worth commitment, who’s delusional and who is tweaking and letting the women weed themselves out as my friend says

You also become immune to their manipulation tactics. One girl was confused my lack of overt affection despite all the efforts i put in. Things were going really well and even though we all already smashed (I’m talking crazy sessions) she tried to take p*ssy / home visits off the table so we could build a better foundation as friends. I said alright cool and just focused on another chick i was talking to and friend zoned chick number one. Her and i would still link but i wasn’t showing as much interest. Before two weeks she was panicking and put p*ssy back on the table lol, damn near begging to come over.

Often times we as men give in to the tests of women to maintain the peace/avoid conflict/keep getting p*ssy. Other times we drive ourselves crazy trying to understand what we did wrong to cause women to tweak out. More often than not we ain’t did shyt and talking to multiple women keeps you grounded/rational enough to realize such until you find somebody you actually want

 

[Ahadi]

Black female MAGA grifter from glancing her channel

Def a grifter

Im seeing a lot of BW chameleons doing these reaction type of videos

As far as I know, Crimson Cure is really about it.

 

[Ohene]

Im seeing a lot of BW chameleons doing these reaction type of videos

As far as I know, Crimson Cure is really about it.

It’s easy money if they’re attractive

 

[Ahadi]

It's funny how much more discerning you are when you date as an older man. There was this gorgeous girl I met this year. 5'10, natural hair, supermodel kinda slender body with abs and all that. Nice smile. Very active/in the gym. 27 years old. Intelligent. Mix of African, Carribean and European - rather light skinned and very pretty. She's a solid 8/10. We would get along. She would show interest and initiate conversations. She was down to link whenever I wanted to for the most part. However...

- Gen-Z (not inherently bad, but still a barrier)
- Would always mention how she was an overthinker / anxious kinda person
- Mentioned "fumbling the bag" because an athlete wanted to hit and she wouldnt let him
(she's only had sex with one dude before and is celibate outside of relationships)
- Divorced parents
- Cheated on her ex before
- Septum piercing in one of her IG pics
- Criticized my furnishings when she visited
- Asked me how many fights i've been in as an adult (0)

Just too many red flags lol; the underlined is a strict non-starter for me. A 24 year old me mightve seen where it could go, or at least wouldve tried to smash but she's a nice girl. A 34 year old me knows not to waste my or her time. She's better as a friend, perhaps even an adoptive little sister

27 year old fantasizing about fumbling an athlete lol.

DiCaprio is on to something with that 25 and under.

At this point, I don’t wana exchange energy with losers because I don’t want that juice on me

 

[jay83]

27 year old fantasizing about fumbling an athlete lol.

DiCaprio is on to something with that 25 and under.

At this point, I don’t wana exchange energy with losers because I don’t want that juice on me

As an older man you realize being beautiful is only attractive if she is on your program and contributes to your life. Because what’s the point of having a baddie that don’t listen and worships TikTok, or brings drama to your life? Unless you are a dude that’s bored or no direction in your life it’s a liability to you.

 

[Apollo Creed]

As an older man you realize being beautiful is only attractive if she is on your program and contributes to your life. Because what’s the point of having a baddie that don’t listen and worships TikTok, or brings drama to your life? Unless you are a dude that’s bored or no direction in your life it’s a liability to you.

The issue is like 85% of people worship social media and their brains have rotted and lot of these rich dudes get their women from Escort Services/Trafficking rings but nobody wants to talk about that.

 

[jay83]

The issue is like 85% of people worship social media and their brains have rotted and lot of these rich dudes get their women from Escort Services/Trafficking rings but nobody wants to talk about that.

And this isn’t just America. TikTok has a chokehold on damn near any country you visit. It’s crazy how many women are pay for play. That’s why I like modesty in women which is very rare.

 

[Apollo Creed]

And this isn’t just America. TikTok has a chokehold on damn near any country you visit. It’s crazy how many women are pay for play. That’s why I like modesty in women which is very rare.

