Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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Virtuous_Brotha
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usually they end it once they feel they have sucked the man dry of everything he's got,everything is so one sided these days nothing in it for the man.
Cashier Chronicles:
@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @Atlrocafella @Sachs, Fifth Avenue @BreezyH @twan83@Dooby
You guys remember me discussing in here recently how I think as a masterpeice as this thread is that we have been focusing TOO MUCH on the relationship aspect when it comes to women? I still believe so. We have to remember the thread is about "gems of dealing with women" but the gems don't necessarily have to always be from a relationship aspect or mindset. It can be like what i brought up before about other moments in life like in our jobs. And this could be the perfect thing to get going because it would be interesting if all of us discuss for the next couple of pages how women interact with you as CUSTOMERS...
Depending on if any of you have any retail jobs or things of that nature to make a judgement.
A lady came to my register with 2 shopping carts each full of stuff by herself...I started bagging for her and she was still not finished with the first cart and putting stuff up....i suddenly stop what i am doing and im just looking at my screen, looking at my food code book,etc ....she is looking up every couple of seconds to see what is the issue and giving me this
look and after i get annoyed i tell her in a calm voice "Miss I can't bag the rest of your stuff if you still have bags up here(she still had not picked up anything i bagged in the cart)
Whether she was faking or not....the broad starts talking about "Oh my god i'm so sorry i did not know what you were looking at me for" and then throughout the rest of the entire time she starts acting extra nice and saying "Thank you" every second
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I have been getting very good at this now and holding my ground and have been still been witnessing first hand this epidemic...Turbulent I know you brought up to be "happy" but this is why you cannot be happy in the sense of "happy go lucky Magic Johnson" type of happiness because you will get killed for it.....its like being a pool of venom with these beasts. That doesn't mean though i am saying im gonna come to there "defeated' just saying i am gonna have my guard up and become adept at handling them.
MULTIPLE times yesterday I had women just throw up their keys with the reward card up on the conveyer belt...It is not as big an issue as when its the card itself that they put up(but its still a bit annoying). But you guys in here know how when you have your car or house keys with a million other cards on it? Basically what i mean by this is think about if any of you were throwing up those keys that had your Subway card on it, your macys card, cvs, target, duane reade,etc....
That is the kind of lack of class I get on a consistent basis. With one lady i just gave her back the keys
and said "miss can you show me your pathmark card" and she did it..
@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @Atlrocafella @Sachs, Fifth Avenue @BreezyH @twan83@Dooby
You guys remember me discussing in here recently how I think as a masterpeice as this thread is that we have been focusing TOO MUCH on the relationship aspect when it comes to women? I still believe so. We have to remember the thread is about "gems of dealing with women" but the gems don't necessarily have to always be from a relationship aspect or mindset. It can be like what i brought up before about other moments in life like in our jobs. And this could be the perfect thing to get going because it would be interesting if all of us discuss for the next couple of pages how women interact with you as CUSTOMERS...Depending on if any of you have any retail jobs or things of that nature to make a judgement.
A lady came to my register with 2 shopping carts each full of stuff by herself...I started bagging for her and she was still not finished with the first cart and putting stuff up....i suddenly stop what i am doing and im just looking at my screen, looking at my food code book,etc ....she is looking up every couple of seconds to see what is the issue and giving me this
look and after i get annoyed i tell her in a calm voice "Miss I can't bag the rest of your stuff if you still have bags up here(she still had not picked up anything i bagged in the cart)Whether she was faking or not....the broad starts talking about "Oh my god i'm so sorry i did not know what you were looking at me for" and then throughout the rest of the entire time she starts acting extra nice and saying "Thank you" every second
.I have been getting very good at this now and holding my ground and have been still been witnessing first hand this epidemic...Turbulent I know you brought up to be "happy" but this is why you cannot be happy in the sense of "happy go lucky Magic Johnson" type of happiness because you will get killed for it.....its like being a pool of venom with these beasts. That doesn't mean though i am saying im gonna come to there "defeated' just saying i am gonna have my guard up and become adept at handling them.
MULTIPLE times yesterday I had women just throw up their keys with the reward card up on the conveyer belt...It is not as big an issue as when its the card itself that they put up(but its still a bit annoying). But you guys in here know how when you have your car or house keys with a million other cards on it? Basically what i mean by this is think about if any of you were throwing up those keys that had your Subway card on it, your macys card, cvs, target, duane reade,etc....
That is the kind of lack of class I get on a consistent basis. With one lady i just gave her back the keys
and said "miss can you show me your pathmark card" and she did it..
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Cashier Chronicles:
@His_Excellence_Reincar @kevm3 @Turbulent @Atlrocafella @Sachs, Fifth Avenue @BreezyH @twan83
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Depending on if any of you have any retail jobs or things of that nature to make a judgement.
