Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[PaperEnterprise]

I'm 32. Younger girls seek older men because they feel guys closer to their age are not goal oriented or immature (yeah dumb bytch I was the same way lol) I only am more focused and comfortable because I wasted my time during the days I should have been focused on school. Older woman, majority of the time are bitter and very scared to try again and if they do...they fukk with guys that they always complain about...lesson in life, don't try to change a woman, a real good girl will compliment you and you do the same for her. I stress this with all my heart, do not date girls that have too many male friends...these girls tend to make decisions like they have men figured out LOL. I had a girl tell me I grew up with mad guy friends and I've seen how they treated bytches and I know what all guys want...waste of time and energy. Last advice, if you with a girl for a while in your mid twenties and you are having minor relationship issues...work them out. do not make other peoples left over bytches your headache. I personally date younger girls, like 24-28 and have a better time with them then older bitter woman. A lot of jewels in this thread and some bias comments too LOL. Peace

 

[360dagod]

they want to keep you in the loop and give you that false hope here and there while at the same time stroking her ego. I remember this one joint bout 3-4 years ago who i wanted. Funny thing is, after i spoke to her in class...she did the rest. Long story short, i asked her out one weekend, she made some bs excuse up and i said cool and walked away. She texts me bout 20 mins later talmbout "i hope this doesn't change things between us. You're really sweet ______". All i said to her bout 4-5 hours later "no biggie." Needless to say, we stopped communicating and i didn't give a shyt. Saw her the other day at school and we don't acknowledge one another.

Only fakkits stay friends and shyt with a women they fukked. Like how the hell can you be friends with someone you constantly dug out, ate out (if that's what you do) and a whole bunch of other shyt? Like how does that even work?

lemme tell you, it doesn't. Women got 0 logic. Do you and fukk what she thinks. She is a past and you don't carry your past with you forward. You learn from it.

Staying friends with women you fukked and staying friends with women you had relationships with is 2 different things

 

[MikelArteta]

Staying friends never works trust me. Old feelings will pop up, you'll feel weird when she's saying someone new, she will feel jealous when you are.

You can't discuss certain things, who here wants to get in a relationship with a girl whose friends with their exes?

Exactly

 

[MikelArteta]

Never lend women money and they are ungrateful

About two years ago I lent 1,000 bucks to my god sons mother as she finally got a job and found a place to live [this was after 4 months she lived in my sisters house rent free]

Anyways I was told I'd get it back asap, I sat back and watched as she bought new clothes, take out, a new television and still never got q cent back. I sat back as she got her hair done, went away on vacation splurged here and there.

Then she lost her job and went on ei, for a good 8 months unemployed many months I went outof my way and bought ggroceries when she had nothing.


Anyways her ei was about to run out so I took her resume and fixed it up @Sachs, Fifth Avenue

And started applying for her lazy ass and ended up getting her like 20 interviews in two weeks, she ended up with a job paying like 45k a year as a single mom with really no education (she was applying for Tim Horton's and McDonalds)

So you would think like hey this guy got me a job I Stoll owe him 1,000 I should pay up. Nah more clothes, more trip planning saving for a car. Even worse shipping my god son a hour away to live with his dad because she doesn't want to pay daycare.

I finally asked for my money back last week in installments mind you installments and she snapped at me like I had some nerve asking back for my money.

Stuff like this is why I ain't helping out no broad ever again, and no I didn't want to smash and no I didn't want anything in return just respect and my money back

 

[MikelArteta]

The good old monkey tree branch have a branch lines up before they jump

And yep women will rationalize even cheating

Hell never believe a word about a woman's past relationship,

She tried playing it off at first like she just wanted to see how I was doing. But it didn't take long for her to start airing out her husband and reminiscing about us. That's what dudes don't understand about most women they can rationalize any decision they make no matter how foul. And they won't just end their relationship unless they have someone else already lined up beforehand. So if the relationship starts going bad best believe she got your replacement lined up way before you break up.

