Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Going out with her isn't going to kill you. You're planning all these awkward situations when you don't even know if you can enjoy a 1-on-1 conversation with her yet.

Just do it.


Going out with her could end a good friendship I have with her exs brothers. I know she and I can hold convos because we have in the past. She's not an unknown for me we met 5 years ago and I have been around her enough to know she's a good person. She's pretty much a sure thing knowing what I know of her and how we get a long.


I'll give her a few months even though she's going to be at my nephews birthday party this weekend.
 

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Real talk, never ruin what you have with your patnas over these women. Sooner or later, these women expose themselves and you will look back on a ruined relationship with your homies like, "Man, I was tripping." You'll have lost a life-long comrade and that seemingly perfect woman will be on to the next man.
 

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The sooner you all realize that the game is severely fukked up is the sooner the game gets easier.

There was a time when we could take the p*ssy. Why did we stop doing that? Seriously, why?

There was a time when we could beat our wives because they deserve to get flexed on. But that has stopped. Again, I ask, why?

We have held the power...and we continue to hold the power. What man decided to make it such a taboo to take the p*ssy and to beat the p*ssy if it deserves it?

I am more than curious of such a scenario. Now, look at this, a humongous thread on playing games with inferior people. You have GOT, to be kidding me. Are we not men? Do we not have the superior muscle? Are we not the maker and owner of weapons? Are we not the more logical thinkers? Have we not been the forefront creating everything that actually matters?

Why is it that man subjects upon himself undesirable circumstances?

Is the behavior of modern women, deserving of our unwavering gratitude? Are you attempting to be comedic?

I'll tell you a few things, modern woman is resisting a system that has worked since the beginning of man. The weaker sex, the child bearers, the one that submits to man, the cooker, cleaner the humble one. Why not, after all? They are inferior.

Instantly thought of this




with that said, i think it's best to have a willing partner in everything so can't cosign the "take it approach"
 

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Going out with her could end a good friendship I have with her exs brothers. I know she and I can hold convos because we have in the past. She's not an unknown for me we met 5 years ago and I have been around her enough to know she's a good person. She's pretty much a sure thing knowing what I know of her and how we get a long.


I'll give her a few months even though she's going to be at my nephews birthday party this weekend.
You sound too worried about "what if's" that don't even matter. Those dudes would not spare your feelings if it was the other way around.
 

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The gem that was dropped in this thread about setting the direction of what YOU want to do on a date was golden. Don't leave the decision making up to the female, you choose the activity and she's either with it or she can get going. :salute: to whoever made that statement.

It's also a good gauge of a womans interest level.

For example a female I've been dealing with has made it clear that she doesn't like going to a certain place so I told her I'm going to this place she doesn't like and asked if her if she wanted to come.

Of course she came along and didn't complain once.
 

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It's also a good gauge of a womans interest level.

For example a female I've been dealing with has made it clear that she doesn't like going to a certain place so I told her I'm going to this place she doesn't like and asked if her if she wanted to come.

Of course she came along and didn't complain once.
:ld:
 

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u want a guy too treat u right but then u shyt on the guy who treats u right and go too the guy who is an @sshole and get heartbroken and then proceed too go back too the guy who treated u right but that guy became a @sshole because you treated him like shyt and u get heartbroken again and then say there aint no good men when in return u started a new cycle of @sshole men cuz u shytted on the good guy cuz he treated u right and now he is an @sshole due too heartbreak

let that sink in your mind for a min when u say aint not good guys out there :ufdup:

ive always been that guy who treated them right, every girl i have ever dated has always tried to come back thats when you give em the :umadqueen:
 

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Women’s relationships today follow a very
predictable pattern:

  • They push men for commitment
  • They get what they want
  • They lose interest in sex
  • They become attracted to someone else
  • They start cheating
  • They begin telling their partners that they need time apart
  • They blame their partners for their behavior…and eventually, after a long time of vacillating back and forth, they end their relationships or marriages.
If you’re a male, like most other males, you would probably never suspect that your partner is cheating, not only because of your wife’s or girlfriend’s seeming disinterest in sex; but also because you have the belief that your wife or girlfriend is a “good girl.” Unfortunately, males are frequently left/divorced by their wives and girlfriends without ever knowing about their wives’ and girlfriends’ infidelities.

If you’re a female, like most other females, prior to cheating on your partner you always proclaimed yourself to be “not the type” who would ever cheat. However, also like most other females, after they have cheated, you’re shocked and appalled by your behavior; but at the same time you can’t stop cheating.
 

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yep
any date I go on, its something I like/love to do

so say i never hear from teh person again, or im not feeling them im having a great time regardless and i planned on doing it regardless.

Headed to the movies soon, I know she wants to see best man holiday, but I'm gonna see hunger games 2 instead.. I win regardless :manny:
 

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The behavior you will get from women is the behavior you will accept. As a man, you should be a leader ALL the time. Your leadership is not contingent on whether or not some woman will accept your leadership. In other words, you should be in firm control of your life at all times and know what you want and continually be in the process of making moves to handle your business. You do not magically fluctuate in and out of leadership based upon whether some particular woman gives you affirmation at some point in time. Either you are in control of your life and constantly demand headship or you don't.

Your mission is not to convince a woman why she should accept your leadership. Your job is to give her an opportunity to be under your leadership. There is a distinct difference there. Think about your job. Your boss isn't going to try to convince you to as to why you should do what he says. If you don't follow orders, you either will be fired or you won't get hired in the first place. It's the same thing with women. You don't attempt to convince them or argue with them as to why they should be under your leadership. You should always maintain that if they are to deal with you, then they will have to be under your leadership or else they don't get to deal with you... and it's important you stand on that principle or else you will never be accorded your proper respect.
 
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