i think people are more honest anonymously. I know many married couples who put on great fronts whether it be at church, or just anywhere. But get them one on one and the dirt starts to spill.
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i think people are more honest anonymously. I know many married couples who put on great fronts whether it be at church, or just anywhere. But get them one on one and the dirt starts to spill.
you've already put her on a pedestal, only qualities you listed about her is physical and her so called smartness. You know really nothing about her, see when you barely see someone you'll always see them at their best there will be no off day so they look better and sweeter than they really are.
It's like if my house is always messy but i know you'll be over once in awhile, ill clean my house on those days and give off like this is how it's always kept when in reality its not. The same with women you rarely see, everything is perfect, she hasn't confided in you yet. You haven't seen her at her worst, at her bytchiness.
Never tell a woman how you feel about them right off the bet, again don't give the power, as crossbones wrote you are such a eager young pup ready to commit and give your all even though you know nothing about her.
PATIENCE is the key, PATIENCE. I've been there in my younger days, thinking a girl is all that and ready to give up my commitment right away without truly getting to know her.
can't spell sex without the ex
, only once in my life have I had sex with an ex and she ended up getting pregnant (but miscarried). I wouldn't recommend it. You reopen old wounds.
why?
Why did I have sex with her? Or why do I think I've heaved myself into another realm of fukkery?
the latter. you fukked, that through. what else is there to consider?
can't spell sex without the ex
I feel ya, breh. Some true words. Hung out with her for the first time, and there was hardly no attention paid to the now, lots of talk referencing what happened in the past. Was weird as shyt
I, myself, don't really have anything to consider. I'm numb to a lot, and I don't think about shyt, at least I don't try to. My fukkery comment was in regards to the fact that she's in an open relationship with someone, who has a tendency of popping up without calling first, and she made it seem like there may be a moment when I'm about to smash, and that guy pulls up. Plus, I just have a strong sense that it won't just be a casual thing. Too much mushy, sentimental shyt arose in her sentences. Bleh, I dunno.
You neglected to mention that this was going to be a recurring event - you smashing her. And she's got someone who's prone to popping up outta nowhere?!
Get out now and save yourself more than an awkward conversation breh.
This is also very good advice.
I was thinking of hitting her with something along the lines of "I think you're a smart interesting woman and I want to get to know you better" or some shyt
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Yall dont ever have them days where yall want somebody to come home to??? A women that would put Your mind at ease as soon as you walk in the door after a long stessful day, somebody that'll hold down be there for you a 100%.???
Idk mabey its just the old simp in me....
Idk mabey its just the old simp in me....
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^^^ we do want that but we also know that thats rare in these times. breh i recently had my soul ethered by a chick and wish i ain't move so fast. focus on yourself breh. trust the brothers in here they know what they're falling about.
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Thats another thing to breh, just like women most of ys make that mistake on moving to fast or "falling to fast" so we end up getting hurt in the process
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In the documentary The Last Days of Left Eye, TLC member Lisa "Left Eye" Lopes said she was 100% against the release of "Creep" as a single, and threatened to wear black tape over her mouth in the music video. She thought that when a girl finds out that her man is cheating on her, the girl better leave rather than cheat back.
didn't she burn down dude house for cheating? And after that they still were together for a minute
That's not simping. That's what most men want. Simping is throwing away all of your dignity to obtain a woman's affection and constantly excusing their bad behavior.
The problem is, there are few women that will deliver on what you're asking without you having to look over your shoulder and wonder what she is doing. We live in a culture that promotes promiscuity and actively tells women to act based on her emotions. Combine that with countless options that allow her to interact with members of the opposite sex who are very thirsty, and you have what we have today... Its tough finding a decent woman, which is why I keep telling cats when you have one, you better hold on.
This is a very interesting read
http://www.westernwomensuck.com/2013/06/03/im-a-feminist/
It shows how much cultural programming here in America has destroyed gender relations.
http://www.westernwomensuck.com/2013/06/03/im-a-feminist/
It shows how much cultural programming here in America has destroyed gender relations.