 

[MikelArteta]

In the same situation as you but I'm getting my money back.

I guaranteed if they borrowed from anyone elsethey would pay back but tthey think they have you and can disrespect you

i was thinking of texting her once a month just a week before the due date, so she knows to pay up. That way the ether will hit her and i'm at least trying to get my money back. Do this for the next 3 months and maybe i get the 70% of it back.

 

[NerdNash]

Just be the best you can be and the female situation will work itself out

 

[KeysT]

I'm talking to a chick now that deletes all of her messages, phone , facebook everything..She says that this is because she is OCD and she like everything organized. I just think its weird. I know it sounds bad..

 

[MikelArteta]

Shes hiding ratchet posts and text msg to diff guys .

I'm talking to a chick now that deletes all of her messages, phone , facebook everything..She says that this is because she is OCD and she like everything organized. I just think its weird. I know it sounds bad..

 

[KeysT]

Shes hiding ratchet posts and text msg to diff guys .

lol she might be man. She is Portuguese so shes not really ratchet or American but she might be hiding messages .. or she could just be weird. Idk man she seems legit like she wouldnt hide messages from dudes..

 

[MikelArteta]

Because she's Portuguese means nothing, ethnicity has nothing to do with ratchet lying behaviour. Every woman seems like they wouldn't do this or that but trust me.

lol she might be man. She is Portuguese so shes not really ratchet or American but she might be hiding messages .. or she could just be weird. Idk man she seems legit like she wouldnt hide messages from dudes..

 

[The Frozen One]

In the same situation as you but I'm getting my money back.

I guaranteed if they borrowed from anyone elsethey would pay back but tthey think they have you and can disrespect you

Have you got any of it back?

any tips or advice? When I last talked to her she said she's gonna pay. She's even on my cell phone account and keeps telling me she'll take the line, but is too busy (lie cause she has 0 credit and needs to pay to get an account)

I'm thinking of using that to threaten her to make a payment. Since I control the account, I'll tell her that I'm cancelling the line asap unless she pays me. How long do you think I should wait?

Ya this bytch was really dependent on me

 

[MikelArteta]

All women will tell you "they are not like that"

Early on , all you see is their best behaviour. Some of the most foul mouth women out there turn to delicate pristine creatures in your presence if they know you don't curse.

They've all been hurt in the past and cheated on . They all have great attributes to make you wonder wow how are they single its all a mirage,

 

[MikelArteta]

Haven't got a cent, told her to start paying me back in January, even if its 50 a month. I know if she borrowed from her baby father etc. She would have paid back but she views me as soft and nice because of all the things I've done for her and her child (godson)

Are you paying that phone bill?

You learned your lesson like I did how ungrateful and users women can be., sad thing is you do it out of kindness not expecting anything

Have you got any of it back?

any tips or advice? When I last talked to her she said she's gonna pay. She's even on my cell phone account and keeps telling me she'll take the line, but is too busy (lie cause she has 0 credit and needs to pay to get an account)

I'm thinking of using that to threaten her to make a payment. Since I control the account, I'll tell her that I'm cancelling the line asap unless she pays me. How long do you think I should wait?

Ya this bytch was really dependent on me

 

[The Frozen One]

Haven't got a cent, told her to start paying me back in January, even if its 50 a month. I know if she borrowed from her baby father etc. She would have paid back but she views me as soft and nice because of all the things I've done for her and her child (godson)

Are you paying that phone bill?

You learned your lesson like I did how ungrateful and users women can be., sad thing is you do it out of kindness not expecting anything

Nah she paid for it herself she knew how much the cost is per month and I told her last week how much she gotta pay for the next 2 months. Luckily she's not on a contract cause I got her the phone as a gift so she's not on my account under contract. What she doesn't know is that I can call the company right now and cancel it right away. I told her 2 weeks she's got but she begged and pleaded saying it's not a good time she's busy yada yada .. I told her fine a month but now I just want her out of my life period.