Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Yeah, I can't allow behavior like this. I'm not mad because I used to being stood up before. And the main thing is when I text her after we agree to kick it, she text "k love". That was the first time i seen her use that "l" word around me. I'm not really attached to her and i'm not going to tolerate disrespect but a part of me is still checking my phone for a response because I do like kicking with her. :sadcam:

These bytches...:beli::shaq2::wow:

women use that k love, k sweetheart, k babe to a bunch of guys,
 

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:russ: majority of you nikkas problems wouldn't of happened if you just asked yourself "am i gonna look like a bytch if i do this?"

please take these females off of a pedestal, they're humans just like us brehs, if you dont wanna deal with somebody, dont

readin this thread yall make shyt sound more difficult than it really is :russ:
 

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My ex called me today telling me that she misses me and wants to chill but just as friends. I told her that I don't think it's a good idea and that I can't look at her as a friend. She was getting upset about it and kept asking me why I can't be her friend and I snapped and literally told her exactly how I feel. I told her that I feel a combination of resentment, anger, rejection and acceptance...and now she feels some type of way about it.

I feel terrible, not because I made her feel bad but because I promised myself that I was gonna put an emotional wall up between me and her when she broke up with me but I had a moment of weakness. The feeling of vulnerability is a bytch.
 

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Man just put these women on the backburner. You deal with them or whatever, but you need to focus on experiencing and enjoying life in the billion of other ways you can experience life. That way you don't attach your feeling of satisfaction and stability to a woman. The less your feelings of satisfaction are tied to a woman, the less likely you are to accept the nonsense. Keep it simple. If she's playing games, she goes even further in the background. You just focus on doing something else.
 

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Guys,

How do you deal with getting stood up from a chic that you been dating for a while? This chic that I been seeing for about three months stood me up yesterday for a date. Pretty much, I text her on Saturday to see what days that she was free and she stated that she was free on Monday for a date. I called on Monday afternoon just to confirm but I didn't get a answer. I didn't receive any response from her for the rest of yesterday and so far today. I'm not going to call her until she contacts me but should I start preparing to send her to the bushes or just give her a firm warning if/when she responds? A part of me feel that I should have sent another text/call but I also know that she is around her phone so a missed call from me would have pop up and that should have trigger a reminder about our date for yesterday.

If she didn't get mugged at gunpoint or have an accident, then it's bushes. I wouldn't tolerate that shyt at all. You let it fly once, she'll do it again. Just delete her number and KIM.
 

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:russ: majority of you nikkas problems wouldn't of happened if you just asked yourself "am i gonna look like a bytch if i do this?"

please take these females off of a pedestal, they're humans just like us brehs, if you dont wanna deal with somebody, dont

readin this thread yall make shyt sound more difficult than it really is :russ:

Yeah, dudes need to start dealing with chicks how they deal with other dudes. You don't like a cat in your circle? You just don't fukk with him any more. There is no "should I call dude? Should we chill out and play PS3 or hit the clubs?" Just like how broads stop fukking with other broads they don't like.

We can KIM when it comes to dudes, we need to be the same way with females too. They thrive off attention and know damn well what they're doing. All the shyt they're pulling that we're reading in these last few pages alone is no accident....you can see a pattern here.

Easier said than done, I know, but this is why you have to be careful not to get too attached and work on self, first.
 

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My ex called me today telling me that she misses me and wants to chill but just as friends. I told her that I don't think it's a good idea and that I can't look at her as a friend. She was getting upset about it and kept asking me why I can't be her friend and I snapped and literally told her exactly how I feel. I told her that I feel a combination of resentment, anger, rejection and acceptance...and now she feels some type of way about it.

I feel terrible, not because I made her feel bad but because I promised myself that I was gonna put an emotional wall up between me and her when she broke up with me but I had a moment of weakness. The feeling of vulnerability is a bytch.

Oh her again, lol.
 

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Guys,

How do you deal with getting stood up from a chic that you been dating for a while? This chic that I been seeing for about three months stood me up yesterday for a date. Pretty much, I text her on Saturday to see what days that she was free and she stated that she was free on Monday for a date. I called on Monday afternoon just to confirm but I didn't get a answer. I didn't receive any response from her for the rest of yesterday and so far today. I'm not going to call her until she contacts me but should I start preparing to send her to the bushes or just give her a firm warning if/when she responds? A part of me feel that I should have sent another text/call but I also know that she is around her phone so a missed call from me would have pop up and that should have trigger a reminder about our date for yesterday.

To me that is extremely disrespectful. She can atleast be courteous enough to send a text saying sorry that she missed your call and that she'll either call back or that you can call her now. Or even a text saying sorry i missed your call was doing something, wassup? But she did nothing. Especially considering the fact that its 24 hours later. Com'on breh :beli:. I wouldn't tolerate that and neither should you. Don't do what so many other nikkaz do and think with their cocks instead of their logic.

Bushes and if she contacts you, do what she did to you and ignore it. Then that hoe will know how it feels to be ignored. If she blows you up after that, and i mean like 15 texts per day and 15 calls per day, respond non-nonchalantly and shorty is pretty much yours. If she doesn't, you saved yourself time, energy and money.
 
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Guys,

How do you deal with getting stood up from a chic that you been dating for a while? This chic that I been seeing for about three months stood me up yesterday for a date. Pretty much, I text her on Saturday to see what days that she was free and she stated that she was free on Monday for a date. I called on Monday afternoon just to confirm but I didn't get a answer. I didn't receive any response from her for the rest of yesterday and so far today. I'm not going to call her until she contacts me but should I start preparing to send her to the bushes or just give her a firm warning if/when she responds? A part of me feel that I should have sent another text/call but I also know that she is around her phone so a missed call from me would have pop up and that should have trigger a reminder about our date for yesterday.
let her go
 

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My ex called me today telling me that she misses me and wants to chill but just as friends. I told her that I don't think it's a good idea and that I can't look at her as a friend. She was getting upset about it and kept asking me why I can't be her friend and I snapped and literally told her exactly how I feel. I told her that I feel a combination of resentment, anger, rejection and acceptance...and now she feels some type of way about it.

I feel terrible, not because I made her feel bad but because I promised myself that I was gonna put an emotional wall up between me and her when she broke up with me but I had a moment of weakness. The feeling of vulnerability is a bytch.
We all go through it.

Don't give in. She basically wants you around as a friend because she sees potential in you in the FUTURE, women love doing shyt like this. Basically have fun for a while and if things don't work out with the guys she is really into right now, then contact @EA because you will take care of her.

:camby: IMMEDIATELY
 
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