Even Muslim chicks minds fried lol this shyt dunzo

 

[RealAssanova]

It's funny how much more discerning you are when you date as an older man. There was this gorgeous girl I met this year. 5'10, natural hair, supermodel kinda slender body with abs and all that. Nice smile. Very active/in the gym. 27 years old. Intelligent. Mix of African, Carribean and European - rather light skinned and very pretty. She's a solid 8/10. We would get along. She would show interest and initiate conversations. She was down to link whenever I wanted to for the most part. However...

- Gen-Z (not inherently bad, but still a barrier)
- Would always mention how she was an overthinker / anxious kinda person
- Mentioned "fumbling the bag" because an athlete wanted to hit and she wouldnt let him
(she's only had sex with one dude before and is celibate outside of relationships)
- Divorced parents
- Cheated on her ex before
- Septum piercing in one of her IG pics
- Criticized my furnishings when she visited
- Asked me how many fights i've been in as an adult (0)

Just too many red flags lol; the underlined is a strict non-starter for me. A 24 year old me mightve seen where it could go, or at least wouldve tried to smash but she's a nice girl. A 34 year old me knows not to waste my or her time. She's better as a friend, perhaps even an adoptive little sister

How can she cheat on her bf but yet says she only slept with 1 dude?

These hoes think we gullible

And notice how hoes always say the celibate AFTER gettin dogged out or fukkin outside of relationships alot…

But never before?

Virgins are the only one’s that can say they wanna remain celibate.

 

[Panther]

How can she cheat on her bf but yet says she only slept with 1 dude?

These hoes think we gullible

And notice how hoes always say the celibate AFTER gettin dogged out or fukkin outside of relationships alot…

But never before?

Virgins are the only one’s that can say they wanna remain celibate.

 

[Ohene]

How can she cheat on her bf but yet says she only slept with 1 dude?

These hoes think we gullible

And notice how hoes always say the celibate AFTER gettin dogged out or fukkin outside of relationships alot…

But never before?

Virgins are the only one’s that can say they wanna remain celibate.

I thought the exact same shyt lol

Perhaps she considers kissing or going on a date cheating. That celibate shyt is a non starter unless a woman a virgin

Iunno
I just sit back and take notes when they speak lol

 

[Ohene]

As an older man you realize being beautiful is only attractive if she is on your program and contributes to your life. Because what’s the point of having a baddie that don’t listen and worships TikTok, or brings drama to your life? Unless you are a dude that’s bored or no direction in your life it’s a liability to you.

Exactly
Thats why for me its such a big test if a woman comes to my place and criticizes my decor. It tells how superficial they are and if they are willing to get with my program.

How you enter the home of somebody whos feeding you, entertaining you etc but your are critiquing his home? Nah I’m straight

 

[Panther]

Exactly
Thats why for me its such a big test if a woman comes to my place and criticizes my decor. It tells how superficial they are and if they are willing to get with my program.

How you enter the home of somebody whos feeding you, entertaining you etc but your are critiquing his home? Nah I’m straight

I had an ex from college (we're in our 30s now) tell me how she thought more men would have "instagram apartments" and she felt let down when a new dude she was dating didn't have that

The algo got these women in a chokehold.

EX

 

[WIA20XX]

I had an ex from college (we're in our 30s now) tell me how she thought more men would have "instagram apartments"

As a quick tangent, there are plenty of interior design subs on reddit.

To use their langauge, most of the posts on these subs are "female coded"

https://www.reddit.com/r/interiordecorating/

Here's a perfect example of a space meant for 2 people, but it's female dominated



There was just one "safe space" for guys that wanted help

r/malelivingspace

r/malelivingspace: MaleLivingSpace is dedicated to places where men can live. Here you can find posts discussing, showing, improving, and …

www.reddit.com

But because they can't let anything exist without a woman's touch...

https://www.reddit.com/r/femalelivingspace/

I know that these broads have nesting instincts, they have aesthetics - but they really do try to overlay the world with their preferences, and then claim it's an issue when they're not listened to.