When it comes down to it, you can approach things either like a King or a Peasant. Peasant type dudes constantly have it in their mind that they are low worth and need to 'prove' themselves to their woman. Since they view themselves as lower status than the woman, they are constantly concerned over 'what she thinks' and 'how to please her.' They allow her to lead and to have authority over him because she is his queen and he is her peasant. These peasants constantly defer, lavish unwarranted praise on their queen. They do not take control because they do not deem themselves worthy. They 'deal with' the behavior of their queen because they are inferior. On the other hand, the king doesn't seek to impress. He is the one who feels a woman should impress him. He doesn't tolerate misbehavior. He takes lead because he is ruler of his kingdom. When it comes down to it, who is of higher worth to a woman? A peasant or a king?
A lot of men don't realize that women want a man that is high value. Your ACTIONS and THOUGHTS determine your value. Things such as money, car, clothes, fame, etc., is secondary to your actions and thoughts. Things like money and fame attract a ton of women, but once the women have the fame illusion shattered, and once they've caught their superstar, they go reverting into treating these guys like trash like the average man because his actions come up weak. As a man, you need to continually refine your behavior so that you are engaging in high worth behavior. It's just like how a woman who has low self esteem and goes to a party and sleeps with 7 different dudes in a night. As a man, there are several different things you do to demonstrate you are low value to a woman. One of them is to constantly wait on her. Kings don't wait. They are waited on. Another is allowing disrespectful talk. When a woman can continually talk to you disrespectfully, your authority is undermined and you slowly become lower and lower in value in her eyes. When your value is rock bottom, she will leave or she will cheat on you or do a host of other disrespectful things to you. Kings feel no need to impress. They seek to please their queen, but they feel no need to impress her or to defer to her. The Bible even tells us that as a man, YOU are the head of the household.
Something you have to understand is that as a man, you have to ESTABLISH authority. One way you must do so is to not allow a woman who does not submit from entering your kingdom. Do not pay women who do not listen to you and who do not heed your instructions any attention. If you do not establish your authority by backing it by action, then it will never be established. You cannot 'logically' convince a woman to try to follow you and reason her into it. You must either tell her to accept it or to find the kind of man she is looking for. When someone is able to argue with you over your authority, you cease to have power. If you can argue with your boss constantly about why you should do something he tells you and you never get fired, you start to get the notion you are more powerful than him and eventually, you will try to usurp him or you will go somewhere else where stronger leadership is present. That is not to say you need to be some dictator who never listens to alternate opinions or who never listens to what his woman has to say. It means you must stay in charge and you must not let your authority be undermined;.
This is why having a host of interests other than women is so very important. You need to come to a point where women are something you desire, not something you absolutely must have no matter what. The latter puts you into a mentality of desperation and you will accept a lot of women into your life that you shouldn't. You will let women undermine you, disrespect you, play around with you, etc., because you feel that without female attention, your life will be in tatters. With that mentality, you will never be able to get respect. The truth is, it is better to be alone than with a woman who does not respect you.
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you've already made your decision.