A lady came to my register with 2 shopping carts each full of stuff by herself...I started bagging for her and she was still not finished with the first cart and putting stuff up....i suddenly stop what i am doing and im just looking at my screen, looking at my food code book,etc ....she is looking up every couple of seconds to see what is the issue and giving me this
Whether she was faking or not....the broad starts talking about "Oh my god i'm so sorry i did not know what you were looking at me for" and then throughout the rest of the entire time she starts acting extra nice and saying "Thank you" every second
I have been getting very good at this now and holding my ground and have been still been witnessing first hand this epidemic...Turbulent I know you brought up to be "happy" but this is why you cannot be happy in the sense of "happy go lucky Magic Johnson" type of happiness because you will get killed for it.....its like being a pool of venom with these beasts. That doesn't mean though i am saying im gonna come to there "defeated' just saying i am gonna have my guard up and become adept at handling them.
MULTIPLE times yesterday I had women just throw up their keys with the reward card up on the conveyer belt...It is not as big an issue as when its the card itself that they put up(but its still a bit annoying). But you guys in here know how when you have your car or house keys with a million other cards on it? Basically what i mean by this is think about if any of you were throwing up those keys that had your Subway card on it, your macys card, cvs, target, duane reade,etc....
That is the kind of lack of class I get on a consistent basis. With one lady i just gave her back the keys
nowadays people are so scared of confrontation that they're willing to simp just to keep the peace. i've been there, playing the nice guy role with people (not just women) in order to keep the peace, but it rarely got me what i wanted/needed. unfortunately, you gotta have some kind of edge to you to get things done - even the basic stuff nowadays. i know it's touchy with you working your job, but you should never be made to take disrespect. you handled it in a way where if the customer escalated it, then it would be clear who was in the wrong.
breh.nowadays people are so scared of confrontation that they're willing to simp just to keep the peace. i've been there, playing the nice guy role with people (not just women) in order to keep the peace, but it rarely got me what i wanted/needed. unfortunately, you gotta have some kind of edge to you to get things done - even the basic stuff nowadays. i know it's touchy with you working your job, but you should never be made to take disrespect. you handled it in a way where if the customer escalated it, then it would be clear who was in the wrong.
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nowadays people are so scared of confrontation that they're willing to simp just to keep the peace. i've been there, playing the nice guy role with people (not just women) in order to keep the peace, but it rarely got me what i wanted/needed. unfortunately, you gotta have some kind of edge to you to get things done - even the basic stuff nowadays. i know it's touchy with you working your job, but you should never be made to take disrespect. you handled it in a way where if the customer escalated it, then it would be clear who was in the wrong.
Thanks Breh. It is still a work in progress though ...I still think I need to work on certain things though. Pain in the ass to not go one day without dealing with the "price picking" aka "I thought this was___price....the fliar said___type of people who do not know how to read and take out their nonsense onto you and treat you like a dictionary."
You having to put up with folks DAILY asking stuff like "are you open"?(most of them do this) even when your register light above CLEARLY says you are...then when you say you are closed, have the nerve to say things like "I only have one thing" ....I only have____" basically showing that they could care less about you as a person it is primarily about them. This is the type of thing women do everyday and its ironic to me because i wonder if these same women will go around and be hypocrites and tell their children not to act a certain way(but its fine for they the parent to act like a fool towards people like me) or even more hilarious they downplay how they acted.
The sad thing is that these females start to show their true colors around this time of the winter Holiday season....whether through relationships or professional situations in life like my job...They portray how capitalism can be a dangerous thing especially for these Women. No class at all and cannot function like mature adults in public and come across like children who are raising other children. If a child is raising a child it is no wonder why we get stuck in this predicament of how children end up growing up as.
Yep, we've been taught to be a 'tolerant' and don't stir the waters type of society. We're told that the customer is always right and encouraged to always avoid trouble or confrontation. All this does is enable bad behavior to go on. Men should be PRINCIPLED. We shouldn't always sit around thinking of what someone is feeling and whether they will like us or not. This is especially true in dealing with women. The last thing you should be thinking of is whether she likes what you are doing. Worrying about whether someone is liking your actions puts you in a state of subservience. What if they don't like what you are about to do, but what you are about to do is the right thing? You just won't do it? You should focus on being fair and doing the right thing, and not being liked. This principle extends from everything to dealing with women to your everyday life.
change in mentality due to this thread got me in a great position brehs.. My options are amazing!
Mr Hate Coffee
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So my ex has been reading my posts on this site and this thread. 
Talk about an interesting conversation...
Talk about an interesting conversation...
George Gooney
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So my ex has been reading my posts on this site and this thread.
Talk about an interesting conversation...
Wow she posts here?So my ex has been reading my posts on this site and this thread.
Talk about an interesting conversation...
It's all gravy. What we're kicking is the real, so if you stand behind it 100%, I don't see what she can complain about. What woman can complain about being with a quality man who demands a quality woman and doesn't play any games with him or with her?
Mr Hate Coffee
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Nah. She found out about the coli when that loser Morethan1 infiltrated her haircare board awhile back. Recently she got curious and searched my user name and saw a lot of my old posts.
Yeah that's real. Although I felt (and told her this) that it's like an invasion of privacy. I know this is a public forum but this is no different than me kicking it with my homies having a private conversation. I kinda felt bad because she caught one of my posts where I was really mad and made some disparaging remarks about her. But I still stand by the fact that this is MY comfort zone and reading my posts is unfair.
